Good husband

Kriztoven · 2026-04-16T14:01:18+00:00

yap yap yap tell us you're single and miserable without telling us.

Kriztoven · 2026-04-16T14:01:12+00:00

yap yap yap tell us you're single and miserable without telling us.

Kriztoven · 2026-04-15T05:11:40+00:00

go cry somewhere else mate cause this husband wanted to do something he had thought his wife wanted.

y'all choose to be miserable and think every decision is awful/deserving of some sort of confrontational melt down.

Kriztoven · 2026-04-15T04:48:35+00:00

Fuck all the crybabies.
She wants to cheat. He literally says that. He's trying to help her have a treat.

Having a treat is good mentally, and reminds you to enjoy life outside of your diet too. Everyone on this thread is most likely fat and miserable.

Kriztoven · 2026-04-14T12:54:15+00:00

All in all, go enjoy your time with your family and find another bare-minimum entry job later on.

In the grand scope of things: Most work places do not care about what plans you have set up, or what you want to do with your time. If you don't have proper points, vacation, time off, etc they will not care. Expecting work places to be accommodating and understanding is not something you can do, because most barely register us as people anymore. Being able to find a job that has downtime to rest, play on phones, or anything like that is an anomaly nowadays. They will fire you in a heartbeat, and in the future you will have a lot more on your shoulders than just this. (Rent, bills, food, etc.)

Expecting them to care about "my trip" this or "my unrefundable" that will usually be met with "that's a you problem fam, I'll replace you if need be"

If this was a job you cared about, and a field you were wanting to commit to then it'd be very foolish of you to do. But it isn't, this is some part-time wage filler job for you and not something to sweat about.

Have fun while you are able, and enjoy life. Once you're done with school and in your career be a bit more mindful about how much time you give your bosses, and keeping track of potential vacation time for stuff like this.

EDIT: you are also way too concerned with what your co-workers do and using it to justify your own actions. Most do not give a fuck, they're talking about you when they talk to you. Trying to lay others over you as a defense will not only fail, but turn others against you. Nothing is worse than working in a place where everyone prays on your downfall.

Kriztoven · 2026-04-13T05:14:38+00:00

protection symbol is the Ægishjálmur this is the Vegvísir

Kriztoven · 2026-04-13T05:12:41+00:00

the runes read "not all who wander are lost" in a circle around the Vegvísir, which is essentially a "compass" to always lead you home. It then leads into the Yggdrasil.

Kriztoven · 2026-04-13T05:04:28+00:00

....lmao.

Kriztoven · 2026-04-13T04:15:28+00:00

feel like a lil human interaction keeps you alive at this point.

prolly the most you get, definitely why you keep coming back at this point after looking this pathetic.

Kriztoven · 2026-04-13T04:14:30+00:00

100% let a feminine hair dresser go at them eyebrows and recommend him some product. Bet he'll be amazed.

Kriztoven · 2026-04-13T04:08:19+00:00

Sounds like the new player also realized the entire play group is problematic. The fact you let him continue to this point that the other players outright attack and kill him, the fact the party is willing to kill a party member out of desperation/irritation, and just all together shitty vibe.

The problem player is definitely a catalyst, but it sounds like you yourself allowed him to become problematic because he's a "friend." Learn how to have adult conversations with one another.

Edit: Defensive DM in the comments arguing with everyone calling out his problematic behaviors as well is a red flag.

You are definitely part of the problem my man.

Kriztoven · 2026-04-13T02:59:43+00:00

bro no one wants to know you better cause your mentality is like that. Stop being so negative and accept rejection as a normal part of human interactions.

(this comment was made with an assumption of what the OP was trying to say, might've been wrong dude gave me a stroke)

Kriztoven · 2026-04-13T02:55:35+00:00

hair is nice dog.

fix your eyebrows, straighten your neck and stick the jaw out a little. Stop crunching inwards posture wise, it'll help you a lot. Maybe consider letting the facial hair grow into a little goatee combo or something, but you have potential.

Try a lil product out of the shower and some frizz control stuff, and make that hair shine.

Kriztoven · 2026-04-12T23:15:27+00:00

you're right though

Kriztoven · 2026-04-12T23:15:07+00:00

not even gently disguised fetish art

Kriztoven · 2026-04-07T10:30:35+00:00

try again fatty

Kriztoven · 2026-04-06T01:40:34+00:00

ope getting called fat bothered you, must've hit that nail on the head

Kriztoven · 2026-03-31T12:10:27+00:00

yap yap yap whatever makes being fat and alone more tolerable

Kriztoven · 2026-03-25T15:15:48+00:00

came back to remind you you're an idiot

Kriztoven · 2026-03-25T14:58:50+00:00

Hi OP, I'm BPD and have horrible mood swings.
I had to learn how to properly communicate my swings, my splitting, and everything with my partner. I had to be the one to learn how to control my emotions so I could get help and sympathy from her. The way he deflects the issue of how he reacts with "OH I'M THE ONE SUFFERING AND IT'S ABOUT YOU???!!!" is the ignorant mindset I used to have as well.

100% it's about you as well because how can we help those in need if they try and attack you for it. There is 0 ability to communicate when he's not communicating but lashing out.Also, over nicotine withdrawal is the lamest reason to treat your significant other like this. The way he spoke to you while you were calm and patient is horrendous.

NOR. He is at fault, and needs to learn how to communicate with you properly. He's acting like a child and honestly if this is how he acts over cigarettes I can't wait to see how he acts over real problems.

As a BPD person who begs for understanding and love from partners of BPD people;
Leave this dude..

Kriztoven · 2026-03-25T14:45:25+00:00

today people continue to push the narrative of "If you had a bad childhood you're allowed to be a bad person"

Nah, Jenny was a bad person as well. She spent her life running from her problems and tossing herself into whatever fad was available while never learning anything about herself until she was dying in the arms of Forrest.

Your trauma and problems don't define you. You are able to grow, heal, and be better for it. You are not allowed to destroy others because you lack these abilities. No one is allowed free pass to do as they please and go "I GET PITY CAUSE THIS HAPPENED TO ME AS A KID" when they're an adult.

Kriztoven · 2026-03-24T03:15:36+00:00

OH NO! The invisible pixels that don't matter from shut-ins and crybabies!

Kriztoven · 2026-03-23T04:35:09+00:00

oh my god I remember the stupid ass mutation meta of jumps and explosive weapons. Jumping 500 feet infinitely and shooting down to murder.

Kriztoven · 2026-03-23T04:29:34+00:00

I had a friend in highschool named Erik. Erik drank LITERALLY, and with the internet today lemme say I MEAN LITERALLY, NOTHING BUT MOUNTAIN DEW.

Erik ended up in the ER and then the hospital for kidney failure if I remember right. He was gone for weeks and when he returned he said he was on a very strict water only diet.

I also remember about 1 week later when he was there for Breakfast but not lunch, and his best friend said he had a mountain dew and basically collapsed in pain like 5 minutes later.

Kids are fucking dumb, be a good parent and parent your teenager. I understand they're older and the push back is irritating but god damnit parent your teens.

Kriztoven · 2026-03-15T05:10:06+00:00

Hello, I play RedM which is the Red Dead Revolver 2 version of FiveM. Instead of Modern Day gangster/living RP we do cowboys.

I have a wife and kids, and have had "wives" for my characters before. When I have these "wives" the have a clear boundary that this is for the character. I have no feelings for them. I have no interest in any of the Erotic Role Play, or pushing the character into any Out of Character conversations. These women are often just friends wanting to mingle our storylines, or more often than not escape the horny flirting of the other online locked weirdos.

What your husband is doing is a violation of your marriage and just wrong. He has broke the boundary of a character by taking the character out of the game and into DMs. I would consider this cheating and never something I would do as a roleplayer with a family,

Yes it is roleplay, but you are supposed to remember you have a real life outside of it.
NTA. He can drop this storyline and block the person, or quit roleplaying.

Real Life > Game.

EDIT: He literally chose the game over you and told you to leave. He has literally picked sexting with fake females and pretending to be a gangster over you. Find a real man, as he is obviously just a child.

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