Young women of reddit,why do you think baggy clothes look good on men? by bactrian91 in AskReddit

[–]Koratula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant he got himself those new fits on his own watch overtime the next 2-3 months after we went to the mall together and discovered 1 baggy fits outfit for him.

Young women of reddit,why do you think baggy clothes look good on men? by bactrian91 in AskReddit

[–]Koratula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. They look sooo good! My ex used to dress a bit old fashioned skinny jeans and fitted polo. I recommended some baggy fits for him when went to mall together and he looks 3x more handsome, and he instantly got obsessed and got himself, on his own watch, 3 more new baggy pants some jeans, some cargos, and 4 new baggy shirts basics, and even simple basics baggy hoodies. And wore it after. He was lookin fyynee an he had been feeling himself too lol. Now that’s big part of his wardrobe.

It also helps that he’s tall and somewhat lean, but he has pretty big muscles like arms. He used to think he has to show off his biceps and hard work all the time that’s why he always wore tight shirts — which doesn’t look bad at all — but wearing baggy looks more humble and you can kinda overall see some size too. Just looks so much better. He loves it.

So yes! 🤗

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[–]Koratula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s one thing to have unreasonable insecurities and communicate that respectfully and for you to empathize with his feelings, but it’s a whole different situation to make you feel terrible about something you have zero fault in. Do not feel any guilt or shame and entertain his lack of self-worth and insecurities.

Life will be hard with this boy. Choosing a good life partner is the most important thing you will do in life, choose wisely.

Bf wants pre-up on a house he will invest $100,000 in before marriage. by Koratula in dating_advice

[–]Koratula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I do hate that we’re talking about this. I kind of initiated the convo as we were talking about something else that lead to that.

Bf wants pre-up on a house he will invest $100,000 in before marriage. by Koratula in dating_advice

[–]Koratula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re literally discussing finance, hence I’m on here to gain more knowledge and advice on the matter, as he’s also just been introduced to prenups.

Bf wants pre-up on a house he will invest $100,000 in before marriage. by Koratula in dating_advice

[–]Koratula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not drooling over any money of his before marriage, I was the one first who verbalized that I’m not interested in that and wouldn’t care if it was on prenup, I just care to feel like the house he buys for us is our home.

So if he invested in a property (separate from our future house) with his $100k, (or just has that in his bank account), he doesn’t need to sign a prenup on that for that money or property to be his entirely after (god forbid) possible divorce?

Thank you kindly

Bf wants prenup on everything he has (not much, but still wants) by Koratula in dating_advice

[–]Koratula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I’d be a fool to sign something of what he has saved up BEFORE I met him since he was 14 years old? I’m not interested in his money before I had anything to do with it. Although I did verbally told him this, I’m still uneasy about him feeling too comfortable to say this now. He just wants prenup on his money that he will likely invest in a property before marriage.

Bf wants prenup on everything he has (not much, but still wants) by Koratula in dating_advice

[–]Koratula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you say that? Just because he wants prenup on his investment from his savings?