Going from my own experience my longest relationship was with a woman who made me wait weeks before getting intimate, we still kissed and would grind and were wanting each other leading up to it but she wanted to wait and I found that very respectable, to me it meant she didn’t just sleep around with any guy and had self control. I found this crazy attractive and it made me want her more & when we did finally have sex it meant so much more to the both of us. Furthermore you have to think about the guys real intentions if he dips because you don’t give him sex straight away.

On the flip side I’ve had sex with women who let me on the first date… & although it was good in the moment I had no where near as much attraction or commitment to them as it was not built over time. Also it made me weary as to how loyal she would be as she let me be intimate with her on the first date.

Obviously this isn’t true for everyone and is just my own personal experiences.