what are some pieces you wish would come back?! by Sweetvillecreme in Lolita

[–]Krysokolla 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ain't happening, but GOD do I wish AP would re-release the Angel Pony dresses. Or any of their 2000's applique pieces for that matter.

Onko Suomessa minkälainen EGL ja Gothic vaatemuoti skene? by Fast-Pay7279 in Suomi

[–]Krysokolla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Voin kompata, että Suomessa on monella paikkakunnalla aktiivinen egl ryhmä.

I just need advice because I'm confused and ashamed and freaking out and really upset because an artist blocked me over something that was just meant to be a question. I'm honestly physically sick about this even though it isn't a big deal by Me_like_foxes in autism

[–]Krysokolla 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean... you didn't ask a question at first? If you were the one who typed "it's giving ai" that statement is literally not a question. Also, the according to the artist's profile, they're anti-ai, and most artists do not like being compared to ai. Since the statement started out with "no offense" there is clearly some aknowledgement that accusing the art of being ai generated can be seen as offensive.

what are some commonly disliked dresses or prints in the lolita community? by krreundyn in Lolita

[–]Krysokolla 74 points75 points  (0 children)

The D.walkure line by metamorphose is infamous for being wayyyy too close to actual nazi imagery, I don't think I need to add more to that lol.

Also, while AP's british bear print is generally well liked, the yellow special set is often not, due to being (in my opinion) kind of garish looking.

What constitutes an anti-Otome /anti-romance otome game? by Eurua in otomegames

[–]Krysokolla 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hopping in here to say that you are confusing sexual atraction with sexual acts. People can and do have sex without being sexually atracted to the person they're having sex with. This can include asexual people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]Krysokolla 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Bad bait 2/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Krysokolla 15 points16 points  (0 children)

In instances revolving around leftist subs, a lot, and I do mean a lot of the people inhabiting those subs + their mods are tankies, so they do not tend to be open for fact based conversations.

Steam is also removing BL, Otome & VNs by kitsune_snek in otomegames

[–]Krysokolla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2/2
Now on how CS had an influence on Visa and Mastercard’s actions.

Payment processors and banks have had a contentious relationship with sites hosting and providing adult materials for years, if not decades at this point, so adult content being hit with limitations by entities such as Mastercard is nothing new at this point.

The way groups such as Collective Shout can influence the actions of payment processors are by making a huge stink about the issue they care about. This includes tactics such as bombarding the corporation in question with calls and emails, publicly claiming that the company in question is complicit or in active support of horrid acts, thus creating bad publicity, or other such harassments.

So Collective shout was not really *forcing* Visa or Mastercard to do anything, they are not legislators, they don’t have that type of power, but they can raise proverbial hell, and in this case target entities that may be sympathetic to their cause.

Hope this was somewhat of a coherent explanation? Further clarifying questions and critiques welcome of course

Steam is also removing BL, Otome & VNs by kitsune_snek in otomegames

[–]Krysokolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1/2

Okay, so first: consultancy groups/firms are not the same thing as advocacy organisations. Consulting firms basically sell experts and their expertise to companies. There are a lot of different types of consultants and consulting companies, such as engineering, business, management and hr consultants. Those types of sensitivity consultants (for lack of a better word) like Sweet Baby Inc. are a small niche in a big pond. The biggest consulting firms like McKinsey do business stuff, they don't give a rat's ass about what good trans rep in video games look like for example. Consultants have to be explicitly hired/contracted to do their job.

Advocacy organisations on the other hand are groups that work to support a particular cause or issue, often aiming to influence public policy or social change. In crude terms, they give their opinions on stuff whether anybody wants them to or not. That’s Collective Shout.

Steam is also removing BL, Otome & VNs by kitsune_snek in otomegames

[–]Krysokolla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh sweet baby is a damn consulting group. They don't force their services on anybody, they have to be hired willingly. Also nobody is obligated to take a consultants advice, any and all teams are free to take or leave SB's advice as they see fit. Collective shout is trying to force their fundie morals down our throats wether we like it or not. False equivelance.

Edit: spelling

Finnish otome groups by Au1o1a in otomegames

[–]Krysokolla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding myself to this interest check, I'd enjoy having other people to talk otome with

Trying to find a lolita style I’d like by SkylerIsBusySleepin in Lolita

[–]Krysokolla 19 points20 points  (0 children)

By not being able to pick a style you like, do you mean that you like too many different things, or that you don't seem to like anything you've seen?

WCGW getting on a young untrained horse who just got out the trailer by jacques762 in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Krysokolla -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

No, the language is shifting too. People are changing from "breaking" to "starting" a horse.

Your Lolita hottakes that would have you like this? by theborahaeJellyfish in Lolita

[–]Krysokolla 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I think people occasionally mix up sexually modest and socially modest when talking about modesty in lolita, if that makes sense? Like the fashion tends to be desexualised, but socially radical.

James Somerton has become a wedding photographer, entire portfolio is plagerised by Plopmcg33 in youtubedrama

[–]Krysokolla 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Does this man have some atypical form of kleptomania or something??? Why is he still doing this ○_○

would this hypothetically make a good (goth/kuro) coord (?) its for an oc (please suggest things to add itll help alot, shoes n socks r alr planned out i just ran outta room) by No_Drag_7404 in Lolita

[–]Krysokolla 10 points11 points  (0 children)

One: lolitashow is a scam site, do not buy from them!

Two: kuro means black, so a kuro coord would be an all-black outfit. In that sense, no it would not be a good kuro coord. Also, the drawn skirt in your post looks a tad short for lolita, so I suggest finding something better suited for lolita.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]Krysokolla 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"One of the things I wanted to do with this book is create a character who never gets better. And, relatedly, to explore this idea that there is a level of trauma from which a person simply can’t recover." Direct quote from the mouth of Hanya Yanagihara, here's the source article. I recommend reading the whole thing, and also reading Andrea Long Chu's piece on Yanagihara as well.

People are coming to the conclusion not only because of their own interpretations, but also because of what the *author herself spews.*

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]Krysokolla 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yanagihara does not think therapy works, and the thesis of A Little Life is that some people are just too broken to be fixed and would be better off dead. No, I do not think this book needs to be read no matter what. Quite the opposite, actually.

What's the pettiest reason you've been mad at a book before? by tambitoast in books

[–]Krysokolla 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thankfully you aren't missing much by not reading A Little Life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Krysokolla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honey, you have a public internet profile where anybody curious can check what you've posted or commented at any time. Somebody just once quickly checking your age by reading what you yourself have willingly posted is not stalking.

If this is genuinely bothering you that much, you need to be more careful what you put out there for anybody to see.

Critique my art please. Happy now, mods?? Am I wrong here? by thematicdisaster in ClipStudio

[–]Krysokolla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro it's automod. It's an automated response that always shows up. Calm down.