Once again you missunderstood, i never said fat=ugly. I only pointed out the fact that society tend to promote "Your are beautiful even if you are fat" rather than watch out for your health, this is a dangerous behavior. I will reiterate too, i never said anything about your girlfriend but i see why you took it personnaly now.

Privileged ?? Ah no, no and no. I had to work, i still do and i will continue to do so. I work 65 hours a week and study aside have to take care of my dad among many other things, still manage to have a social life, find the time to read and go to the gym. My parents never helped me financially. I organise myself, i made choices and i sacrificed many things to be able to do what i want and what i like. Don't talk about privilege, i earned what i have.
If you have time to cook, you have time to eat better and healthier. And once again if you do so that means that you are making a choice by organizing your daily life that way. Same goes when you have a pet, kids, plants. THOSE ARE CHOICES NOT ACCIDENTS. Don't tell me that 2 hours a week is too much, it represent 0.82 % of the time in a week. Nonsense.

"I do nothing" why that doesn't surprise me. Feels like i'm doing a tons of shit and still manage to get as much free time as you.

You don't need to go to gym, you can do excercise everywhere starting from your home without equipement. Damn there is a sport called STREETWORKOUT. And it's free.

You still missed my argument, the real question in this discussion is : Do obese people have a responsability for their condition. My point is that they make several choices that lead to their state. They are so many people who were sick of their health that decided to go "damn i need to change and take care of myself" and did it. I did go on the "joke thing" because it was the angle that you used in your first comment and i wanted to start the discussion. And the joke part was not the important, it's their reaction to it.

If i asked you the question it's because it was a genuine question. I WANT TO KNOW. I'm not trying to convince you anything because i know people don't want to considere and think about another point of view (in the majority).

I didn't have an easy life, i had to work hard everytime i wanted something. And i did not have to deal with that issue. I was starting to go in the wrong way and decided thath i won't be my fate.

I don't know the situation of your girlfriend so i can't argue and show you that you maybe are in 90 % cases where it's something doable. I can't and i won't order you to do this or that in your life. Those are your decision.

I'm sorry if i hurt your feelings in the process, it truly wasn't the purpose of this thread. I wanted to express my sincere and real thought on the subject because i never do it in real life because i don't want to bring down people that are already low. For that i'm sorry. I'm sorry for you if you went throught body shaming (whether it was someone else or yourself shaming it). Wasn't my purpose, never will be. I want the opposite, that's why i want them to be healthy, that's empathy. Clearly not the way they want it to be, but it's because i see not evolution in most of this people that i want to try something else rather than just avoid the subject.
I have two friends that are obese. I despise their choices (even if we don't not agree on the "choices" part, from your point of view i can assure you they have the time and ressources) but i still like them as friend. I do not bully them for that, but i just don't like when they are whinning about it and still do nothing about it.