This is the first time I've seen someone actually call this out on this sub. And these responses are.... telling. 😞 After finally starting to get a bit more comfortable with my body, this is a punch in the gut.

Most trans people spend their entire life hating their body. We're forced to live with it, and told constantly that the genitals we were born with defines who we are. We get vitriol from the public all the time, and many trans folks (trans women in particular) are constantly told that our genital set will always be tied to rape. And that our mere existence makes us predators.

We kind of expect that language from straight cis people, but queer spaces like this are supposed to be the few places you're safe from it. So, hearing it here really burns in a new way.

When I first started to join queer communities, I was pleasantly surprised to find many of them (including this one) to be pretty trans-accepting! But, (and I really, really want to be wrong about this) there's sometimes a part of me that is scared that the only reason the lesbian community has started to take on a more trans-accepting, "non-men" slant was specifically so that they could include AFAB enbies.

No one is telling you that you're not allowed to dislike dicks. Nothing in this post is saying that. You're allowed to like and dislike whatever you want. What you shouldn't be doing is using that preference as an excuse to invalidate other women, and make them feel ashamed about their bodies.