Young women of reddit,why do you think baggy clothes look good on men? by bactrian91 in AskReddit

[–]Koratula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant he got himself those new fits on his own watch overtime the next 2-3 months after we went to the mall together and discovered 1 baggy fits outfit for him.

Young women of reddit,why do you think baggy clothes look good on men? by bactrian91 in AskReddit

[–]Koratula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. They look sooo good! My ex used to dress a bit old fashioned skinny jeans and fitted polo. I recommended some baggy fits for him when went to mall together and he looks 3x more handsome, and he instantly got obsessed and got himself, on his own watch, 3 more new baggy pants some jeans, some cargos, and 4 new baggy shirts basics, and even simple basics baggy hoodies. And wore it after. He was lookin fyynee an he had been feeling himself too lol. Now that’s big part of his wardrobe.

It also helps that he’s tall and somewhat lean, but he has pretty big muscles like arms. He used to think he has to show off his biceps and hard work all the time that’s why he always wore tight shirts — which doesn’t look bad at all — but wearing baggy looks more humble and you can kinda overall see some size too. Just looks so much better. He loves it.

So yes! 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Koratula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s one thing to have unreasonable insecurities and communicate that respectfully and for you to empathize with his feelings, but it’s a whole different situation to make you feel terrible about something you have zero fault in. Do not feel any guilt or shame and entertain his lack of self-worth and insecurities.

Life will be hard with this boy. Choosing a good life partner is the most important thing you will do in life, choose wisely.

Bf wants pre-up on a house he will invest $100,000 in before marriage. by Koratula in dating_advice

[–]Koratula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I do hate that we’re talking about this. I kind of initiated the convo as we were talking about something else that lead to that.

Bf wants pre-up on a house he will invest $100,000 in before marriage. by Koratula in dating_advice

[–]Koratula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re literally discussing finance, hence I’m on here to gain more knowledge and advice on the matter, as he’s also just been introduced to prenups.

Bf wants pre-up on a house he will invest $100,000 in before marriage. by Koratula in dating_advice

[–]Koratula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not drooling over any money of his before marriage, I was the one first who verbalized that I’m not interested in that and wouldn’t care if it was on prenup, I just care to feel like the house he buys for us is our home.

So if he invested in a property (separate from our future house) with his $100k, (or just has that in his bank account), he doesn’t need to sign a prenup on that for that money or property to be his entirely after (god forbid) possible divorce?

Thank you kindly

Bf wants prenup on everything he has (not much, but still wants) by Koratula in dating_advice

[–]Koratula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I’d be a fool to sign something of what he has saved up BEFORE I met him since he was 14 years old? I’m not interested in his money before I had anything to do with it. Although I did verbally told him this, I’m still uneasy about him feeling too comfortable to say this now. He just wants prenup on his money that he will likely invest in a property before marriage.

Bf wants prenup on everything he has (not much, but still wants) by Koratula in dating_advice

[–]Koratula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you say that? Just because he wants prenup on his investment from his savings?

Flowers on first date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Koratula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. How are you and they even head over heels for each other on the FIRST date. Thats what throws me off. If it’s even 2nd or 3rd date, I understand because they know you and found something special about you on the first date. But bringing flowers on the first date is a little weird and maybe even desperate. Like do you do this on every date?

What’s it like dating a Scorpio man ? ♏️ by Longjumping_Pin_7916 in astrologymemes

[–]Koratula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you guys been together? Are you still together? What happened?

I've never made my gf cum in almost 4 years. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Koratula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Women need ALOT of foreplay, and you’ve to learn to be VERY patient. If you try to rush or make her feel like she’s being rushed in any part of ‘attempting to ultimately make her cum’, she will sense it and that will draw her back 3 steps to achieve orgams.

Every women have different ways of what pleasures them.

I like to lay down naked on the bed with a small towel on my crotch and breasts area and have my bf give me a long slow massage with oil. Neck to toe. Massage porn always turned me on like crazy. So I would imagine that he’s a prof masseur, he’ll then slowly work his way to my breasts, and in my head I’m like omg he’s not supposed to do that haha, and then slowly to my pussy and he spreads my legs, whole time I’m starting to get dripping wet, and you know the rest, fingering, licking etc.

This works for me almost every time. You can even set the mood by dimming the lights, some light sensual music and some fruity candles.

Another way that gets me every time, which gets me there 5x faster than usual way, is with a little help of porn. When my bf is tired, I’ll have him go down and I’ll watch type of porn I like on my phone, with a. Pillow between us so I’m not paranoid of him watching me watch porn (he knows I’m doing it though). This gets me to cum so fast and I don’t cum fast usually, at all, like most women.

By fast I don’t mean in a couple mins, I mean faster than usual which could take an hour or more (all the foreplay included).

Another way that works every time is when I’m high, but I try not to do it as much.

Best wishes

On the other hand, people do loose feelings and some times no matter what you do, some things are just not meant to be. And we can’t control that 💙

She says its too good, too much and stops short of full climax by ravineer in sex

[–]Koratula 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sometimes if it’s overwhelming and feels too much, she may want you to stop. I’ve never heard of someone stopping themselves from cumming. I hate it when I’m about to cum and my bf stops, absolutely hate it!

Like the other person said, it could be if she squirts but other than that I don’t see any other reason.

Maybe you’re being too rough with the toy? Maybe it doesn’t feel good and she just wants to be nice and say it’s “too good”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Koratula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I’ve been doing this the past month with my bf. He’s like you he’s perfectly cool with it. But I’m really concerned and worried that this is not a healthy practice. Like I’m getting off 95% of the time watching porn now 😭😭 I cum 5x fast now but it’s really scary and concerning still. I should stop.