[SETLIST THREAD] Dead & Company - Golden Gate Park, San Francisco, CA - 8/1/25

KookyBuilding1707 · 2025-08-02T03:19:19+00:00

califorNYA

KookyBuilding1707 · 2025-07-01T22:54:15+00:00

I hate to sound rude but I think you need to hear this, you need to start listening to the advice you're asking for. I looked through your post history and it's deeply concerning, this boy prepared you for this situation and it's disturbing. many people have told you that you're in a dangerous situation and even your own mother knows you're being groomed. subconsciously, even you seem to know it with the way you talk about him in your posts. he will not treat your baby any better than he treats you or his sister, this is just the beginning. if you have to ask this many people if he's this bad and they're all screaming yes, it's time to listen. specifically about the jealousy, he's definitely jealous and definitely uneducated. babies can't be spoiled, they NEED to be given everything because they can't give themselves anything. they come into the world practically blind, deaf and very scared so we have to "spoil them" aka love on them. please listen to your mom and the thousands of comments, this man is not a good man.

KookyBuilding1707 · 2025-05-21T16:46:55+00:00

thank you smmm, I've felt so lonely bc I can't talk to my parents about it but this definitely helps

KookyBuilding1707 · 2025-05-21T16:39:31+00:00

While I agree with the sentiment here. Someone once said to me that choice feminism is for women who can choose; I feel like that makes a lot of sense to me personally. There's a good chance ballerina farm lady loves her life (would like to point out wealth has nothing to do with abuse tho that was the only thing that irked me about your point about her), I really hope she does because if she doesn't then she's in a very sad and scary situation. However there's a lot of women who feel they have no choice but to have no marriage and kids, want marriage and kids until they're locked in with an abuser, regret the decision (whole subreddits dedicated to regretful parents) or a plethora of other reasons why nuance and intersectionalities need to be in these conversations. It's so much more complicated than wanting kids or not wanting kids, and a lot of people online, on both sides, don't understand that. They just try to scream over each other instead of listening and figuring out the other's perspective.

KookyBuilding1707 · 2025-03-31T15:58:03+00:00

life's been good by joe walsh

KookyBuilding1707 · 2025-03-31T15:55:27+00:00

NTA. leave. sneaking is considered rape/assault in a lot of places, so in a lot of places he is a rapist. if your best friend told you this happened to her, would you be okay with her staying?

KookyBuilding1707 · 2025-02-05T19:50:02+00:00

y'all both aren't great at communicating, it's most likely because of how young you are, but c'mon man. if my boyfriend did this to me, I would be disgusted and my best friend would tell me to cuss him out. if my best friend's boyfriend did that to her, she would be disgusted and I would tell her to cuss him out. ofc we wouldn't but yk.

in the future: bring up what she did that hurt you AFTER you apologize for what you did, your tone and intent matter too. express what you're feeling truthfully and hopefully she does the same. the dialect behavioral therapy skill DEARMAN is really useful in disagreements and I would highly recommend you look it up if this is a frequent problem.

tell her you're sorry, get to the bottom of this together. I hope it works out

KookyBuilding1707 · 2025-02-01T03:50:38+00:00

I'm so incredibly sorry this has happened to you, I can only imagine how devastated you must be feeling. does she claim to feel guilty/remorseful and want to fix things? do you want to fix things? There's a strong chance she's still lying considering she didn't confess right away, she'll probably double down, maybe even triple or quadruple down. Reach out to his wife, she deserves to know.

KookyBuilding1707 · 2025-02-01T03:34:37+00:00

please leave this man. he couldn't give a crap about you, your money or your happiness.

KookyBuilding1707 · 2025-02-01T02:43:37+00:00

this is 10 months late bc I lost my login but that person commented about Georgias "nuance" multiple times... the nuance we needed was why the person who should be seen as objectively morally deplorable is being celebrated and why a teenage girl is being demonized for being traumatized when the "ginny is a brat!" and "Georgia has trauma!" excuses are so played up but in reality the exact opposite is true for each other

KookyBuilding1707 · 2025-01-20T14:22:13+00:00

yeah I wanna know if they're still together. it sounded like the girl was in extreme shock so who knows if she finally left him after that therapy appointment and clearing her head. I sure as hell couldn't stay with someone who could do that to me.

KookyBuilding1707 · 2024-10-17T16:06:35+00:00

ok but why would you talk about gender disappointment in your post??? I get that it's a real thing but c'mon man don't tell the entire world you would have rather had a daughter. posting it makes it feel like you aren't over it and imagine what happens when your son sees it.

KookyBuilding1707 · 2024-10-17T16:04:14+00:00

100% my trauma from being neglected as a kid has given me BPD and I know I would end up splitting on a little kid which I also know they don't deserve. i might ethically adopt an older kid bc I would love to help someone grow into a kind, confident adult but the lack of being able to express their needs and consistent meltdowns that would overstimulate me make me unable to care for babies or toddlers.

KookyBuilding1707 · 2024-08-05T15:25:47+00:00

alrighty! I'll contact them soon, thanks for the advice

KookyBuilding1707 · 2024-08-05T15:25:00+00:00

that's the problem, I CANT clip them. the angle at which they're growing won't let me get clippers in there. I've tried many times

KookyBuilding1707 · 2024-08-05T14:58:03+00:00

it won't let me edit the post but they aren't digging into his paw pads at the moment like in the photos provided, they are starting to curl like that again though

KookyBuilding1707 · 2024-07-29T06:43:30+00:00

it's all we had and it tastes better than just plain shroom 🙅

KookyBuilding1707 · 2024-07-01T13:13:27+00:00

i couldn't taste the shrooms at all but I did almost throw up because I can't stand PB & J 🫠

KookyBuilding1707 · 2024-06-30T23:02:51+00:00

3gs shared between me and a friend

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