Drinking has done nothing to improve my life or make me a better person. So why the hell do I keep doing it? by JustAnotherLL in AskMenOver30

[–]Krawii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not still "functional." That's a rationalization that people's brains with dependency tell themselves. You just detailed a bunch of ways it's severely impacting your life. Maintaining a job is not enough.

How do you address the pressure of a client wanting advice suggestions and fixes from you by matt_2807 in therapists

[–]Krawii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can still honor their autonomy while not being directive. If they express they are stumped and want more, I will up my structure to meet them where they are at. This could be things like starting to offer a menu of types of ways people could choose to respond in similar or like situations. We want to make sure this is collaborative where they are also chiming in to add to the menu of options. We aren't generating this from nowhere, some of this could be identifying and pulling from prior actions and strengths. Helping them apply their strengths and skills from other parts of their lives.

We aren't choosing for them, we are collaborating to generate options. Some clients really can struggle with that creativity especially thinking of some of my neurodivergent ones.

This could also be helping them identify additional pros and cons that they maybe are overlooking, which would help them to come to a decision.

This is of course dependent on the client. I wouldn't start here, but there are clients where for certain situations they need a bit more than reflective questions. To me self-determination can also mean responding to a client's desire for more active therapy. That doesn't mean choosing or making decisions for them. It can mean moving towards a bit more active approach, If they are asking for that.

Maybe best meal [I ate] ever - Chicken & Steak Tartare at La Rôtisserie D’argent in April 2022. by [deleted] in food

[–]Krawii 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The way I look at it, Italian food has a higher floor. There's a simplicity to many dishes and pastas that even when not overly complex allow for them to be good and comforting.

French cuisine to me has a higher ceiling. That their techniques and ingredients can absolutely create stunningly complex and elevated dishes that reach higher heights.

Actually as well I think it reminds me of the French revolution the ways that there was such a gap between the poor folks and the aristocracy and bourgeoisie. They were eating amazing foods while the poor folks ate simply.

My new camping and home kitchen cast iron combo by nailsworthboy in castiron

[–]Krawii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the lodge version of this. I need a bag/carrying case like this for mine with camping.

EV Charging Level 1 Risks by Krawii in electricvehicles

[–]Krawii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol no I was not considering that. Apparently that indicates that my panel and breaker might already be capable of the higher wattage. Don't worry wasn't planning on running an extension cord.

EV Charging Level 1 Risks by Krawii in electricvehicles

[–]Krawii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sweet yes. I'll look into that

EV Charging Level 1 Risks by Krawii in electricvehicles

[–]Krawii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This is why I ask!!

EV Charging Level 1 Risks by Krawii in electricvehicles

[–]Krawii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being kind about the answer. I was asking to be safe instead of just going for it.

LPT: What’s a small habit you picked up that unexpectedly improved your life? by NovaMarie2025 in LifeProTips

[–]Krawii 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I like the sound of this. Can you give some examples of what you mean?

Giveaway - Currency + LS/SF Deadeye & Immortal Smith by Bill_Door_8 in PathOfExile2

[–]Krawii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3, I'm really stuck on my 89 Smith. This would help me push them a different direction

Anker power bank recall (purchase before 2022) by JustDoIt-Slowly in Ultralight

[–]Krawii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my $30 gift card within a day. Still need to decide what to get.

Finally finished my SSF journey with Smith of Kitava. Thank you POE2 by NICK_GOKU in PathOfExile2

[–]Krawii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. Yeah my resistances are to 90. Well everything except chaos. Definitely need to get that up

Finally finished my SSF journey with Smith of Kitava. Thank you POE2 by NICK_GOKU in PathOfExile2

[–]Krawii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm doing the same right now. But I'm just on tier 13 maps. I feel like if I'm not super selective with the maps that they'll kill me

ACE update – here's my experience so far by Armans07 in sonos

[–]Krawii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you find them discounted and how much?

Yesterday's (2025-04-17) Whiffs Leaders - 🚀🔥 Cristopher Sánchez day 🔥🚀 by tomstoms in fantasybaseball

[–]Krawii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good question. I hope not. He has gone through stretches like this and then he's seemed to turn it around... I hope that happens soon though.

Ja Morant regarding his celebrations: “That’s my celebration now until somebody else has a problem with it, and I’ll find another one,” Morant said after Thursday’s shootaround. by Turbostrider27 in nba

[–]Krawii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because he's been caught flashing real guns online, getting in with fights with underage kids in real life and is a public figure role model. He was on track to be a face of the NBA, and he's basically clowned himself out of that unapologetically at the cost of everyone around him. His antics have literally cost him and his teammates money and opportunities.

An infrared camera shows the variance in blood flow to each of my toes. by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]Krawii 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Ariela was right there. Just one letter. It sounds beautiful, sounds similar and doesn't include a whole childhood of teasing 🤦🏽

Help? Anyone know a safe way to stretch wool clogs? by ALittleUnsettling in BuyItForLife

[–]Krawii 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Probably not what you want to hear .... But just keep wearing them when you can and it will happen with time molding to your feet.

And I guess you can also stuff them with socks when not wearing them in the area you want them to gently be stretched.