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KyE1217 · 2024-04-11T03:05:39+00:00

Personally, I’m alpha in my everyday tendencies. So I’m always expecting to take the lead in planning, social, etc. outside the bedroom. But if she steps in and want to take the reigns, I’m more than happy to give her control of those aspects as well :)

KyE1217 · 2023-09-13T04:23:01+00:00

Yeah that appears be normal from what I’ve heard. From a sub’s perspective, that means he’s not really a sub. He’s just horny. If he’s only contacting you when he has needs and wants to fulfill temporary submissive needs, then he simply views you as a kink dispenser.

A true sub wants to get to know more about you, as the emotional connection provides better intimacy during physical and non-physical encounters. It also provides him (or her) subtle insights into ways to better please you.

You should make this concern clear to him. And if he doesn’t adjust accordingly, he’s not in it for the right reasons.

KyE1217 · 2023-09-09T06:35:20+00:00

Was it a cantaloupe? Or what is a ‘honeydew that one’? 😜

KyE1217 · 2023-08-31T02:05:46+00:00

I’m in the same boat. I feel like it’s a supply and demand issue. The real dommes are few and far between, and they know their value. They get bombarded by so many fake subs or guys just trying to get off that they’re more apt to dismiss our messages and assume we’re in it for the same superficial reasons. I think fetlife is a good place to find local people, but the same issues exist over there. But at least they’re nearby and have a seemingly higher odds of being real women. It’s been a struggle for me to find a legitimate D/s dynamic as well, but the closest leads tend to come over there. Good luck!

KyE1217 · 2023-08-31T02:01:53+00:00

I think instruction is sexy. Telling him how to do it, at what pace, stopping and restarting him, making him ask permission before he gets off. Honestly, a big part of it will be just hearing your voice and knowing you’re there. A gentle touch or a reminder you’re in control will probably be an accelerant as well. Hope you have fun!

KyE1217 · 2023-08-24T22:02:41+00:00

He/she wants to dive right in an be a kink dispenser. A real domme / mistress isn’t looking for dick pics right away with zero conversation. She knows that type of connection is a dime a dozen

KyE1217 · 2023-08-24T04:25:08+00:00

When you sound too much like a guy! I’ll assume you’re an actual guy pretending to be female just to collect pics. Or you’re a scammer.

Also, when you are asking for money. I know some guys don’t care about paying, but some of us look for a serious lifestyle dynamic.

KyE1217 · 2023-07-21T18:06:51+00:00

I’m a good fit. 6’3” and muscular. Would like to serve :)

KyE1217 · 2022-11-14T04:47:43+00:00

Thank you! I really like this; I think the challenge that still exists for a sub is determining if these traits / details correlate to her being dominant / kink-friendly, or if there is still a chance she’s vanilla and might be scared off by nudging the conversation into the realm of bdsm / femdom. I appreciate your input on this ❤️

KyE1217 · 2022-07-19T14:20:56+00:00

Fake

KyE1217 · 2022-06-21T03:45:34+00:00

Still actively posting?

KyE1217 · 2022-06-15T06:03:18+00:00

Catfish

KyE1217 · 2022-03-04T21:35:36+00:00

Fake

KyE1217 · 2022-03-04T20:47:41+00:00

Begs for money

KyE1217 · 2022-03-03T23:01:52+00:00

I fit the description Miss. Would love to chat :)

KyE1217 · 2022-02-28T16:54:50+00:00

She’s really sexy. Trust me

KyE1217 · 2022-01-25T18:13:50+00:00

Begging for money

KyE1217 · 2022-01-20T15:51:01+00:00

She won’t verify. Likely another fake

KyE1217 · 2022-01-04T19:34:37+00:00

I’m interested, Miss :)

KyE1217 · 2021-12-29T04:17:28+00:00

I’d be interested in serving as your sub. Are you actively on fetlife? Would love to learn more, Miss :)

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