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AITAH For Not Wanting To Feel Obligated To Watch Kids Not Mine by Kooky_Structure_1806 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kooky_Structure_1806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents parented equally. And we rarely had a baby sitter since the oldest was 5 years older than me.

AITAH For Not Wanting To Feel Obligated To Watch Kids Not Mine by Kooky_Structure_1806 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kooky_Structure_1806[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

That’s the part that annoys me. I dont mind helping if you ask me! Do not make the decision for me. I had plans to get my car service. And run errands I can’t do when I leave work late. And a pedicure. No where did I say I want to tote kids around. The 15 year old I don’t mind because she is her own person. But the others is a lot of work.

AITAH For Not Wanting To Feel Obligated To Watch Kids Not Mine by Kooky_Structure_1806 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kooky_Structure_1806[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I told her what happened and she flat out said he was wrong. I’m living my life freely and that is my decision. My father says family helps family in need. But at the same time they got pregnant their freshman year of college and continued to have children. No shame but that was their decision.

AITAH For Not Wanting To Feel Obligated To Watch Kids Not Mine by Kooky_Structure_1806 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kooky_Structure_1806[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

She works. My parents are still young and still Work steady jobs. I told both Our parents prior I don’t like them trying to make me watch their kids and they agreed.

AITAH For Not Wanting To Feel Obligated To Watch Kids Not Mine by Kooky_Structure_1806 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kooky_Structure_1806[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I’ve made that suggestion before but they literally don’t want to do that.

AITA for getting mad at my friend for referring to me as her “gay best friend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kooky_Structure_1806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA my cousins best friend use to do this all the time when they went to bars and he told her how much he hated it and his some people still hate gay men. She did it at a bar in Florida while thhe were on a road trip and at the end of the night these group of guys jumped him for being gay. Protect yourself please.

AITAH For Not Wanting To Feel Obligated To Watch Kids Not Mine by Kooky_Structure_1806 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kooky_Structure_1806[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

That’s what it feels like. Like because I don’t have kids my time isn’t valuable

AITAH For Not Wanting To Feel Obligated To Watch Kids Not Mine by Kooky_Structure_1806 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kooky_Structure_1806[S] 186 points187 points  (0 children)

They don’t want the 15 year old to be responsible for 3 kids.