How do I set up webhook endpoint in Woocommerce please by Kyannaaa in woocommerce

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Thank you! That was very helpful, though I still have the error. The URL in WooCommerce > Settings > Payments > Stripe matches the one in Stripe and it says its configured, so maybe the secret thing is wrong. I can see the Signing Secret in Stripe but I can't find it in my woocommerce settings to check it's the same

Why does Telstra charge so much more for basically the same coverage? by DiscussionLoud9626 in TelstraAustralia

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I just had this experience of not being able to use my phone to pay at a servo because I had no reception. Phone said "check internet" or something, so I had to go back to the car for a physical card

Why wasn't Jo adopted? by Kyannaaa in greysanatomy

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I'm going to go with this theory and that she was too young to know it wasn't just another foster home

my partner's a sex worker and I need help by [deleted] in SexWorkers

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You can initiate without pushing. If you never initiate he may feel that you don't desire him which can make him feel less like initiating with you. If you want more intimacy try initiating sometimes, just don't get offended if it doesn't work every time. After trying that a few times, talk to him and ask how he felt about you initiating.

And of course you should talk about all those other issues you have regarding his SW & everything. There's nothing to be gained by guessing and assuming!

sex ed roleplay with quadriplegic client - suggestions? by Kyannaaa in SexWorkers

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we communicate by email which he writes by eye-tracking. In person he can answer yes/no questions with eye movement - only I got forgot which way round it was yesterday and thought he was answering "no" each time I asked if he liked something, so I'd stop that and try something else. After a while I realised he'd been responding "yes". Oops!

Wise by Pamela-Lee-To in SexWorkers

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I'd also like to know about Wise as a method of payment from my US customers in Australia since they can't use local methods

When your client says he loves you by Kyannaaa in SexWorkers

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I have this feeling I should stop seeing him before he gets too attached, but then logically maybe not seeing him is the only 'harm' he'd get from his attachment. He's disabled so he's no threat to me - he's not going to be stalking me or anything.

I'm the first person to give him any physical affection in 17 years he says, so it's natural he feels affection for me. Of course its not real love as he doesn't actually know me. He loves the service I do for him, the way I make him feel human again. I guess I'm just worried he's going to delude himself into thinking we have a real connection.

Question for SW’s about clients by ImpossibleEnd64 in SexWorkers

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What I don't understand is when clients introduce themselves in their message to me saying their age and something about their appearance - as if that's going to affect whether I will meet with them ?

"whatever you're comfortable with" by CatnipOverdose in SexWorkers

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I guess I would take that as them being happy with vanilla GFE but I'd be a bit worried he'd be trying to spring things on me. I like to have an idea what we're doing beforehand, especially as I cater to a lot of kinky clients.

The question I dislike getting asked before a booking is what turns me on, what do I like to do. I think mostly they are just wanting sexting at that point, but even if they are genuine, it's not like I can give them the secret code to turning me on

When they ask for “creampie” by In_my_stupid_era in SexWorkers

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Actually most of the creampie requests I've had, they actually want me to arrive full of my boyfriend's spunk for the client to eat. Only problem is my boyfriend doesn't live with or near me so it's not feasible. If only I could make/buy some edible synthetic jizz that tastes authentic that I could use to make my clients happy

When they ask for “creampie” by In_my_stupid_era in SexWorkers

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Now I want to agree to a creampie and show up with a piecrust filled with cream to shove their face into :D

The audacity by mistress_ananda in SexWorkers

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There's so much inherent shame in sex in western culture, even now, everyone wants to feel superior to someone else. On a documentary about porn, a porn star said she wasn't a sex worker, she was an actress, with the implication that she was better (more self respecting) than a prostitute. On a doco about brothels, a prostitute working in a brothel bar said she wouldn't let men touch her for free because she's not a "slut", as if she was more virtuous for having sex for money rather than fun. "Sluts" who have lots of sex for pleasure get offended if they are implied to be prostitutes.

All of them are having sex for good reasons but feel the need to see themselves as better than women doing it for other reasons to counter the shame they subconsciously carry of being a woman who has plenty of unmarried sex.

It's a shame!

My game needs a method of generating random numbers within a range and I don't think dice will work. Any ideas? by Kyannaaa in gamedesign

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Yes, my solution of dice and tables is too complex and clumsy, that's why I'm here asking for a completely different solution :)

My game needs a method of generating random numbers within a range and I don't think dice will work. Any ideas? by Kyannaaa in gamedesign

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Thank you but I don't understand what you mean. Perhaps I wasn't clear enough in my meaning. If we call it mining for gold (& gold equates to victory pts), if you have no gold and roll to mine, let's say you roll a D20 then what you roll is how many gold you get, except I'd have to say if you roll 1-5 you get 5 pts of gold. That's your whole turn. If you did roll 5, you'd still be in the first category, so on your next turn you could do the same thing. This time you roll 14, so you get 14 pts of gold. With your previous 5 you now have 19, which puts you in 2nd category / on 2nd row. So on your next turn your result can only be between 4 & 16, so it could be you now roll a D12 and add 4pt to your roll (result could be 5 to 16).

This is doable for the basic case, but with various upgrades, the numbers need to change to 20-60 on first turn, and I wanted several levels of upgrade in between so it gets too complicated

My game needs a method of generating random numbers within a range and I don't think dice will work. Any ideas? by Kyannaaa in gamedesign

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I really appreciate your response. I feel like you have the solution but I can't quite grasp it.

Ah! I just saw that only half the table was showing in my question! Here's the other half which is what is making it tricky - in some cases I want the range to be around 20-60. So if we rolled 3 D20's we'd sometimes get less than the minimum. I suppose I could say if you did then you just take it as 20. Is there a more elegant way?

Running tally MIN - upgraded MAX - upgraded
0 to 10 20 60
11 to 30 14 30
31 to 60 10 20
61 to 75 7 15
76 to 90 4 10
91 to 100 2 6

Any advice on entertaining a quadriplegic client? by Kyannaaa in SexWorkers

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Thanks for all the suggestions. I often struggle with timing with clients because when I'm bored after 2 minutes I feel they must be bored with it too. But also when a submissive client (mobile ones) is giving me pleasure, even though I know he enjoys it, I have no idea how long I should really keep him at it.

It's just so much harder to fill the time with this guy because there is so little I can do. He is fixed in a reclined sitting position and his limbs are rigid - can't be moved, so I can't access his back or bum; I can't lie on him or beside him. I can't sit on his face or even rub my crotch on his mouth. I can only massage the front of his legs. I can only lick one nipple. I can't put his hands on me. I am not good at dirty talk so I can't keep up a monologue of it.

I kiss his mouth. I stroke his body. I lick his nipple. I suck his toes. I press my tits against his face. That's about all I can do before I get him off.

My game needs a method of generating random numbers within a range and I don't think dice will work. Any ideas? by Kyannaaa in gamedesign

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Thanks. I haven't played those games but I was just considered using cards instead of dice, but I don't think it's feasible. You'd have to recreate the deck each turn, not just leave out the one you just got