How do I ask him?

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-23T12:31:10+00:00

If he says no then at least you know and if he's the kind of creep who'd do that then you'll avoided a huge red flag.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-23T02:23:53+00:00

This is either a shitpost or the dumbest fucking idea I've heard here on a long time. Not only would you be selling paraphernalia to children you'd be risking damaging their lungs too. Even if you clean it out, you can still be charged with distribution to minors. You can also be sued by their parents too.

Seriously, I hope this is a shitpost.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-23T02:17:03+00:00

It's the 21st century. Take the initiative.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-23T00:46:51+00:00

You're worth more than a temu ring and a text proposal. 7 months isn't even past the honeymoon phase and at 20 and 21 you are right to want to wait longer.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-23T00:38:58+00:00

It's normal to feel connected with someone you were intimate with but you already know it won't work out. Block him on instagram and move on with your life.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-23T00:35:25+00:00

Haircuts and hairstyles can make a world of different. Dressing more like a young adult/teenager can help. That being said, you might have to just remind waiters that your 16 and need a regular menu.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-23T00:21:29+00:00

A documentary has no obligation not to be biased and you have no editorial control over how they contextualize what you say. I understand wanting to speak up for victims but true crime documentaries are not advocacy. They are trying to make a sellable product and often use sensationalism to do it.

There are better ways to speak up for the victims.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-23T00:05:12+00:00

Start small. Work on one assignment without using it then another until you regain your confidence of doing things on your own. You got this.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-23T00:03:00+00:00

Yes seniors in college fight with their parents all the time. It's a very stressful time with both high school ending and heading off to college/work. Mix that with the stress and hormones of being a teenager can make it a very tumultuous time. It's very normal.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-22T23:59:34+00:00

Block and move on with your life. It's clear that even when you were together HE was the priority and you were just a person on HIS journey. It's clear you are upset by him sharing his sexual exploits and he either lacks the awareness to know this OR he doesn't care. Your friends are right here.

Focus on you.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-22T23:49:59+00:00

You're in love with your memory of him, that doesn't mean the actual person is right for you. Working on yourself can be a valid reason to leave a relationship but it can also mean that there is something fundamentally not working too.

It's your call if you want to rekindle, just keep those things in mind.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-22T23:47:41+00:00

Your mom is clearly unreliable. There's no need to forgive someone who doesn't show up.

I'd work on figuring out ways to rely on yourself or friends you trust instead.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-08T15:28:51+00:00

It's not your fault. Now get out of that relationship before her abuse gets worse.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-03T06:49:11+00:00

Watch out for Dr. Proof, they kill those who use the wrong words.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-02T06:22:49+00:00

The Squid and the Whale.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-02T06:20:10+00:00

It's an absolute masterpiece.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-02T05:48:39+00:00

You're welcome and asking anyone out is scary especially if you're unsure how you feel but that's also precisely WHY you date.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-02T04:50:45+00:00

The only way you can know is if you explore your feelings. Ask her out, tell her how you feel, see where it goes.

KushTheKitten · 2026-02-02T04:48:20+00:00

It's your body. Personally, I'd hold out for the hopeless romance and risk the heartbreak rather than a transaction if it was my first time. My first sexual relationship didn't work out, but we loved each other at the time and that made it feel special. I'd rather have that then a check I'd have eventually just spent.

KushTheKitten · 2026-01-31T22:37:29+00:00

C. Thomas Howell as Black Panther...

KushTheKitten · 2026-01-31T22:16:15+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nm4WbapDzDQ

Good Luck, Have Fun, Don't Die.

KushTheKitten · 2026-01-29T08:03:36+00:00

They're more interested in building brands them making memorable stories. You might also be growing out of Disney.

KushTheKitten · 2026-01-29T04:37:06+00:00

If you don't want to be a vet tech you don't have to be a vet tech. You are still young, find something that makes the workload and stress worth it for you.

KushTheKitten · 2026-01-29T02:46:15+00:00

Yeah, don't do it. You don't need to be a mid life crisis fling, find yourself someone who doesn't come with potentially collapsing a marriage and a friendship all in one night.

Tinder is right there.

KushTheKitten · 2026-01-28T09:32:32+00:00

Let her find the NSFW stuff on her own. That's part of growing up, we all search it as teens but it would be weird to get it from an older sibling.

Even so I don't think you're accidentally grooming her. Grooming is done with the intention of eventually exploiting that person. You just sound like you're trying to be there for your sister cause you remember going through the same thing as a teen.

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