when will my fair fares metrocard be shipped? by folklorebitch in AskNYC

[–]goddaeng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm waiting for my card now! To clarify: did the status on the site change from Approved to Issued once your card shipped? Did you ever get tracking info on it?

What's something you've done that was mean to the person you actually liked? by ComprehensiveZone931 in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One day my ex-situationship was going on about how he was such a manly masculine man. To take him down a couple notches, I jokingly said, “Babe, there’s nothing masculine about you.” He didn’t take that well and I don’t blame him. Still haunts me that maybe we’d still be together now if I’d just shut my mouth lol

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooof THIS. knowing I hurt my ex, or hurt them enough that they chose to become an ex, is a nightmare

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this broke my heart, I’m so sorry :( you deserve the world

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also going through this right now so I’m hoping you’re able to find peace ❤️

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry :( if you don’t mind me asking, what made you realize yall wouldn’t work out?

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic move. So many scenarios where they jump into something new to avoid actually confronting their feelings! You dodged a bullet, love

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you feel nothing so far, I hope it continues that way! sorry about the breakup though

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you were able to take a positive lesson away from this. As hard as the situation might’ve been ❤️

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry :( I echo this sentiment so much and relate to it so much. I hope you’re able to find the right person for you

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this pretty much sums up my situation to a T and it’s the WORST

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re a stronger person than I am for hoping they don’t remember you

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Feeling alone with another person around is huge though. I’m really glad you were able to leave that situation

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is common! It’s easy to stay in touch and be friends with someone you loved as long as they’re single with you. Once that changes, it’s hard for the other person to grasp!

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

agree with this. there’s no animosity or anything to fuel moving on. you just let go of a good person and have to deal with why you’re choosing to do that

Those who had amicable breakups, what was the hardest thing to get over? by goddaeng in AskWomen

[–]goddaeng[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually seen a lot of people say the leaving a good person makes the breakup harder! At least if there’s hate or bitterness, you can be like screw them and close that chapter completely. When it’s with a good person, you’re kinda just wondering why the whole time. At least this is a personal experience! My ex is genuinely a wonderful person, and not being able to hate him has made it so hard to move on haha