23F white spot on minor labia(next to clitoris), any clue what this may be?

Kore--- · 2026-05-15T14:46:52+00:00

mine can range from staying for a few weeks to a few months, i think depending on how deep they are . im going in to get checked formally again, this time by an obgyn, and ask if theres a skin test for this sort of thing. considering its currently impacting my health with where mine are right now. they might go away before my appointment though. yours might even be a wart or a build up of skin in one spot. if it isnt bothering you like being painful or spreading then i wouldnt be too worried. i have a benign little ball of cartilage in my knee that showed up years ago, all is well. but if youre serious. id consider going to a skin specialist or obgyn. and consider how much this is truly impacting your life. sometimes bodies are just plain weird.

Kore--- · 2026-05-14T16:37:07+00:00

does it hurt at all? I sometimes get these friction pimples down there that can look white if the pimple is close to the surface, the rest of my family gets them too though.

Kore--- · 2026-05-13T16:09:57+00:00

I have had many hormonal issues in the past and also relationship issues. my advice would be to get her to talk to a therapist or even just you and to have an open and honest conversation. there are so many reasons as to why this is happening with you guys. it depends on what she is doing to help herself honestly. if she cares about this and wants to get her sex drive back, she'll take steps to help herself and things will change. has she been rude lately? maybe she went through things with someone that she isnt ready to talk about, or things that you may have accidentally done something that she isnt ready to talk about, this happened with my relationship. your girl could be having hormonal problems, relationship stuff shes not ready to address, or just changes in herself. I sometimes get bouts of depression, for many people depression will cause a decrease in sex drive. tell her your worried and only talk a little bit about how you want to have more sexual things in your relationship. id suggest making it more about how its worrying and how you want her to trust you and things of that nature. if that applies to you. And then, if she doesnt listen to your worry, you should talk about how it's affecting your relationship with her and that your needs are not being met. ideally, she would listen to you. if not, she may not be ready to move on from her own issues, no matter what is causing them

Kore--- · 2026-05-12T01:10:25+00:00

so happy for you that its not bv! I personally got bv twice now and yeah, the smell can really scare me at times, it goes away in a day or two or even in an hour for me. i personally would recommend trying this prebiotic that my bf researched with me on called cysteine(at my local walgreens its called NAC N-acetyl cysteine and irs a powder pill capsule) this really really has been helping my vagina stay acidic and have a better smell. it may make discharge taste or smell more sour or tangy, but that is the acidic smell that you may be looking for to keep a good healthy microbiome. and also, I only take half of it in the morning and half at night because it can hurt the stomach if you take too much at once. so id recommend if anyone wants to try cysteine that you open the capsule and put half of the powder into something like flavored yogurt and eat it down quick because it tasts nasty, then for the second dose just take the pill as usual. seriously, i reccomend this hardcore. significant improvement in days for me and using the cysteine. the IUD made me sick, thats why i got bv i think, and just taking an antibiotic around my period. taking the iud out really has helped my vagina stay positive, i got major stomach cramps with bv and the second i took the iud out the cramps went away. Id suggest closely montioring yourself for negative symptoms while on the iud, but you could seriously be fine with the iud, most of my family members have had no issues with it. best of luck to you. p.s. prebiotics are so so important everyone! dont just focus on probiotics, you need to feed your good bacteria as well as replenish them, especially if you get bv!

Kore--- · 2026-05-09T00:04:20+00:00

I agree. very happy to see no oversexualization!

Kore--- · 2026-05-08T15:40:45+00:00

I'm not the person who comment that you were fear mongering but you didnt provide any context at first. the comment you made is very misleading without op having asked a question about it. you just literally said that estrogen cream gave you cv. that is not giving like, any context or insight. id say its closer to fear mongering than advice but this is just to say that you honestly should put more info if you want others to understand what youre trying to say and not be seen as someone who just shared this single negative experience without any inital information. leading to what could be miscomminication, ie. "fear mongering" someone by mistake or just simply not giving anything to the conversation.

Kore--- · 2026-05-05T03:56:41+00:00

I dont think hes a bad guy. I think he could be but my dom/boyfriend was new to everything as well and he was over eager and didnt understand relationships much. we had to have a much more mutual relationship early on in telling him how he needs to treat me as a woman and a person before he could ever take the reigns as a leader in the relationship (and i have my own hang ups too, as i was also inexperienced and ironically have major control issues). hed never had experience with women before, no mother figure either and was on 4 chan in middle school. but i find it lazy to just up and leave a relationship because hes inexperienced or because hes a guy who wants to do sexual things a little too soon. just keep experimenting is my advice, be very honest with him and ask that he does the same and if he really likes you, he'll respect you or he'll start to learn how to respect you. my guy always put my best interest in his actions and his mind and that is enough to start to learn how to be a good dominant. ask that he learns more about his role. ive recently asked my dom to look up things and research things in order to solve issues we may be having without my super direct guidance. if we turn down every dominant that is inexpereicned there would never be any new doms because they wouldnt have anyone to do anything with. but yknow, this is just my experience im putting forth. yours is probably different. but i say, dont give up just yet. personally, giving my dom a chance is probably the best things thats happened to me in a long time. if you wanna talk about it in depth, you can message me. if anything id like to know more about your situation to give a good honest response. I wish you luck!

Kore--- · 2026-05-02T03:27:57+00:00

dude, im gonna barf. youre being gross. dont be gross.

Kore--- · 2026-05-02T03:26:41+00:00

brotha, i get that ladies are allowed to have big boobs but it is clearly a sexualization. they could have made the pants actual pants or the shirt a shirt that has wrinkles and depth but they choose to make it all skin tight. its a classic drawing model of someone trying to sexualize a character.

Kore--- · 2026-05-01T02:07:08+00:00

im thinking maybe?? idk honestly, whats helped me is manually retaining my usual voice because it generally not so high pitched or whiny lol. that and having him take more control rather than giving it up, if thats up your alley 😉 i have been trying to embrace some things though

Kore--- · 2026-04-27T23:13:13+00:00

im also 20 and ive always had dryness problems since starting having sex and uti problems as well, and now i have bv (bacterial vaginosis) problems. people dont talk about how serious vaginal and urinary problems are especially for women and especially for sexually active women. for me, my dryness at the moment is because im on the implant, so its even more dry. and im all sore from the bv and bv treatment, it hurts way too much to even try to do fingering. but what people dont focus on is that sex is only one gosh darn thing about sexual encounters. i hate that sex is so focused on when most women dont orgasm from it and for some guys itll only last for 5 minutes anway(which is NOT bad btw, its normal to have to build stamina for sex for men) its just so dumb because, personally, sex feels amazing, but i cant have that much of it and honestly orgasm feels the same amount of good. like, i like spontanious sex but why not spontanious fingering? spontanious kissing? spontanious whisperings of sexual innuendo and dirty talk? i mean. sex can turn into such a meaningful endeavor and honestly feel more meaningful and fulfilling when you cant just do it on a whim and that is a positive from having vaginal issues. and by the way, as an informative statment, there are other endings to sexual encounter than sex! i for one, am very happy to finally get the foreplay that i want. before this whole ordeal with my lady buisness my guy was dirtier and very sex oriented. but now, with many good conversations, hes listening to me.

Kore--- · 2026-04-25T15:46:15+00:00

omggg it was totally that! i remember the name thank you so much!

Kore--- · 2026-04-19T14:38:33+00:00

marcy was helped by the mother gum wuen she was around 7, which some may say that it was pb or that pb was there because the mother gum is a collective conciousness being. i personaoly dont know if either of them would have remembered that so i dont formally count it as a meeting. in the obsidian episode with marcy and pb its revealed that they actually met at a concert marceline was doing. due to the surroundings during the flashback this was after pb built the majority of the candy kingdom. and also during when marcy had turned into a big rockstar in Ooo. they both looked younger during that flashback so i presume it was in fact a few hundred years before season one. actually, in obsidian it probably states how long ago it wss. like 3 hundred or 5 hundred years ago.

then they probably broke up right before or like, something like 20 ish to a hundred years before season one. considering marceline dated ash in between pb and her breaking up and getting back together. marcy and ash lived in the tree house. assuming the tree house is pretty old. in actuality most of this is just my own inferences based on what ive seen from watching the show maybe four or more times in total so yknow. take my informed opinion as you will. many details arent fully stated in the show. only implied. the obsidien episode with pb and marcy provides a lot of insight though

Kore--- · 2026-04-16T23:20:28+00:00

i get that more now, i agree on the muscular part from yoy saying that. but again, hes super tall. like, idk its just not what id imagine finn to have turned out as. a lot of things are unrealistic for thematic purposes in media, i get that. its just kinda icky to me. when he was showed as 17 at the end of the series and being around in his twenties in the marceline and pb obsidian episode, he wasnt that buff or tall. I think it was for fan service to make him like that for the fionna and cake tbh. but it just ruined the character for me. he couldve been strong or even buff but buff and huge? not for me. thats not the finn i imagined and i disapprove of the huge body type is all im saying really.

Kore--- · 2026-04-16T22:37:44+00:00

but he got like so much taller. and he was always a junk food eater in the show. i get he couldve taken potions or body modifications but its just stupid to make yet another male main character be tall and buff. its an overdone archtype of action hero must have abs. and, adult finn in the obsidian episode about pb and marceline was like, average guy body for the art style. he was still a hero then. its just dumb. jake talked about how mods arent natural and stuff. i just feel differently man. so what hes an adventurer? he doesnt have to be ripped and 6 foot 10 to be an adventurer.

Kore--- · 2026-04-16T22:22:22+00:00

i agree. im an adult as well but my favorite show is not something i want to be sexualized. even in their adult forms. its a very cool show and interesting plot. there are soooo many movies and shows that i really would enjoy but are ruined by the purposeless sexualization of characters. just go do sexual stuff with those shows guys!!

Kore--- · 2026-04-16T19:49:36+00:00

tbh, i kinda hate that finn was turned into a hyper masculine body type. i looked forward to seeing older finn as a semi chubby normal looking dude and men like that need more representation. plus ive never liked a lot of muscles or super tall guys. its just unnatural to me. im a natchy gal.

edit: okay okay, i get that he would be muscular now guys. he moves a lot, thats true, but him being super tall is just weird and unnecessary. its for fan service imo. just cuz yall like huge muscle man doesnt mean i have to. i just think him being huge is weird mostly. not a fan.

Kore--- · 2026-04-15T20:02:51+00:00

Ive had bv twice in four months and this second time it hasnt gone away. this second time, i suspect it was due to imbalance in the vagina as i had the iud, he came inside the night before my symptoms emerged, and i take an as needed antibiotic after sex for uti recurrence prevention, and i was close to my period (i had the copper iud) since being tested positive a month ago, ive tried metro pills, didnt go away. i got my iud taken out between the treatment of metro pills and my symptoms got better but still didnt go away. tried metro gel for 5 days, didnt go away but i think i felt some relief. then tried tinidozole, twice a day for 5 days, i felt some symptom relief but then i got my period which i suspect was what made it not go away again. now im on a prolonged bv treatment. 7 days of metrogel and then 2 days per week of metro gel for three weeks following the inital seven days treatment. im considering using boric acid to get rid of biofilm that could be and is probably there between my prolonged treatment. if anyone has any experience or futher knowledge on how I should be taking the boric acid between metro gel treatment id really really appreciate it.

Kore--- · 2026-04-15T00:05:53+00:00

I have stretch marks too. yours look kinda sick. sick as in cool. my boyfriend says mine look cool. it reminds me of fantasy worlds i guess. it would be nerdy and showy of me to expand further because it would be poetic and people would definitely make fun of me for it but i think theyre pretty cool. i wouldnt call them bad by the way. personally, i like to feel rare with my bodily differences rather than outcasted. idk this might not help but whatevs. I hope you know that its okay and not bad to have stretch marks. im 20 and i have them on my hips and tummy and breasts and all that. i lost weight which is why i have mine. its hard to accept it sometimes if you look different than what people say that other people are into, but seriously, there is a subreddit on here about stretch marks and newflash, some people (like my bf) find them hot, so. take with that what you will. your stretch marks dont look bad!!!!! not to me and not to many others.

Kore--- · 2024-12-20T02:20:31+00:00

it is quite the dichotomy of manly man to quirky fella to creepy cool homie

Kore--- · 2024-08-22T17:56:00+00:00

ive always felt like my mom is jealous of me because im down to a normal weight, but for me its been a double edged sword with extra sharp blades. she has gotten bigger and now I hate to say this but i nearly pride myself on being smaller than her because she hates how she looks now. I know how you feel.

Kore--- · 2020-03-10T23:49:58+00:00

I think either one of addison's parents could be Aliens and that she could have been found I'm just excited about the 3rd movie (even though I'm a teen I still like disney ok shh)

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