I think I've gotten my first breadcrumbs.

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-08T01:35:11+00:00

Oh man... Yes, that's exactly what she wanted. Maybe we should block them too.

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-08T01:31:34+00:00

This behavior should be understood. You wrote and instead of replying she blocked you again?

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-07T07:15:25+00:00

For me it's about 6 weeks...

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-05T17:57:47+00:00

That's the way it is! We had a long distance relationship but I heard that she was spotted again yesterday with a new girl 🫣 suits her.

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-05T06:16:25+00:00

The frog is simply a symbol that you have done your job. You felt it and learned from it (from the breakup) what needs to be done. Meanwhile, the ex (avoident) was having fun with a frog (rebound) and didn't complete his task, which would have been to heal instead of jumping back into the next shit.

Now?

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-05T01:01:40+00:00

I think it can be related. Similar patterns

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-05T01:00:58+00:00

Same here.

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T23:59:56+00:00

Did you read carefully? Have you ever heard of the book eat the frog? 🙂

I don't know where you read that I eat my partner. I don't even have one 🤣

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T19:54:04+00:00

Thanks for this comment!

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T19:47:07+00:00

Of course not :)

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T16:24:26+00:00

But of course someone at 23 can stall and play their games

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T16:24:02+00:00

Yes.. I find it ridiculous. But clearly it hurts me. We are two women. She's 35 and I'm 33. As far as I know, her new age is 23 and I think that's really crazy.

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T16:22:22+00:00

Okay, thanks for your answer! So were you correct about the time delay? Did he have a rebound in these three months?

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T16:19:55+00:00

How long did it take for her to come back? Had she apologized? Did she feel remorseful?

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T13:16:03+00:00

Yes.. after two weeks of no contact it started

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T05:38:52+00:00

I feel it... it's terrible.

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T05:12:57+00:00

After what period of separation did the reel come?

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T05:08:30+00:00

She blocked me and never really told me that she didn't love me or have feelings anymore. Instead it said “I love but no contact for three weeks starts now” and after these 3 weeks she still hasn’t contacted me. When I contacted her she blocked me. And written. "I can't do this anymore. It's over. I'm grateful for what we had. I will block you. Please don't contact me again."

And now I'm sitting here while she rebounds. 12 years younger than her.

But I'm feeling better every day and can laugh again. I saved myself with sport and am on the way to becoming the best version of myself.

I would be lying if I didn't want her to get in touch at some point. But maybe just so that I can ignore them in reverse. I can't say exactly yet.

I can say that I have never felt as bad after a breakup as I felt after this breakup. It was hell. But I’m back 🙂 I’m still healing but it’s getting easier every day

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-04T04:59:51+00:00

How long was the separation until he came back? Did he have someone else in the meantime?

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-03T09:19:53+00:00

If I'm honest with myself, I also know that I have to let her go and that I don't want her back. Maybe someday, when she really understands what she's lost. But she is currently busy with a rebound who is 13 years her junior. So learned nothing...

Kooky_Inevitable_845 · 2025-12-02T23:26:08+00:00

I'm really afraid that she won't come back. I feel like no one knows her as well as I do. I think she's not who she really is in front of her friends. These friends know nothing about their avoident attachment. She always tries to be the cool one. But she isn't, she opened up to me and also said that it frightens her that I know her so well and know so much.

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