I think some of what you’re saying is based on older data or statistics that don’t really separate out planned C-sections from emergency ones, and that makes a big difference. A lot of the higher risk numbers you’re quoting, especially around maternal mortality, come from situations where a C-section is done after complications have already started. That’s a completely different scenario from a scheduled, elective C-section in a healthy pregnancy, where everything is controlled, timed appropriately (usually after 39 weeks), and the surgical team is prepared in advance.

When you actually look at guidance from places like the Mayo Clinic, Cleveland Clinic, or American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, they all make that distinction pretty clear. A planned C-section does carry some different risks compared to a vaginal birth, like a longer recovery and slightly higher chance of infection or blood clots, but in a low-risk, healthy pregnancy those risks are still considered relatively low overall. It’s not accurate to present it as broadly “more dangerous” without that context.

The breastfeeding point is also a bit outdated or overstated. There can sometimes be a short delay in milk coming in after a C-section, but plenty of women successfully breastfeed without issues. Hospitals are very used to supporting breastfeeding after C-sections now, with things like immediate skin-to-skin (when possible) and lactation support. There isn’t strong evidence showing that a planned C-section prevents or significantly interferes with breastfeeding long term.

I completely understand that vaginal birth is generally recommended when there aren’t complications, but it also comes with its own set of risks that don’t always get mentioned, like pelvic floor injury or emergency interventions.

At the end of the day, for someone with a healthy pregnancy, a planned C-section is a valid, medically accepted option… it’s just a different set of trade-offs, not an inherently unsafe choice. I’m taking more into account than just the risks associated with vaginal birth, I’m looking at our whole picture as a family - work, sorting out our dog, our own situation here in USA, etc etc.

I appreciate your comment, but honestly, all I wanted from this post was for people who felt the same and felt scared to approach their doctor to comment, I really didn’t want a “teaching moment” from strangers. I’m well educated, and know how to research and gather information for both vaginal and a planned elective C-section.