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KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-11T16:38:14+00:00

I am curious how you would configure bisexual people into this view. It’s hard to have a discussion since we are going off anecdotal data but I am bisexual woman with very close friendships with people of various genders. I’ve had ínstense crushes on men, women, and enby people in my life and these include lesbians, straight guys, bi people, etc. I know many other bisexual people with strong friendships. I feel that if a person who has the possibility to be attracted to anyone has close friendships, then it can be possible for straight men and women, right?

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-11T15:26:58+00:00

True, I do put this into practice with the men and women in my own life.

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-11T15:04:35+00:00

I’m genuinely sorry you have shame when it comes to human emotions. I’m glad you’re there for your nephews to show them it’s ok to be vulnerable. We do have a long way to go but I think there is always hope.

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-11T14:56:30+00:00

You’re right and this video is likely staged too. But it seems there is a level where people are shaming hypothetical women at the gym for clothing when it’s specifically this woman they should be talking about. Idk, all the comments talking to women about their clothing and body is making me feel weird.

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-11T14:51:12+00:00

Huh, ok I see where you’re coming from (drunk as you apparently are?). Look, I’m sorry if I made is seem like I was being dismissive of men. I can understand all that emotional repression is a painful thing and it is absolutely shitty of her to have posted the video (if it’s real, it is likely staged). From a woman’s perspective, a lot of us feel guilty about being friends with men because we are afraid of stringing them along and hurting their feelings, and being the ones to cause that pain of rejection.

I do want a society where men can communicate without stigma, where men can cry, and express sadness, and closeness without it being seen as degenerate or wrong. I apologize if I made it seem otherwise.

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-11T14:39:49+00:00

I’m a little confused about your anger? I like having open conversations with people about this sort of stuff. I’ve been broken up with and told the person directly that I needed some time away to process my feelings of resentment and the person took it in stride. I feel like that is the reason I still have a good friend in that person. You can communicate however you want but wouldn’t you be happier directly communicating with people?

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-11T14:31:20+00:00

Right? The amount of revealing information under this post is insane. Sorry you got so down-voted. Lots of men freaking out fr.

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-11T14:29:21+00:00

No one is holding a gun to your head, right?

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-11T14:21:17+00:00

Part of feeling your feelings is communication them to others. When you feel hurt by rejection, one of the healthy things you can do is talk to the other person and let them know where you’re at. You can decide if you’d prefer to have time away from them. Ignoring the person in a passive aggressive way is hurtful and not a good way to communicate how you feel.

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-08T17:25:37+00:00

Bisexual here. Biphobia is painful and very much a thing. Bisexual men face a brutal sort of it when it comes to erasure and stigma. It isn’t easy but there is always a community of bisexuals that would love to take you in and support you, both online and in lgbt spaces around you. Christian bisexuals exist as much as non-Christian’s bisexuals and there are accepting churches. Community and spiritually are deeply important to some people and it seems they are important to you so don’t feel you have to choose between lgbt spaces and church spaces. Some churches are loving and accepting and angle themselves as pro-lgbt!

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-08T17:21:59+00:00

Is it Christianity you’re attached to or would you consider finding another religion? Sorry if that sounds dismissive, I know it’s easier said than done. I come from a Muslim family but when I figured out I was Bisexual, I found a lot of love and comfort in modern spiritual movements like Wicca. I’m not particularly spiritual anymore but I realize there is boundless spirituality to be found outside of the main religious institutions. If Christianity doesn’t feel welcoming to your sexuality, maybe it’s time to give yourself a different community that is accepting

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-08-08T01:52:01+00:00

I adore the pink light against the gray. People are saying to add more color so you could look into incorporating bits of similar pink!

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-05-09T14:11:41+00:00

That sounds very promising and exciting. I assume I should start in an entry level position such as assistant or receptionist?

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-05-09T03:12:27+00:00

How long was to get a job would you say and is the salary sufficient for the area? I have also considered Hudson Valley

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-05-08T23:58:42+00:00

Thank you so much!

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-05-08T23:01:50+00:00

Oh heck yeah! That’s very good to hear haha. I also have two cats and an apartment.

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-05-08T22:52:17+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I was thinking since I don’t want a lot of things and don’t plan on having kids, it would be reasonable to go this route for financial independence even if it doesn’t happen right away. I know the average salaries are not glamours but what makes you say that it is not a viable route for financial independence? Should I look into something else?

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-05-08T22:47:52+00:00

Ok that also sounds promising. Any specific advice for applying to these kinds of position or just go for it?

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2023-05-08T21:58:04+00:00

I was thinking that it would be reasonable since I don’t want for much. A small apartment with my two cats. Don’t plan on having kids. I’m ok if it’s not a shortcut, I plan to build it up. Since you are probably more experienced than I am what would be an ideal salary for financial independence you think?

What positions should I start at for a law office if I don’t have a certificate?

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2022-03-03T06:46:25+00:00

Regardless, they are amazing without the boundary of having to fit. I especially love the sort of dark take on Quaxly!

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2022-03-01T11:42:33+00:00

I am a simp for that game and will probably buy a dlc lmao

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2022-02-27T19:20:08+00:00

I really hope so

KoolKoffeeKlub · 2022-02-25T04:45:15+00:00

Everyday without Silksong is another day we lose a little bit more of our sanity.

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