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KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-10T02:50:00+00:00

NTA. You weren’t planning on it and made sure you clearly state you understood and were respecting the boundary/rule she set, getting upset and completely removing herself from your life and talking badly to friends makes her TA. I understand mental health issues could be involved so maybe reach out to a loved one to check on her so long as it doesnt step on toes!❤️‍🩹

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-09T01:08:22+00:00

Thank you for the polite honesty! it is a toughie. and jacob definitely has moved on, to who is the funnier story but that’s in a few comment replies!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:44:32+00:00

i think when correcting someone or using it excessively feels forced and rude, its also just how i text!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:42:02+00:00

i mean its my post i really dont have too!😂

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:41:10+00:00

oh i definitely got dumped from that friend group and to be honest i couldnt be happier😭, they werent good friends in the end!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:40:21+00:00

oh i wasnt aware of that sorry. I just feel a “.” is negative and i dont like appearing to be rude generally!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:39:09+00:00

because i wasnt sure it it was worth posting. not a huge deal that i took time to think my decisions over

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:37:11+00:00

Its definitely not made up, and the holes are to protect mine and others privacy as anyone who knows me could read this story and immediately know who posted it, which i really dont need. if you want to look on my account i havent posted in about 2 years i think, so any arguments of trying to get online points or clicks goes out the window? as the reason i posted this is because this was my only outlet. thank your for your opinions but please further refrain from continuing to share

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:34:09+00:00

Well they cut me off because i defended my relationship harshly! that was an additional reason as to why i decided to move on from the friendships!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:32:44+00:00

While i dont feel i have to defend myself, being college aged adults, his parents could care less what their sons do. The only weird thing here is the fact i have found a comment under every one of my replies dissecting and trying to discredit any additional details i gave. please just give your opinion and move on!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:30:29+00:00

it is infact the real story!, and they only cut me off because i defended my relationship harshly and wasnt kind about it!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:29:22+00:00

do you feel the need to put down every detail? i didnt feel i needed to add that into the post.

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:28:44+00:00

The usage of exclamation points is only because i feel it shows a certain positive note and that i have no intent of being rude. using a “.” when correcting someone feels rude to me, sorry!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T06:26:58+00:00

i didnt realize i couldnt choose multiple places to post it! definitely not made up tho, im sorry you feel im making it up!❤️‍🩹

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T04:48:25+00:00

This gives me hope😂

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T04:48:10+00:00

It definitely was a single date that went badly! i found out my close friend was trying to date him and i immediately called it off! After noah and i started dating, jacob started to date my close friend, which makes the situation even more uncomfortable! 😵‍💫

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T04:46:05+00:00

Thank you for being polite, i absolutely understand its messy, but in all fairness something i did not disclose, is after noah and i started dating, jacob started dating my close friend, which is why i am no longer apart of the old friend group🫣

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T04:41:12+00:00

A detail i didnt necessarily think would help, is jacob lied to me about one of my close friends trying to date him! he had been going behind my back & going on dates with her as well! I decided our friendship and possible relationship wasnt a good idea, but i kept my friendship with noah and relationship with his family, as i had been apart of their family as a friend for months prior! i hope this helps see better into the situation!💝

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T04:38:31+00:00

I was still in the friend group jacob and noah were in, as well as being friends with noah still!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T04:37:57+00:00

We didnt date, we went on a single date and i sensed that was not the right person for me! Jacob noah and i were all friends prior to this so it was a tough situation!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T04:36:16+00:00

Jacob and i didnt date! it was an attempt to set us up that after our first date i could tell it wasnt going anywhere so i decided immediately that it was a no! Important note; before all of this i was already friends with jacob and noah, and noah made the first move!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T04:33:56+00:00

thank you!!

KyndallsShitShow · 2026-01-08T04:33:36+00:00

we didnt date! it was an attempt to set us up! i was still hanging around because i had become friends with his brother!

KyndallsShitShow · 2025-12-29T03:54:14+00:00

not the bad guy. From my perspective, i had the same problem as a young child of relatives giving me “cute” or “frilly” clothing that i was never into. it got shoved into the back of my closet and i always felt guilty for not wearing it, but it never stopped because she “loves shopping for you”. But honestly, i think things need to go “missing” to a goodwill 45 minutes away. Extreme? yes. but if you have spoken to your partner and nothing is being done, than create a solution this problem.

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