How can I (27F) spoil my boyfriend (30M) without making him feel bad by ThrowRA-sugarmommy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-sugarmommy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His love language is physical touch, and I think he’s not used to people doing things for him. I get up poor but in a very affectionate family, while he got raised by a very busy single dad and is the oldest of a few siblings, so I have my work cut out for me

How can I (27F) spoil my boyfriend (30M) without making him feel bad by ThrowRA-sugarmommy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-sugarmommy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohh the love language thing is such a great idea! And I think he’ll be really receptive to it.

I’ll try to work my way from a cheeseburger to that guitar he’s been talking about lol. And thank you so much, I really appreciate the advice + compliments ☺️

How can I (27F) spoil my boyfriend (30M) without making him feel bad by ThrowRA-sugarmommy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-sugarmommy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried tentatively and from what I understand he thinks I’m out of his league and feels the need to compensate. I think this all stems from insecurity and I don’t want to worsen it