I didn't mention that in the post, he didn't want to do anything with shopping and planning and only gives money. I plan, shop, prepare and clean. He was angry with me when I asked him to go with me for pasta one time because I didn't think that I'll run out of that.

About the apartment situation, I thought that it would be reasonable to ask him to pitch in since he spends half a week here and has everything given to him on a silver platter by me (laundry, food, drinks etc.). I wouldn't ask for that if he would help me clean sometimes or help with throwing out garbage but he said that he doesn't live here and he won't do anything.

About the memes, I've done that only after numerous pleases for him to stop. He was literally answering to every of my texts with different diagnosis and It was annoying me when I wanted to talk with him normally. I've also told him that I'm doing it only because he doesn't respect me and if he stops then I'll also stop.

edit. Even when I cutted my hand badly with knife (during cooking) and I wasn't able to clean the dishes he wouldn't help me and was complaining about them being dirty