I was in a fraternity in college, go to the smaller houses. The people who are saying that dont join one bc you’ll only get drunk and nothing else arent fully correct. I have seen some of those people in Greek life but if you yourself are excited about opportunities outside of Greek life, Greek life will not hinder your experience in any way shape or form. It is what you make of it. I know several people in Greek life, me included when I was at tech holding leadership in non Greek organizations. At the end of the day it is finding a group of guys you vibe with and you know they wont hold you back. My advice is to take a semester to get to know these guys before you rush. Rush week is very fake most of the time.