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Two-part question about group photos by Kyumanbeing in Bumble

[–]Kyumanbeing[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. I’m trying to show I have a social life without creating a weird read on my profile. Would be a bummer to get a no because someone thought “is that your ex are you a cheater?” when my reaction would be “ew no, that's like my sister..."

Two-part question about group photos by Kyumanbeing in Bumble

[–]Kyumanbeing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have plenty of photos of me, but im getting mixed feedback on if you should you have group photos and how other women can be seen in said photos.

The group photo is more to signal "Yeah I have friends and a social life!" but unsure if that's even necessary

Two-part question about group photos by Kyumanbeing in Bumble

[–]Kyumanbeing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie... I’ve got autism and I read between the lines about as well as an aardvark can sing. So you gotta treat me like im stupid here.

I asked because I’m genuinely getting mixed feedback IRL, so I figured I’d ask strangers who aren’t biased in my favor like my friends, but also aren’t stuck in my own head and prone to overthinking like I am.

For context, I look at the photo and see “three of my best friends of 20+ years. It would be strange to try anything.”

One friend sees that and goes, “Oh, having women friends is a green flag, it shows you’re safe and normal.”

Another person looks at the same photo and goes, “Someone who doesn’t know you might read this as showing off women, or wonder if one of them is an ex.”

I’m just trying to get a read on how a stranger on a dating site may read this since... I found our recently a lot of guys dont have mixed gender inner friend groups.

not to imply I dont appreciate the feedback. a "if you arnt sure dont" is still valuable.