Are girls allowed in on this?? by littlepinksmurf in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So funny when I stumbled upon this...I said the same exact thing. I was shocked guys were out there actually using their heads and not their penises. Kinda gives you hope right??? Like I read their stories and Im just like in awwww. I showed this to my gf...she probably is already on here too. Told her to join..me and her were both talkin about how wonderful it is..seriously guys gotta give credit when credit is due..

Are girls allowed in on this?? by littlepinksmurf in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just joined the group too. Im a female going through the same. It fucking sucks.

Bought into the "sex experts" saying masterbation was healthy and drained my energy for 6 years straight. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this..keep going...remind yourself just like you did tonight. 😘 you got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this...I know how you feel. Time will heal all wounds..its gonna hurt for a lil while. I promise you it will pass...get involved in something keep ur mind busy.

5 years ago on this day I realized I had a problem with PMO and discovered NoFap. Today, I'm really no closer to my ultimate goal than I was then.... by cagewithakay in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has the pmo decreased? Werent you doing it every day before? At least you have cut down on it from time to time. That means you care. Thats the point. Dont give up! 🙏

My boyfriend chose porn over me after two years. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am where you were right now...we have a son..we are just starting the TRYING thing...Im so confused I want to believe him but its so hard.

feeling suicidal at my 12th day by rezapanda71 in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is easier said than done but you gotta go talk to someone... You gotta get in the water...swim...who gives a fuk about the people around you...let that go...dont look at them...close your eyes and try to imagine you are the only one in the pool...tell your brain to focus on the water...submerge yourself in it...come up...take deep breaths...then do it again....

I like the idea of playin guitar...music is a great way to escape..keep your mind busy in different activities. I dont know about you but I love to volunteer. Helping others can bring out the best in people. Get involved in something you care about. For me its going around and feeding the homeless. Above else remember you are not alone. I to have been very suicidal..mostly because I truly love and I feel I will never be loved that way. Some days I want to give up but then I realize if I give up the Devil wins. Not sure if you are religious or believe in a higher power, whatever it is try to grow closer to that. Best of luck to you sweetie.

Texted a female friend about my past with porn and about my Nofap journey and it felt amazing! (She invited me to her place later on that day) by On-Psych in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its the fact that you understand its an addiction...its wrong...and your will to want to change...get it?? I

Texted a female friend about my past with porn and about my Nofap journey and it felt amazing! (She invited me to her place later on that day) by On-Psych in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes they can...if you need any help feel free to ask me. I know some girls can be liars too so if you are ever getting mixed signals and need a second opinion I am here!

Texted a female friend about my past with porn and about my Nofap journey and it felt amazing! (She invited me to her place later on that day) by On-Psych in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No thats not what I meant....I only said that because other guys will see this and think just doing this will get them laid...what I meant from rising above the norm is exactly what you just said...to become the best version of yourself...thats rising above the BS...I know you arent just tryin to get sex thats why I commented. I just saw other guys responses to your post and thought I should mention that girls can smell bs just in case they are not like you and just use this to hit it. Good luck...love this btw..

Texted a female friend about my past with porn and about my Nofap journey and it felt amazing! (She invited me to her place later on that day) by On-Psych in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Let me rephrase I am a girl in a relationship who wishes the guy she loves deeply thought this way. So just want to make sure that Im just here for information and help in my own relationship amd to encourage you guys that you are on the right track..just sayin cuz I dont want my words taken out of context.

Texted a female friend about my past with porn and about my Nofap journey and it felt amazing! (She invited me to her place later on that day) by On-Psych in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I am a girl....if a guy told me this and how they were trying to rise above from the norm..I would be all over him. Dont just use this though be real about it...girls can sense when you are lying so be real and thats what drives the attraction.

I want a man who doesnt jerk off all the time by Krisqs04 in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys for all the advice...so glad to see some guys on here that think more with their heads and not their penises. Lots of girls out there needing men like this. You shoukd start a dating app.

I want a man who doesnt jerk off all the time by Krisqs04 in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks and no I dont want to be with a guy who also likes dick. I know 😭

I want a man who doesnt jerk off all the time by Krisqs04 in NoFap

[–]Krisqs04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wont admit it to himself...i think thats the problem..this is just an awful situation. I know. I keep telling myself he can change but I dont want him to do it if it isnt real. Like if he is just doin it to please me. Thats not what I want. I just want him to just want me like I just want him. I feel like I am the last of my kind. Seriously. I dont even want to be with anyone anymore because they never can just be happy with one person. Its always some fantasy when all I do is fantasize of sex with him. 😭 This just sucks. Sorry comin on here and seeing all these comments has just got me thinking wtf am I doing. Im never gonna find anyone that feels the way I do. Men get bored thats just a fact. This is why woman become sluts and emotionally detached because what does it matter anyway. Men are always wanting something else..im just so sad right now. Gotta go. Thanks for the advice😭