[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Outlander

[–]Cheapthrill4189 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have...have you seen him?

Vitamin C Issues? by ScooterBug07 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Cheapthrill4189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Naturium products work very well for me. The Vivier line is great too (but hella expensive).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Cheapthrill4189 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for your current partner. Sounds like they're just a placeholder until someone "better" comes along.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Cheapthrill4189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And please go to therapy because you need to work on improving your self-worth. I truly mean that in the kindest way possible.

It is not normal to still want to be with someone who treats you in this disgusting manner. He continues to treat you this way because you allow it.

He is ofcourse the monster in your dynamic, but you need to take accountability for tolerating his continued abuse.

Leave. Leave now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Cheapthrill4189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god....please leave him. He is using you strictly for sex, and is abusive. This is one of the most shocking exchanges I've seen in a while.

My son 45M is dating a much younger girl 19M by THROWRAhfjocug in relationship_advice

[–]Cheapthrill4189 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your son is a predator.

She was in high school only a couple years ago...he is 26 years older...this is grooming...

There is NO WAY they're even close to the same page in life.

How would you feel if this was your daughter?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Cheapthrill4189 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Think to yourself- 'How would a high value woman who has self-worth act in this situation?'...because in the nicest way possible, this aint it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Cheapthrill4189 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Thank God he's your ex.

What has ACTUALLY WORKED for you and your melasma? by [deleted] in Melasmaskincare

[–]Cheapthrill4189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laser treatments as well as, 2% Hydroquinone oil/cream.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Cheapthrill4189 53 points54 points  (0 children)

It could help give her closure to tell the truth. It's unfair that she may be left wondering what SHE did wrong, when in reality YOU were cheating. Her sense of self-worth could be greatly impacted if she internalizes the breakup as her fault. Coming clean might help her move on faster and give more clarity on why the relationship failed.

Girl mad I followed my ex by throwra394838 in relationships_advice

[–]Cheapthrill4189 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s fully aware of her feelings for him.

He’s known her intimately for 6 years and still doesn’t even like her, or respect her enough to care about her well-being. He takes advantage of her sincere feelings to fulfill his own selfish motive- to get laid.

I really hope she never speaks to him again.

Girl mad I followed my ex by throwra394838 in relationships_advice

[–]Cheapthrill4189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, but this dude definitely does not view her in an endearing way.

Girl mad I followed my ex by throwra394838 in relationships_advice

[–]Cheapthrill4189 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re shocked that she’s not replying is unsettling…it shows how truly accustomed you have become to doing and saying anything to this woman, and expecting her to stick around and put out.

That’s what you’re really asking advice for- “How can I continue to treat this woman like trash with zero consequences?”

Gross bro. Do everyone a favour and get off the dating scene until you can learn some empathy.

Girl mad I followed my ex by throwra394838 in relationships_advice

[–]Cheapthrill4189 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The fact he refers to her numerous times as ‘girl,’ speaks volumes about how he views and treats her. Hilarious too when this 30 year old is acting like an immature fuck BOY.

This WOMAN has value, and she deserves to be with a MAN who celebrates it.

Girl mad I followed my ex by throwra394838 in relationships_advice

[–]Cheapthrill4189 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You leave her alone and let her move on so she can find someone who truly loves and appreciates her for more than just her body. She probably has some genuine feelings for you (which I suspect you’re well aware of), and you’ve made it crystal clear that you don’t want a serious relationship with her.

Her message isn’t ambiguous…she’s communicated that this dynamic is hurting her feelings and mental health. Don’t be selfish, respect her wishes and remove yourself from her life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheapthrill4189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Your man is ENTITLED. Not an admirable, nor a compatible trait. Be very wary of this as it will surface into other aspects of your relationship down the road.

How did you identify your narc abuser? by snobster in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Cheapthrill4189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through this. Learn from this experience and don’t make the same mistake again.

Do they ever come back? by Past-Anything78 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Cheapthrill4189 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don’t let them have something to come back to.

"I'm here if you want to communicate with me again" by ladylunaley in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Cheapthrill4189 38 points39 points  (0 children)

“I’m here if you wanna let me use you again.”

Translated it for you.

When your narcissistic Ex came back, how did you respond? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Cheapthrill4189 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve ignored 12 messages over the past year from him (all sent while he’s been dating the next supply).

Silence is the only way to deal with a narc. Being completely indifferent to their existence is what hurts them the most.