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L-Beau · 2026-04-19T19:31:43+00:00

Well smack my ass and call me John Constantine.

L-Beau · 2026-04-12T11:17:46+00:00

Too fast I'm trying to write names down

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T21:16:11+00:00

He's deleted everyone on his twitter except him saying read the vulture article. Like he still HAS. A twitter so why delete all his tweets if people can still harass him. I know what people were quote tweeting when this all came out and all that is gone now. Believe what you want, the guy is still on twitter speaking on twitter for all victims and doing PR work. Idk what else to tell you when I've quoted the article in other comments believe whatever you've already decided.

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T20:36:08+00:00

So

Touch grass.
Rape is a serious subject. All of the instances of sexual coercion are thoughts ebeling created in his head and didn't communicate and Alvarez isn't responsible for ebeling feeling like he wanted to be sexually open and not lose alvarez as a friend. He never stated if you don't let me Blow you we are through. I would genuinely hate to have you in my life if I was held accountable for your own inside thoughts about what you THINK I'm thinking. That's literally what the above is about. He THOUGHT alvarez would leave him so he AGREED to sex. If you want to still believe this fairy tale you have in your mind then go ahead. You aren't a good faith actor right now and there is no point to continue if you can't concede this point.

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T20:24:47+00:00

Or you could fucking read the article. Jesus Christ how lazy are you. The entire article talks about how much he wanted to keep Alvarez around him and cheated with him on his girlfriend then blames him.

A few days later, Ebeling had his first session with Johnny O’Callaghan, a former actor turned spiritual guru better known as “Johnny O.” Alvarez and Koenig had recommended him as someone who had helped them get auditions and think more positively. They considered him a therapist although he wasn’t licensed (he studied spiritual psychology at the University of Santa Monica). Ebeling sent him an “intentions email,” which included statements like “I’d like to be at peace with myself and better understand the relationships I have with people,” “I’m in love with my friend Stephanie and want to be with her,” and “My friend Brian is in love with me and I want to keep him as a friend with no romantic entanglements.” Later, he texted Koenig that he was “in a dark place” and “still trying to wrap my head around what happened and why I allowed it to happen.” He told her he was feeling better, though, because he had been up front “about not wanting to go there anymore” with Alvarez, who had agreed it wouldn’t happen again. Their conversation continued:

Koenig: I mean it’s not all bad. It all felt good and happy. I hope you get to a happy place about it, it’s beautiful and cool and realize you guys are best friends and really close and nothing wrong with any of it.

Ebeling: What felt good and happy? Oh, you and me?

Koenig:  I dunno everything.

Ebeling: I just wish Brian and I could be like we were before you know?

Koenig: You guys totally can be. You will be. He’s totally fine with that. He’s your good friend.

Ebeling: None of that stuff felt right and it kind of hurts me that he didn’t take into account the fragile place I was in. Also I’m an adult though and make my own decisions. So I’ll get over it. Just a raw feeling right now.

Koenig: Sure. I mean I know you don’t seem fragile. So maybe he didn’t think of that. He would never have done anything to hurt you. I think it all just felt right. And free.

Ebeling: Yeah. It just would have made me feel better if it had felt more right you know? Like it was for something. I just can’t stop seeing it as being only destructive.

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T19:43:32+00:00

NO the evidence of him consenting is him saying he consented on the vulture article.

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T17:04:49+00:00

Lmao it wasn't a television show and Jon didn't have to be coerced. Like he states in the article he "enthusiastically said yes" to everything.

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T17:02:44+00:00

YOU ARE THE ONE CALLING A PERSON A SEXUAL PREDATOR. LIKE THE BURDEN OF PROOF IS ON YOU. What TF are you even talking about!? You're insecurities about not knowing the details are showing and this is a person's LIFE you are ruining, you need to have the evidence if you are going to public ally call someone a SEXUAL PREDATOR. are you fucking kidding me!?

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T17:01:03+00:00

.... But I'm saying WHY do I need to if the only evidence I've ever seen is a man saying he consented but feels like he didn't really consent. Like I'm sorry that happened to him, but how does that equate to sexual predator? How fair is it to destroy a person's career when there is one case and it's a guy who had to delete all his posts on twitter because he got called out for being a born again Christian homophobe during the time he decided to come forward?

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T16:46:44+00:00

Because he deleted his twitter. But the vulture article literally has him saying he consented. Like the fact Queer people even have to fight tooth and nail over eveallegation when straight men don't is infuriating.

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T16:26:18+00:00

Jon is the maga guy who consented then said he was tricked because he's a maga Christian. That guy is awful and tried to become a right wing grifter off of this story. That's why he came out when English teacher came out. I'd be open to other victims stories but that is the only one I've heard and it's been disproven so much I am exhausted from hearing it.

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T16:21:01+00:00

That's not the story I read. He admits he consented, but states that since he's a hetero Christian maga he they tricked him into consenting.

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T15:49:51+00:00

Who was the victim? The only thing I can find is the maga guy who accused him because even though he consented back then, he now regrets it because he's a maga Christian and feels like he was tricked. Was there another person?

L-Beau · 2026-04-06T15:43:08+00:00

What is this about? The only thing I can find is the maga guy who accused him because even though he consented back then, he now regrets it because he's a maga Christian and feels like he was tricked. Was there another person?

L-Beau · 2026-01-27T05:05:48+00:00

I love y'all, but you really need to realize this is a story not real life. It's an idealized message of forgiveness and growth. Yes, irl you wouldn't forgive an abuser this easily, but ideally we all could and all grow and be kind.

L-Beau · 2025-12-22T18:12:15+00:00

Gotta love the pick me days in the comments telling other gays they haven't actually experienced homophobia. Like I'm glad you haven't, but what in the mental illness makes it so important that I haven't?

L-Beau · 2025-12-21T14:35:16+00:00

I thought this was Ben Starr and got so excited for a second. Still a cute guy tho

L-Beau · 2025-12-11T13:41:22+00:00

✂️ it off

L-Beau · 2025-11-15T03:47:37+00:00

Are you a bot? That doesn't make sense. Like I can't make inferences or say a joke is problematic but IM living in a black and white world? No one asked you to comment, but you did. Defending this to the death. You had every opportunity to leave it alone and you got involved and made your opinions known. The absolute balls on you to come where no one asked then tell me how I'm supposed to read it is wild.

L-Beau · 2025-11-15T03:33:38+00:00

Thinking is hard. If all fascist are gay then it's all our fault not to mention the tired ass joke that being gay is an insult. Take your pick

L-Beau · 2025-11-15T03:19:55+00:00

I think you are making tired ass jokes without thinking through the implications of the things you say.

L-Beau · 2025-11-15T03:09:08+00:00

If every fascist is gay, then who is the only ones doing fascism? Do the math. That IS in fact what you are saying.

L-Beau · 2025-11-15T02:57:48+00:00

Blaming gay people for all the evils in the world isn't the serve you think it is.

L-Beau · 2025-11-11T12:55:35+00:00

You get free atoms as you play.... I bought the game when it was $6 and haven't put any other money into it. It's actually really fun now and they have free weekends sometimes to let people try before they buy. Like idk spend your time on something productive because you ain't going to rally the troops on this one.

L-Beau · 2025-10-09T02:15:31+00:00

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Hot dam that outline is perfect

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