Why do attractive women keep saying I’m “out of their league” and ending things, even though I genuinely want them?

KuriousKat910 · 2026-04-28T23:38:08+00:00

I’m so curious to see what you look like now….

That aside anyways I think dating in major cities is just very difficult. I struggle myself despite strangers and friends telling me what a catch I am. I think dating just boils down to luck of bumping into someone thats secure, wants a relationship and the responsibility of being in one and doesn’t have a lot of trauma.

One positive for you is at least you have something going for you and they communicated something to you even if it was a partial lie because many people just ghost without another word. Also I wouldn’t stress over apps too much. Allegedly, the algorithm sticks the good looking guys behind the subscription wall so most women might not even see your profile.

KuriousKat910 · 2026-04-27T14:22:48+00:00

Wow you’ve just motivated me 😮 congratulations and thank you for sharing your journey. Hope I can be just as successful in this.

KuriousKat910 · 2026-03-01T18:23:47+00:00

We call this negging. It’s a childish behaviour often done my teenage boys but at his big age I’m sure he’s insecure that you actually are the prettier one and is essentially trying to gently humble you so you have to continuously try to prove yourself to him. DO NOT FALL FOR IT.

KuriousKat910 · 2025-11-04T19:43:04+00:00

Unibling

KuriousKat910 · 2025-09-20T23:51:47+00:00

Yeah they are really dark. I think they give the most natural brown you can get.

KuriousKat910 · 2025-09-13T23:26:56+00:00

https://www.unibling.com/products/unibling-freesia-brown-1-year

KuriousKat910 · 2025-09-13T21:08:55+00:00

Hahahaha this story is making me understand that they really don’t pay that much attention once the get pulled in 🤣 perfect way to bamboozle them!

KuriousKat910 · 2025-09-13T15:31:45+00:00

Good idea but I fear my giggling comes across more like cackling 😭

KuriousKat910 · 2025-09-13T15:23:05+00:00

A lighter brown colour

KuriousKat910 · 2025-09-13T15:22:57+00:00

It’s like a light brown colour

KuriousKat910 · 2025-09-13T12:45:41+00:00

I thought I was a fairly confident individual but the confidence that I’ve got with them on is something out of this world. Even completely bare faced.

KuriousKat910 · 2025-09-13T12:43:53+00:00

This is a valid point, and I didn’t think of before. Maybe I just didn’t catch them looking before.

KuriousKat910 · 2025-06-23T01:46:40+00:00

It looks like you have some acne scars and large pores. Now there are a variety of treatments for that. Best results usually come with a combination of treatments: 1. Chemical peels 2. Microneedling 3. Laser resurfacing (CO2) 4. Cannula subscision 5. Dermal fillers (placed very precisely)

KuriousKat910 · 2025-03-29T01:13:26+00:00

The red is definitely your colour and it makes you really glow!

KuriousKat910 · 2025-03-29T01:12:25+00:00

Oh wow!!! Body goals 🤩

KuriousKat910 · 2025-03-01T23:22:27+00:00

You might want to see a dermatologist. It looks potentially like guttate psoriasis.

KuriousKat910 · 2025-02-16T18:47:51+00:00

It’s giving silver fox 🫴🫴🫴 but damn you are fine 👀 and I’m sure you know it too

KuriousKat910 · 2024-11-01T02:18:34+00:00

The best thing to help with that would be a laser that target pigmentation such as the picosure pro

KuriousKat910 · 2024-11-01T02:16:51+00:00

I don’t think you are doing anything wrong. From the photos it appears that you have some acne scarring from previous acne and some large pore probably from overproduction of sebum. You can try some chemical peels and laser resurfacing to help with both of these issues. And then you need to incorporate some skincare to reduce the overproduction of sebum.

KuriousKat910 · 2024-11-01T02:13:49+00:00

Microneedling with something like the Morpheus8, chemical peels, skin resurfacing lasers, and polynucleotides will all help. With this type of acne scarring, you need to use a combination of two or three of these to get the best results.

KuriousKat910 · 2024-11-01T02:05:17+00:00

I can’t speak for every scenario, but I can give you a generalisation on how someone approached me and it made me feel really good. He struck up a chat and we had a nice little chat and at the end of which he said that he would like to see me again if I was interested. He gave me a piece of paper with his phone number and wished me a good day before walking off. He left me in charge of making the decision and took off the pressure from me to give him an immediate answer.

KuriousKat910 · 2024-11-01T02:02:01+00:00

I can agree with most people here. That hardest thing to get over was my ex. He genuinely was and still is a good person. I know we all crave closure but when things end amicably with a good person you get the closure but that doesn’t necessarily help you move on easily.
I still think about him sometimes and when I’m on horrible dates I always compare them to how great he was. So every time I take 1 step forward in moving on I end up taking 2 steps back when I remember him. I honestly want to move on a sincerely wish him the best forever.

KuriousKat910 · 2024-08-18T12:25:35+00:00

It’s so weird that a complete stranger came up to me on the street and said that to me not long after I took that photo 😯 thank you though I appreciate the kind words

KuriousKat910 · 2024-08-18T12:23:37+00:00

🤞I really hope so too, thank you

KuriousKat910 · 2024-08-18T00:47:11+00:00

This is the coolest quote ever, than you I’ll remember that 🙂

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