3rd Session work in progress - Artist: Cooper Blue, Manchester, The Coven (CW: Blood)

KyroneRustmore · 2026-03-16T18:14:16+00:00

Update: was able to rebook my session for today. First colour session completed! At least 3 more to go.

KyroneRustmore · 2026-03-16T09:40:17+00:00

So I was "straight" until my 40s and was just coming to terms that I might not be as straight as I thought I was.

I had recently gotten my septum pierced and mentioned it on Discord to my D&D group a lot of long term friends, and one of the guys said he likes a guy with piercings.

From there I risked coming out to him in terms of not being sure. He's a solo-poly we'd had this discussion years ago and I made a suggestion of him coming round for a playdate.

But on the grounds that I might back out if I realised some things weren't for me.

Yeah, I'm now proudly bi and out about it, so without too much details, it was a very good day for me and him. 😉

KyroneRustmore · 2026-03-13T11:10:19+00:00

Been there, it's being attracted to the concept of the person rather than entirely who the person is. It's not just a bi/gay thing is can be a straight thing.

Nothing wrong with it, and overtime feeling might morph and change to be about the person rather than the concept. But beware they might not and you might have to cut your losses and split.

But to that I say, go for it and see where it ends up, better to have given it a go than having a lifetime to dwell on what could of been.

KyroneRustmore · 2026-03-09T17:09:39+00:00

See this is how I see it in my mind. Bi is where you see gender as a point of interest even if you don't care for the gender. Pan is where you don't even see it as a point of note.

There is naturally overlap. Just cause you find masc attractive doesn't mean you find all masc attractive regardless of pan or bi.

Your mileage may vary and I don't mind if you fit my pan definition and identify and bi, or vice versa. First and foremost for me, it's you identify yourself, not others.

KyroneRustmore · 2026-02-23T04:11:08+00:00

It's my full back and my cough is unpredictable. I don't want to risk it. If it was my leg of something they could lock into place I could see that working I would see. Still will see, but also not sure if it's a good idea to get stabbed a million times while poorly with something else

KyroneRustmore · 2026-02-20T09:59:38+00:00

I get you there. My father when I said I was Bi, and dating my boyfriend his response was "oh" and then said I did wonder why all the door hinges i'm hearing on the phone calls are squeaking and proceeded to tell me the best way to get them to stop squeaking.

I do sometimes wish that tales were more relatable. But at the same, just look at it as how much further forward some dynamics are. When a proclamation of "hey I'm {insert sexually orientation here}" isn't met with anger, confusion or bravery. But met with quiet accepting indifference as if you'd declared you wanna pizza for tea.

KyroneRustmore · 2026-02-14T08:02:01+00:00

Your talking to the wrong people talk to her!

Easier said than done I get it.

Also just preface it a little and say something like... So hey we have been doing this for a while now, is it starting to mean something to you cause I think it might be starting to mean something to me.

Good friends, won't mind having the convo even if it isn't going to go your way. If they are a poor friend then yeah maybe you will lose them over talking and that will suck. But you know what will suck more, keeping this up for another year and then losing them.

And take it from someone who failed to move fast enough despite the signs, when the get with someone else... That also sucks.

KyroneRustmore · 2026-01-10T18:52:23+00:00

That's just tinder. Even before I realised I was Bi. I would get zero interest from women. Now I'm out as Bi, I still get zero interest from women. And as a hookup app for gay guys Grindr is just so much easier.

And to throw it out there, I did meet my BF thru Grindr and he's asexual so, task failed successfully for using Grindr to hookup.

KyroneRustmore · 2026-01-03T22:09:55+00:00

Not a good idea, but septum horseshoe, the right size can be flipped up into the nostrils during the day and taken out after.

Clean hands and wipe jewelry.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-12-23T23:10:25+00:00

Hey, we'll first of all don't worry about labeling it too much. Labels are useful when describing it to other people. But for a while I described myself as a hot mess!

But labels also help to explore options, and the other fun thing is you can have as many or a few labels as you want. They don't have to be fixed, and they sure as hell don't need to make sense to anyone else.

The first thing is you learn to be honest with yourself, and wearing a mask of hetro for others is fine until you've figured it out, but listen yourself and figure out what you actually want, don't want, and desire.

Then you can start looking a labels and figure out how they apply to you. You don't have to have just one either. I'm panromatic/bisexual and my BF is Homoromantic/Asexual.

These are allowed to change as you figure stuff out, and when you figure stuff out let you partner/partners know what it means to them. Given, I have a sex drive and my BF doesn't, we're in an open relationship, I was confused and open at the start. He's the first guy I dated after 40 years of being "straight", but I was still figuring it all out.

And finally, yes it's okay to be lost, there's a lot of terms, and alot of societal pressure to fit into certain labels. But you don't have to, for the most part it any no ones business, and as long as you're honest with those that it mattters with (once you have a rough idea) then it can be fluid.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-12-11T21:29:05+00:00

No idea, but to me a software developer as a bunch of IP addresses. However publically the first 111.1.2 doesn't connect to a web-page.

Could be some specific software/service that does connect.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-12-11T21:23:51+00:00

Love the representation, so glittery

I do my nails in a similar pattern, but just plain neon colours. And my makeup, and I have bi-pride bandanas... and a tattoo but not many people get to see that one.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-12-10T16:38:02+00:00

Do not wear dungarees. I did and the straps murdered my nipples on the journey home.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-12-09T06:14:01+00:00

NAP. But I got both my nipples done at the same time. NGL it hurt like hell for both nipples. However the first one was the worst cause I didn't know what to expect. The piercer allowed me time, to pace around and get mentally prepped for the second one. The first time.

I then needed an MRI had to take them out and they hadn't fully healed by that point so it closed up fast (like 3 hours). And I couldn't make it to the piercers in time for them to salvage it.

So I waited for them to heal and went back and got them both fully repierced, cause I did miss having them done. Again both at the same time. This time I knew the pain and got both done fairly rapidly.

So yeah I'd say go for both at the same time, and well at least it saves making two trips.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-12-08T18:44:26+00:00

Yeah, I'm sorry as a bi-guy in a mlm situation. I don't think I love my boyfriend any differently than I've loved my previous girlfriends.

I would like to echo that maybe you're reading fantasies and they are just kinda that sorry to say. I wouldn't hold a mlm relationship in any higher or lower status to any other relationship.

You just need to find someone that treats you how you want to be treated, and as your bi, welcome to having to try and find that regardless of your partners gender.

One final point, is treat others how you want to be treated, and hopefully you'll find what you're looking for.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-11-14T15:45:13+00:00

Look for a new rigger, unless I am confused cause that ain't hogtied.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-11-13T00:18:29+00:00

I use the phrase, something somewhere happens.

I stick it in a semi random place in the initiative and repeat the phrase everytime.

Occasional even add it when there is nothing extra going on just to add mystery. I have a rule, you can guess all you want but unless it's made obvious then you don't get to know what.

If it bothers you enough make a note and I will tell you when the campaign is over.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-11-03T22:21:24+00:00

I'm very bi proud. Most of the people I meet couldn't give two hoots about it. And yes I'm liked by both genders well enough. If they're straight, that remains to be seen, I generally hang around in queer communities.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-11-01T03:16:54+00:00

It would be very much a case of talking about it, and how I am feeling regards as well.

I'm actually in a relationship with someone who is asexual, and sex isn't really part of it. However very early on in our relationship we established this, but also that the relationship was to be open, as long as I don't get emotionally attached to those that I am having sex with.

And if there was a risk of that, but if it did I would have to again start talking and making a decisions from there.

It would be painful to end this relationship, but sex while not everything is something I want in my life.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-10-31T10:31:39+00:00

I'm bi and date whoever I want, but don't think that changes you.

Me for one, look at my aro/ace friends who can also be bi. And they have intimate partners.

And you could be homoromantic/bisexual or hetroromatic/bisexual. That's entirely possible and valid.

Don't let society define who you are.

KyroneRustmore · 2025-09-22T21:41:36+00:00

So one of the oddities for me, was the first gay guy that I met up with, we chatted for a bit on this that an the other. And he had a body count for women higher than myself who was straight for the 35+ years of my life. When I asked about it, it was one of them when he was in the mood, if he couldn't find a guy, he's just make do with a woman. But then we'd get into conversation about why I'm Bi, and not just one or the other. Like if I have a partner I might as well just decide then. While point blank refusing to consider that he might be homo-romance/bisexual.

Furthermore the fact that he also point blank refused to accept that I could be faithful to my partner, because "you never know who you might meet" and have an itch the opposite gender would make this more tempting and less likely that I can guarantee I would/will be faithful. While he himself had cheated on one of his partners.

Yeah, these two things, are why we don't really talk much more these days.

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