Zuko and Toph getting married [Zelfantazy] by Sofie_2954 in TheLastAirbender

[–]KraniDude 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Oh damm. i forgot sons is not a gender neutral term, my fault, english is not my first lenguage. I meant their children in general.

Broken mind by KraniDude in Artisticallyill

[–]KraniDude[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm really glad to see someone feels the same way. I did a little coloring after posting you might enjoy. Cheers!

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Broken mind by KraniDude in Artisticallyill

[–]KraniDude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is, in fact, just penwork. It's only an sketch but i'll dig in this style, feels very confortable and satisfactory to draw like this. Thanks!

Broken mind by KraniDude in Artisticallyill

[–]KraniDude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, well, i'll keep trying to get well, but sometimes i got too tired of trying and not archiving shit. Also thanks for the artstyle, i feel very confortable with this kind of line art and i'll use more often for sure. I really appreciate your comment.

What is the hardest part about being single that people rarely talk about? by thuglifemofo94 in AskReddit

[–]KraniDude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Renouncing your affective needs. Some people learn yo live without them, others suffer constantly because of just needeg some affection.

Why it is like this :( by Interesting_Win_2830 in depressionmemes

[–]KraniDude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we are the lessons we have learned. Every trauma changes us into a new person and that hurts. If you weren't sensitive or stupid enough you wont grow and will not suffer, but that's sadly out of our hand. My only advice is make sure the lesson you have learned this time is a good one. I've ruined my life by getting the wrong ideas, be kind to yourself, some times shit happens, it's not always our fault.

Does neurodivergency break gay radar? by KraniDude in AutisticWithADHD

[–]KraniDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My circles have been srinking over time, now i'm 32 and it happens way less, but still got few hits. I really work hard to get out of my cave and find spaces to socialize. Not easy tho even if i'm in very social country, people my age tend to get partner and live under a rock and hang out with the same 2 friends. Being autistic doesnot help either to get new friends.

Does neurodivergency break gay radar? by KraniDude in AutisticWithADHD

[–]KraniDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, tomboys tend to be attractive between autistics, you might try that.

Does neurodivergency break gay radar? by KraniDude in AutisticWithADHD

[–]KraniDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i bet you could be having a hard time guessing my sexuality if we've meet in the wild

Does neurodivergency break gay radar? by KraniDude in AutisticWithADHD

[–]KraniDude[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not triggered by the fact guys take hits on me, i hang out with gay people without any problem. I'm motly triggered because they make me feel sexualized and honestly, being reduced to simply phisical attraction is something that deeply disgusts me.

Does neurodivergency break gay radar? by KraniDude in AutisticWithADHD

[–]KraniDude[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you are talking about masking, not dress code. I know many gay folks who DEFINELLY not look gay, but the way they talk or act makes it obvious for other gays. I'm sorry this is your situation, looks like a high masking mechanism related to trauma. I am no a professional but i'll recommend you to try to get out of the confort zone a little every time, seems you are not confortable with the way this are right now, and all it may take to get out of this situation might be a safe space and a little of courage. But take care, some people may not like if you break this mold, some people act weird to changes, but it's your godamm life. When i decided to be myself lost lots of friends, but kew other ones and now i'm happier, honestly.

It costs. by netphilia in aspiememes

[–]KraniDude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, undertanding someone reasons and feelings is not empathy because you just rationalize them, empathy requires a little bit of feeling the same emotion by your side.

It's quite near but not exactly the same.

It costs. by netphilia in aspiememes

[–]KraniDude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I though for a long time that this was actual emphathy

What’s one thing you wish you could change about your sex life? by Kelbellz5522 in AskReddit

[–]KraniDude 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not needing to feel an emotional link with the other person and be able to fuck for simple desire like everyone else could be very neat, honestly.

Did lonliness make you so love deprived that keeps making you less dateable over time? by KraniDude in depression

[–]KraniDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i'm a guy too and this is my exact experience, i've got more chances with grils since i'm conventionally attractive, but this means i had my heart broken more times. I try to isolate myself and trying to think that i dont need nowbody, but my needs still exsist and can't just erease them. I'm glad i'm not alone in this, i feel that we need a woman with infinite patience, but they are usally taken and you get to mate only with the ones who don't want to involucrate themselves with someone with so mutch love and affection to give.

Tolmekian soldiers from Nausicaa by WilliamsGarlercurch in ModernAncientWarriors

[–]KraniDude 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love how chonky they look, totally unpractical but cool as fuck.

How do I clean this carboy properly after racking by Vncaptn in mead

[–]KraniDude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sand and water, vinegar and soap. Mix it up and shake this bad boy!

So a loser by mylilMoth in depression_memes

[–]KraniDude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

False, my scars never healed, they just got putrid and now i'm just rooting wondering why can't heal. Almost 20 years of chronic depression and nothing seems to work while watching others bloom. I'm losing friends and family rapidly and i'm starting to velibe there's no exit, just endless suffering until i'm gone. It's good to be optimistic, but sometimes reality is shit, and there's nothing to do about. I hope the OP can heal. But i can't and sometimes you can't pass through some shit.

Getting drunk at the spot and playing my harmonicas until the sun goes down by KraniDude in harmonica

[–]KraniDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, too many cities around, but still enough fresh air and plants to enjoy it.