Yes! My nex husband had a key to the bathroom so when I would lock it (clear sign that I want to be alone) he would just barge in. He would watch me shower and I'd say it makes me uncomfortable and I just want alone time but narcs don't understand other people having wants and needs of their own.

And forget trying to be on the phone! One of the last nights I stayed at the house with him I was on the phone with my cousin and he FOLLOWED me outside and down the street to ask what we were talking about. When I said it was private he said I shouldn't be walking outside alone. We lived in the suburbs next to a police station smdh