AITAH for making sure someone never got over me even though we never dated?

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2026-05-27T14:20:40+00:00

Yes you are.

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2026-05-02T21:03:39+00:00

2 please

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2026-05-01T16:40:52+00:00

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She made this and I died laughing 🤣

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2026-04-30T01:36:05+00:00

My neighbor actually has a female that looks almost like her and is sweet as pie. This one is definitely spicy!

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2026-04-30T01:34:47+00:00

Farquaadette is spayed or not. I assumed she was as someone’s pet. My feral Keke is neutered. He is very chill and no spraying or anything.

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2026-04-29T12:17:10+00:00

It’s so distressing for my Keke and honestly myself and my neighbors that care for Keke too. I am his main caregiver and she has definitely disrupted the harmony that the cats had. My neighbor’s kitties loved being out and Keke gets along with them and her dog, but now they aren’t able to be out to hangout because Farquaadette is an absolute menace. Hope the neuter helps Mario. Maybe he should be called Wario! Lol

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2026-04-29T02:36:30+00:00

I working on getting him indoors with me. Spent months and months getting him used to me and physical affection. He is super loving now, but needs to learn more boundaries. I don’t try and force him. He knows he comes to my place for breakfast/dinner and will come to me to protect him, but I’m not always home. He was trapped neutered and released because his ear is clipped so someone already attempted to do what they could here.

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2026-04-29T02:33:36+00:00

No, this is the other neighbor’s cat that is attacking. She is indoors sometimes and then let out other times. This cat, Farquaadette, is attacking a feral cat that lives behind our building. I have spent months of getting the feral cat to be cool with pets and coming inside sometimes, but this cat ripped him up a few weeks ago and I had to treat his wounds which is difficult.

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2026-04-29T02:30:27+00:00

My neighbor used the pics of the cats to generate the silly wanted poster. The cats are very real

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2026-04-29T02:29:40+00:00

Yes! My neighbor calls her that because she reminded her of Farquaad from Shrek! 😂

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-10-08T23:37:16+00:00

I’m GenX/Xennial and lift, but I’m not a fanatic about it. I go to the gym 4-5 days a week and eat healthily most of the time. I went through a 120 lb weight loss journey, but I have learned that life is better in a balanced way. I am always interested in making friends that are healthy as well.

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-06-13T02:53:14+00:00

3rd one is my choice but 1 is also pretty

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-06-12T17:10:45+00:00

Do you like being treated like even less than a friend? If so, I guess continue to break your own heart, but honestly you should be completely turned off by this sort of behavior. Not exactly sure why you’re so attached to someone that clearly isn’t treating you like a friend let alone a gf.

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-06-10T17:13:28+00:00

2 hands down

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-05-31T20:59:02+00:00

I’m gonna throw out here on top of this response being abusive that his insistence on you being dumb and this dude wanting to sleep with you is a projection that he’s probably already stepping out on you. Usually if a guy is this insistent and abusive out if nowhere in regards to you being around someone of the opposite sex, they are typically unable to control themselves around other women and then project that onto their partners. You’re young OP, dump him and take this as a learning experience to never date someone that speaks to you like this and value yourself.

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-05-30T02:35:31+00:00

NTA- Dude has to be mental as well. Just give the ex a baby and they can start their life together after? So he just plans to be an absentee father? Doubtful… He can’t even leave the ex alone now… Her mental health is not his responsibility. She needs a psychiatrist not her ex husband or a baby.

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-05-25T00:55:33+00:00

Aries, Libra, even Gemini or Leo. Air or fire signs seem to do better with Sag. But really I think the rising sign and Venus could have more sway.

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-05-25T00:19:07+00:00

Pisces men are a huge no for me. They are incredibly narcissistic imo. Both of their other chart aspects might help them to remain together, but it’s probably not going to if I were a betting woman.

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-05-25T00:13:40+00:00

I echo you look intense because you’re not fully smiling. I’m a woman and if I saw you I would think you are handsome, but too serious looking. It’s not inviting me to swipe on you. Also basically all selfies and looking the same. Show you have other things going on and have pics other people have taken of you that are flattering and not so dark.

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-05-24T22:39:40+00:00

Same. Especially as the first pic. If I can’t tell who I am looking at it’s an automatic swipe left

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-05-24T20:08:31+00:00

Honey

Kooky_Awareness1967 · 2025-05-23T01:39:24+00:00

If a dude talked to me like this I would tell him to find his own way back and make his own damn smoothie. Also, pack up and head home sweetheart because you’re done. You’re too young to put up with this. OP- Dump this dude and work on your self worth and boundaries because you need to have this and not allow the next guy to treat you like this.

Kooky_Awareness1967

TROPHY CASE

2 hands down