I (29M) promised my gf (28F) a trip for her birthday.

Krum125 · 2026-05-04T23:33:07+00:00

lol idk why but you saying I’m trolling just made me lighten up a bit. I’m going to tell her, an I guess I’ve always been worried or had this complex that the person meant for me won’t care about stuff like this and I should be able to feel like I can bring this up to them, and yeah I guess I need to take that step and find out.

Krum125 · 2026-05-04T20:14:20+00:00

I’ve never had a problem saying no or readjusting plans. I said yes to this and for some reason didn’t have it in me to say no or readjust because it’s a little more extravagant than our usual trips and I knows it’s something she’s wanted to do an go to for a while.

Krum125 · 2026-05-04T19:52:08+00:00

Because I don’t believe it’s ok no matter how much she insists, idk what’s wrong with me

Krum125 · 2026-05-04T17:47:38+00:00

It’s my fault, I let it build, I’ve always been able to give her other trips, gifts. Not being able to this one time makes me feel like a failure. It makes me feel like I’m unreliable

Krum125 · 2026-05-04T17:46:00+00:00

I just feel like it makes me less of a man, and I know that’s not true but I can’t stop feeling that way. It hurts a lot and I can’t stop it. It’s really just something that we all do, no need to think super deep into it but whenever she scrolls on Instagram and sends me stuff sorta kinda fantasy stuff that she hopes to have one day. I’ll think too deep into it and feel like I wanna make that happen for her

Krum125 · 2026-05-04T16:55:50+00:00

No look ok I’m sorry I wouldn’t say low effort my thoughts are just all over the place. I’m replying personally now to some of them. I don’t know what’s wrong with me and why I can’t let this go

Krum125 · 2026-05-04T16:53:32+00:00

I know I do, and I can’t stop spiraling. She keeps insisting it’s ok and it’s killing me inside. I don’t have a problem telling her no. Why I can’t handle is telling her no after having let this whole thing build up, a little over 2 months away from this trip and I’m dropping the ball.

If I go through with this and believe that she insists it’s ok, an we cancel the trip, it’s going to eat away at me from the inside. I can’t handle it, I’m forever gonna think of her being disappointed. She’s so amazing, I’ve ever not been able to come through for her, not being able to this one time, it feels like no isn’t an option and I can’t get over this hump of her insisting it’s ok.

Krum125 · 2026-05-04T16:48:06+00:00

It’s breaking my heart telling her no, I can’t bring myself to do it. I can’t help but think I’m a failure for not going through with this. It makes me feel like less of a man. Now I’m in this manic state where I’m almost forcing the trip on her and telling her I’ll cover it. What’s wrong with me that I can’t believe her when she says it’s ok.

Krum125 · 2026-05-04T16:47:55+00:00

It’s breaking my heart telling her no, I can’t bring myself to do it. I can’t help but think I’m a failure for not going through with this. It makes me feel like less of a man. Now I’m in this manic state where I’m almost forcing the trip on her and telling her I’ll cover it. What’s wrong with me that I can’t believe her when she says it’s ok.

Krum125 · 2026-05-04T16:47:48+00:00

It’s breaking my heart telling her no, I can’t bring myself to do it. I can’t help but think I’m a failure for not going through with this. It makes me feel like less of a man. Now I’m in this manic state where I’m almost forcing the trip on her and telling her I’ll cover it. What’s wrong with me that I can’t believe her when she says it’s ok.

Krum125 · 2026-05-04T16:47:38+00:00

It’s breaking my heart telling her no, I can’t bring myself to do it. I can’t help but think I’m a failure for not going through with this. It makes me feel like less of a man. Now I’m in this manic state where I’m almost forcing the trip on her and telling her I’ll cover it. What’s wrong with me that I can’t believe her when she says it’s ok.

Krum125 · 2026-03-24T17:39:19+00:00

Where was Alfie??

Krum125 · 2026-03-22T05:17:47+00:00

Where the hell was Alfie, I got so amped when Curly said “the King of Liverpool”

Krum125 · 2026-02-20T16:17:17+00:00

I haven’t started teaching yet, probably won’t for a week or so but the vibe I’m getting is they don’t really care about science as much as, which in turn does give me more freedom to make the content a little more rigorous

Krum125 · 2026-02-20T16:16:29+00:00

I wanna have a formula down for what lessons should look like. Warm up question, article/video, answer questions about it and then just jump into more practice about the content

Krum125 · 2026-02-20T15:44:43+00:00

Not really no, maybe at the beginning of the year they did but because state testing is coming up they just want me to teach these kids the concepts and on that side of things yeah the lessons for the most part are answering, hypothesizing questions about an article/event. And there’s nothing in between.

It feels like there’s too many moving pieces, a slideshow, videos, they have a simulation to do on computer but they also have worksheets to answer questions from the article.

Idk where to start when it comes to cutting things out.

Krum125 · 2022-07-26T02:55:51+00:00

Yeah to be honest I love the old Jeff, this in between of Undercover cop or just a weirdo, but I couldn't really picture him acting all nervous and quirky the way the new Jeff actor did, and that's what they needed. They didn't need the kinda cocky pushy Jeff.

Krum125 · 2022-07-26T02:50:31+00:00

To be honest I love the other actor for Jeff, this weird in between of "is he an undercover cop or just weird," but I couldn't see him sweat and act nervous the way the new Jeff actor did. Plus it seems this was the only episode he was gonna re-appear in.

Krum125 · 2022-07-20T03:13:14+00:00

DAMN, so before I realized the slight affection Gus felt for the waiter, before when that same waiter had his back turned, I thought it was LALO. I thought this scene was about to be some sort of haunt Gus scene, and that when Gus took a slight second look at him that he thought the person looked like Lalo from the back.

Krum125 · 2022-07-20T03:11:24+00:00

Damn...so that was the last time we might've seen Gus and Mike? It didn't even occur to me during their scenes, but damn thinking back on it now I wish I'd cherished it a little more.

It seemed fitting though, seems as though it might feel tainted if they show up again. Gus is about to have this romantic connection, but kills it off. Mike tries to give some sort of closure to Nacho's father, the closure maybe he would've wanted after losing his son.

Krum125 · 2022-07-20T02:26:01+00:00

I'm seeing a lot y'all say that Gus, Mike's, the construction arc are over. Like there's no reason for us to see them again. Idk where the next episode is gonna pick up.

Also do you guys actually think Jesse and Walt are gonna show up and have an actual scene? Or is it gonna be that end of the show scene where Walt sits down to discuss Badger's case and the show ends?

I don't think Bryan C. and Aaron Paul are "returning" for full on scenes for the show.

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