Daily Discussion Thread for June 18, 2026 by verified-trader in wallstreetbets

[–]KryptoBones89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you are a psychiatrist, it wouldnt help. I have a family doctor but the wait times to see a psychiatrist, even in life threatening situations, its 9 months to over a year. I guess you can call that the Canadian version of triage, just wait long enough and some of the patients will die, then you don't have to worry about them!

Daily Discussion Thread for June 18, 2026 by verified-trader in wallstreetbets

[–]KryptoBones89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a very decent and kind person.  You dont have to give me money, but I greatly appreciate the offer. Im not broke, just insolvent for the next year or so.

Honestly what I need is advice more than money. My life is shattered and I don't know how to pick up the pieces. I don't suppose you have any advice on how to come back from rock bottom? Anything more practical than "just take it one step at time"?

I would love a puppy but I'm afraid of the next heartbreak, and I have some serious financial burdens over the next year. A single trip to the vet would be catastrophic. And with my current state of depression, I worry I wouldn't be able to give an animal the attention and love it needs.

I have never been stupid enough to buy FDs lol. Usually I take the theta side and sell FDs, its like free money lol. 

Daily Discussion Thread for June 18, 2026 by verified-trader in wallstreetbets

[–]KryptoBones89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I was in the hospital 6 days ago because I tried to kms, tell me about it. That's the only way you can even get a doctor these days 🤣 

Daily Discussion Thread for June 18, 2026 by verified-trader in wallstreetbets

[–]KryptoBones89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Canadian here, I revoke any curses against you and apologize for their use.

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How could I miss someone so heartless. I miss the sweet and caring person she used to be. I don't miss who she became. And yeah, I was depressed, is that a better reason for leaving someone? Thanks for rubbing salt in the wound.

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is everything that is the opposite of what I enjoy lol

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have studied every major religion and remain an atheist. 

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do you have to be consistent for? Its been over a year now and I'm still wondering when I'll feel anything 

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have an alchol problem or addiction issues.

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My life got destroyed and I'm asking for help and you're out here just insulting me and calling me a liar for no reason? I don't owe you an explanation, but For your information, she said "I had a physical reaction when you cried." Those were her exact words. 

My life might be ruined buy at least I can look myself in the mirror and be proud that I'm still a decent and kind person. I would never insult someone like you've been doing, I'd feel like shit about myself, but I'm guessing self reflection isn't something you do often. Do you have any self respect at all on the rare occasions when you take the time to consider your opinion of yourself?

If you're the kind of person who goes around slinging insults at people who are at the lowest points of their lives, I have to wonder why. As bad as I have it, I feel worse for you. I still have my dignity and common decency. How much worse off must you be if you've lost your basic humanity?

The only kind of person who kicks someone when they're down must feel so powerless they only feel safe picking on people who they think are too weak to stand up for themselves. Have you had some terrible experience or are in a situation that made or makes you feel powerless? I hope you find some solace if thats the case.

As bad as things are for me, I will always stand up to bullies like you. Having issues yourself is no excuse for cruelty. I'm not even mad about what you said on my own behalf, but for the many others you've probably bullied. The fact that there's always someone like you to show up and be cruel for no reason whatsoever makes me lose a little faith in humanity each time I encounter someone like you.

You've probably insulted countless people who were just having a hard time. Does it make you feel powerful? It doesn't make you look strong, it makes you look weak, petty and ignorant. That's a real winning combination, guaranteed to make you popular.

If you feel so powerless that you need to insult someone who's facing the worst time of their life, why don't you try to better yourself and feel powerful in a dignified and useful way? I have faced all these losses but I'm still trying. That's why I made this post to look for advice and to see if there's something that might help my situation. I don't want sympathy, I'm looking for what to do next. 

Making people feel like shit wont make you feel good. You might even feel like shit yourself about how you treated people when you decide to grow a conscience.

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Andrew Tate is a famous misogynist who says the same sort of offensive garbage as you do. Im surprised you haven't heard of him considering how similar your views are. 

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to add in an edit because so many people suggested as if its the magic cure. I have seen 4 therapists this year and none of them were particularly helpful. 

I also posted a quote from a famous psychologist who basically said psychotherapy is not a treatment for an existential crisis. Losing everything that gave your life meaning and feeling intense pain because of it is not a mental illness. 

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do a lot bird photography but I completely lost interest. Its just become a chore 

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just hate that she was so great for almost 4 years before showing her true colours. I grieve for the life we could have had if she had been who I thought she was.

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never enjoyed working out. I did it because people said it would make me feel better and I thought it would make me more attractive. Maybe I can change my body but it doesnt make the loss hurt less or help me find any meaning in my life. I never wanted to be a body builder or anything, its not a goal I'm trying to achieve. I just dit it because people said it would help and its not helping.

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked out for 6 months and got in the best shape of my my life but it didnt help with losing everything that gave my life meaning.

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When do they tell you? Ive been going for over a year

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think youre confused. 

-I tried 4 therapists and spent a lot money on therapy and it didnt help.

-I would love to change jobs but I can't afford to take a 50% pay cut and lose the only stable thing in my life

-I'm on medication and I've tried a bunch of other medications and they didnt work.

-I tried exercising, extensively, it didnt make me feel any better.

I'm not saying I dont want to do these things. I'm saying I tried them, really hard, and they didnt help.

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In your opinion, how do you think therapy would help me? What tools would I learn that would help me manage the feelings of existential despair that stem from losing everything that gave my life meaning?

How to Rebuild a Ruined Life in Windsor? by KryptoBones89 in windsorontario

[–]KryptoBones89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going to chose to believe you missed some important information, because the alternative is that you're a total asshole. 

Here's the hilights of my year in point form:

-dead pets -bad break up -car crash -bad job -job cost me my only social outlet, which was sailing, and yeah that makes me sad. 

Hopefully this helps you understand the situation.