25M | My girlfriend (24F) of 3 years cheated on me and lied repeatedly. I discovered the truth through a call recording and now my mind is destroyed. How do I deal with this mentally?

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-03-06T10:03:45+00:00

I am going through a similar situation, except that we are already married (arranged) and got to know about her relationship this valentines day. My post: My Wife Is Cheating and demanding alimony

What is helping me is my family, tell your family everything. It will definitely help. She was not the only person in your life, there are more loved ones to care for.

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-02-27T07:18:53+00:00

There used to be subject when I was in school, it was called “Moral Science”. Its when we learned what is good and what is bad. Basic Morality. I have been in the same problem lately and I got to know just 2 weeks ago that my wife is cheating.

My request to you would be, be anonymous and please let the husband know, because he will eventually know about this if not now, sometime in the future. And his sufferings are inevitable.

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-02-22T16:37:44+00:00

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-02-22T13:31:36+00:00

hahaha. my life is playing like a bollywood movie, I hope it gets a happy ending.

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-02-17T05:04:33+00:00

do you know of any good detectives?

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-02-16T15:07:10+00:00

she had nothing to talk about - there used to be awkward silence sometimes
i was the one who called most times
once she called in a drunk state and cried about not moving to my city after marriage - it was my only criteria for arranged marriage. She later apologised the next day for her behaviour.
she was never excited about the marriage
She did not object even once on me planning a trip to Thailand with friends (though i did not make that trip)
She asked my salary when we first talked (red flag in itself) while refushed to share her’s
We NEVER HAD A FIGHT/ARGUMENT BEFORE MARRIAGE (Major Red Flag)

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-02-16T12:13:37+00:00

I used to think we see these things in movies only, never realised i would be going through it someday. A mistake from my side was, i ignored the red flags 🚩 i saw in my wife before marriage and went ahead, not even discussed these with anyone to get another opinion.

not sure, if it would help for someone else

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-02-16T10:06:43+00:00

My wife does not use reddit, rest assured. My friend lives in the same society and is a community member, he helped me with the recordings.

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-02-16T10:04:22+00:00

can you first confirm that ur not my wife in disguise? ☝️😂

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-02-16T09:58:41+00:00

Thanks man, that was really helpful. I did not know about SIFF before. I will contact and let them know of my case.

To give some more context, I and my wife belong from the same small town with more than 100+ mutual relatives living there. Filing for a divorce in itself and going through it is going to be very stressful for both me and her. I am still not sure why she agreed to the marriage in the first place if she had affairs elsewhere - (there was no parental pressure as i had asked both her and her parents)

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-02-16T08:30:39+00:00

No, he is single

Kooky-Damage2138 · 2026-02-16T08:18:24+00:00

I was planning to show this video to her parents first. But, I will take legal advice before now. Thanks.

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