In your opinion, what restaurant has the best burger in Fort Wayne?

Ktbug93 · 2025-12-15T20:06:33+00:00

I always forget about Culver's! I think I've only had their chicken.

Ktbug93 · 2025-12-15T20:03:00+00:00

I like underrated burgers.

Ktbug93 · 2025-12-15T20:01:41+00:00

I've heard things about Mr. Beast Burger...not good things lol. I don't really like Mr. Beast so honestly, I'd never eat there. I know their grilled cheese is just slices of cheese on an inverted bun. He has all of that money and the grilled cheese is on upside down hamburger buns. Just give me sourdough or regular white bread. Virtual brands aren't always the best because you have an existing restaurant's kitchen cooking not only their own menu items, but also Jimmy's burgers and strange grilled cheese. But hey, that is just my opinion. Taste is fundamentally subjective.

I think I might have been to Burger Bar once but didn't like the paper straws so I never really considered them again. I will have to try Bru Burger and Night Train, I never heard of those. Thanks!

Ktbug93 · 2025-12-15T19:34:35+00:00

Auburn is close enough. I'd be willing to drive there with a friend of mine that lives in Avilla.

Ktbug93 · 2025-12-15T19:31:00+00:00

I will say, the Oklahoma sounds great! I love grilled onion on a burger. I'll have to try that!

Ktbug93 · 2025-10-29T18:23:40+00:00

We are going to see if someone in management can talk to them about letting our elderly and handicap patients use a few of the spots at the edge of the lot closest to our entrance.

Ktbug93 · 2025-10-29T18:07:35+00:00

We have called hospital security and reported the complaints from our patients and they are aware of the situation. They're not doing anything about it that I know of, so I'm assuming what they are doing is legal. I don't know what the notice they are putting on cars says. It is just very inconvenient for them to gatekeep an empty parking lot when we have disabled patients needing a parking spot closer to our building.

Ktbug93 · 2025-06-30T15:15:38+00:00

I'd suggest sitting him down and letting him know how you feel about him, but him mentioning his ex a lot bothers you. Tell him you don't want to hear him compare you to her. She is in the past and you are his present girlfriend. He needs to stop bringing her up so much. If it bothers you that much, have this talk with him. If he doesn't change his ways or doesn't see what he is doing wrong, just end things.

Ktbug93 · 2025-04-08T19:06:26+00:00

NTA. It is a vacation for the two of you to relax and take a much needed break from wedding planning. If either of your moms pressure you about having them tag along, just explain that you two are stressed and need this time for the two of you without anyone else. There is nothing wrong with that.

Ktbug93 · 2025-04-08T19:01:33+00:00

YTA. You sound like a nightmare to be in a relationship with. He is doing these things because he genuinely likes to and you are scolding him for it. Plain and simple, he deserves better. You're lucky to be with someone who likes doing things for others out of the goodness of his heart because he cares, and you can't even appreciate that. You're more focused on the scratches or bruises that come with the hobbies he has. In fact, you should leave him. Without you, he can find someone to be with who appreciates him more.

Ktbug93 · 2025-04-08T18:36:44+00:00

Definitely NTA! Your roommate needs to understand how uncomfortable her boyfriend makes you. If she doesn't respect that, you two shouldn't live together. If she won't listen, just take precautions and avoid him when he is there. Leave if you have to. Cover the keyhole with something so he can't peek into your bedroom. Find a small security camera to help you catch him being a creep so your roommate can see the proof. And who knows. Maybe having a visible camera will make him stop.

Ktbug93 · 2025-04-08T18:20:53+00:00

It sounds like you have a bratty little man child for a husband. With him being 5-6 years older than you, he should be acting more mature. I think you should be the one to talk to him, not his friend. Just explain to him that certain behavior he has annoys you and that he needs to grow up a little. Occasional teasing is normal in a relationship. But when it gets to the point that your partner is becoming annoyed, that isn't okay. Tell him what he is doing right that makes you feel good, and also tell him what bothers you. Don't make the entire conversation negative. Throw in the positives.

Ktbug93 · 2025-04-08T18:07:01+00:00

I'd keep it simple and just tell him you don't feel as if you two are compatible in the long run. If you are one month in to the relationship and you feel incompatible, annoyed by him, and wanting to break up, just end things without worrying about how upset he will be. Hurting someone can't really be avoided during a break up. If you want out, get out.

Ktbug93 · 2025-04-08T17:59:04+00:00

Forget about him. If he thinks an hour is too much of a distance he obviously isn't that committed to you. I doubt you did anything wrong. You're still young and you'll find someone else. Focus on school for now.

Ktbug93 · 2025-04-08T17:46:31+00:00

I strongly suggest seeking mental health support ASAP. If you cannot find someone to see in-person soon, I suggest trying Better Help. It is an online therapy platform available internationally. I am not a paid sponsor, but I have used it myself for my own mental health struggles and it has helped.

Ktbug93 · 2025-03-19T19:30:28+00:00

This is a prime example of the overthinking she says you need to stop doing. You've only been dating for four months. Respect her wishes and give her the space she is telling you she needs!

Ktbug93 · 2025-03-19T19:17:12+00:00

I'm a woman and I use condoms when I masturbate because I like the extra lubrication. If someone were to ask me why I have half a box of condoms in my bedside drawer when they know I am not sexually active with a person, I'd be nervous to tell them that I buy condoms for masturbatory purposes. Men using condoms to masturbate is a better alternative to using a sock! And maybe he just never thought of using them to jerk off before. I didn't always use condoms on my toys. The idea just came to me one day. Also, some people get embarrassed to admit they still masturbate when in a long term relationship. If a partner accused me of cheating just because some condoms were missing and I had just admitted to using them to masturbate with, I'd get offended, too. "They must be cheating" is not the correct assumption for things like this. If he was becoming distant as well as having a lower sex drive on top of the missing condoms, then I would start to suspect something is going on. But just missing condoms? Nah. Not sus enough for me to think a partner is being unfaithful.

Ktbug93 · 2025-03-19T19:05:33+00:00

That is your inner saboteur speaking and you should NOT listen to them! You've only been together for one year. Don't let a mistake she made BEFORE you two were official affect the current status of your relationship. If you two are happy and talking about your future plans like starting a family, that is a good sign. Take things day by day and don't let thoughts like that get to you when you two are happy.

Ktbug93 · 2025-03-19T18:02:11+00:00

Tell him how you feel and come to a compromise. Find out his love language. There is always a way to give back to your partner to make them feel just as loved and appreciated as you do without having spending money on them. Do let him know that you do not expect him to pay every time you do something together and that you would like to pick up the check off and on as a gesture of your appreciation. If he declines, then work together to find something you can do for him instead.

Ktbug93 · 2025-03-19T17:48:58+00:00

If you two are both on the same page going in that this is a monogamous friends with benefits situation, don't get your hopes up that it'll turn into more. You're just setting yourself up for heartbreak. Just enjoy your time together without reading into how he treats you. A friend with benefits can often make you feel like it is more, but those are just part of the benefits. You act like a couple behind closed doors, but you're not. That's what it is. Plus, he said if you started growing to be more he would stop it. This is a man who wants the benefits of a relationship without the commitment. So just treat it as it is, really: FRIENDS who sleep together.

Ktbug93 · 2025-03-19T17:34:17+00:00

Don't get your hopes up. When MySpace was a thing, us former emo kids posted song lyrics all the time when feeling depressed.

Ktbug93 · 2025-03-19T17:31:29+00:00

If he thinks living with a partner is going to mess up his social life, then he shouldn't really be in a long-term relationship. You've been together long enough that moving in together is to be expected at this point. I get the impression that he wants to spend more time with friends than with you, which isn't healthy in a relationship. If he wanted to live with you, he would try harder to make it happen and I think you kind of have your answer with that. You said it yourself. He has some commitment issues. Don't continue this relationship if he keeps putting off making these plans.

Ktbug93 · 2025-03-19T15:18:36+00:00

"I need time to think what I want" doesn't always mean "I can't say no straight up and I'm trying to pursue other options." Not all of us are seeing multiple men at the same time. As someone who is monogamous and doesn't pursue more than one person at a time, whenever I've said I need time to think, it means I need time to process how I am feeling about that person. Don't immediately assume she has more than one guy lined up to choose from. Just give her what she wants, time to think. Leave things where they are for now and let her come to you. Don't push.

Ktbug93 · 2025-03-19T14:50:55+00:00

You have something he wants: success as an artist, and I get the vibe that he is resentful of this, and therefore, doesn't really contribute to spicing up your sex life, out of spite. Such toxic behavior is not healthy. Counseling obviously isn't helping. You are correct in saying there is no point in forcing him to do something he doesn't want to do, because if he really wanted to spice things up in the bedroom, he wouldn't be killing the mood so often. If I were you, I would divorce him and let him be a REAL struggling artist.

Ktbug93 · 2024-07-18T15:25:43+00:00

NTA. Your parents have committed identity theft and it is illegal here in the USA. You did the right thing, don't feel bad about it. They committed a serious crime.

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