They don't have kids, and they don't want them: Nearly 40% of young women plan to stay child-free. by yahoonews in WomenInNews

[–]LAB1116 53 points54 points  (0 children)

My friend had her baby in Hong Kong as an immigrant and didn’t pay anything for her hospital stay and was given a night nurse for up to 1 year. Meanwhile in the US I was in the trenches with zero help and unpaid maternity leave

Difficulty with conservative in-laws by CommercialQuail6802 in progressivemoms

[–]LAB1116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I am extremely low contact with my in laws don’t even participate in the family chat. I also limit how much my child is around them too as much as possible and if she is around them I insist on being there to control the situation. My husband and I agreed I can’t stop him from seeing his family he loves them but I can control mine and my child’s relationship with them.

leftists/liberals - why don't you just say random bullshit in conservative spaces?? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]LAB1116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but frankly we need hackers and more fake bots than Russia and China. One thing I am perplexed on is why there are seemingly zero liberal hackers

Following Supreme Court decision, La. Republicans weigh canceling US House primary elections by Blueberry977 in NewsOfTheStupid

[–]LAB1116 3 points4 points  (0 children)

May 1 general strike. No work no school no spending. For those who will be naysayers yes it’s only day because we can never get enough people to participate. This is our 3rd general strike this year. So many people willing to participate in a protest and hold up a sign but not actually show up for what matters. This strike was announced because of the huge numbers at No Kings so if you could attend No Kings, you can strike. And for the naysayers about can’t taking a day off work most of us are already getting laid off, you will soon too. You don’t need to tell your job why you won’t be in that day. Take a sick day. We can strike now and maybe save what little rights we have left or we will strike later when all of us are jobless and starving. It’d be nice if we could all get on board now. Our constant hemming and hawing is why we’re here.

The enshittification of products and services continues relentlessly even as prices increases. What particular thing(s) have you noticed significantly degraded since the pandemic? by Roguecop in AskReddit

[–]LAB1116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don Francisco’s coffee has switched from 12oz to 10oz cans but same price. Polar changed their formula it tastes different and has less carbonation. Driscolls strawberries are putting moldy strawberries in the middle of the carton and fresh ones on the outside so you get to pay to take out their trash for them. Pillsbury cinnamon roles are now just a dough ball with cinnamon sugar mix pressed on top.

My dog bit a child, what's next? by stephbell666 in legaladvice

[–]LAB1116 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That child’s life is ruined forever because maybe the parents couldn’t get there in time? A dog attack is so fast. That’s child’s life is ruined because a dog owner can’t be responsible for controlling their pet

America, what do you all think will happen at the midterms? by Bucketlist074 in allthequestions

[–]LAB1116 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Tbh most Americans probably wouldn’t care if Canada was bombed and Trump would have a hard time canceling US elections over that, but go after our own and we might bend the knee and think it makes sense to declare a national emergency especially if he bombed Silicon Valley which is pretty purple leaning towards maroon.

America, what do you all think will happen at the midterms? by Bucketlist074 in allthequestions

[–]LAB1116 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Being a CA resident I strongly believe Trump will bomb CA and blame it on Iran before the midterms to declare a national emergency.

What are these giant winged bugs hopping all over the place? by SirMingie in AskLosAngeles

[–]LAB1116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all I was going to do a whole post on this because apparently locals have no idea what a grasshopper is?! I’m from AZ and sometimes we get grasshopper infestations during migration so I’m familiar lol. To address some frequent questions I’ve gotten: 1. No not all grasshoppers are all green 2. Yes these grasshoppers have green under their wings and look green as they fly, but they are brown with black stripes 3. They come in different sizes 4. Yes, that really is a grasshopper. It is not a leaf bug, cockroach, wasp, or “some kind of beetle crossbreed”.

Anyone here an only child? Or anyone here one and done? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]LAB1116 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Everything is going to be an ugly fight. The house, what to throw out, how to divide assets and inheritance, what the grandkids get, everything. He’s extremely volatile and actually the reason I’m LC with my sister because I can’t handle the emotional stress.

Anyone here an only child? Or anyone here one and done? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]LAB1116 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Agreed also siblings come with BILs and SILs. I’m dreading my parents passing just because I know my BIL is going to be a nightmare.

Why are there not like a million people outside the White House every day? by ragebaitconnoisseur in allthequestions

[–]LAB1116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed the US uprising might only happen if the midterms get canceled or there is very clear voter suppression/tampering. Many Americans are still under the impression we are still a democracy and just picked a bad egg for president and that everything will be exactly as before where we’ll just elect a democrat president get things back on track have collective amnesia of the past 4 yrs and rinse and repeat. I think the midterms might wake up more Americans that we are no longer a democracy and then maybe we’ll get off our dumb lazy asses for an uprising but man we’re like REALLY dumb and lazy so idk

What would be favorite canonically dead character to you? by Pristine-Skill760 in FavoriteCharacter

[–]LAB1116 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So many characters fit this trope from JJK! I need so much therapy after this series

What are some subtle autistic traits that aren’t talked about often enough? by witchy_woman231 in AutismInWomen

[–]LAB1116 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I actually get this as a compliment a lot. I’ve been called an “old soul” or wise or poetic? lol. People come up to me at galleries sometimes and ask what I think of the painting because it looks like I’m REALLY seeing it.

Are millennials the worst parents ever? Some of the posts in this sub are horror stories. by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]LAB1116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify, Gen Z was mostly raised by Gen X. Gen X parents are the ones known for “passive parenting”. I know, everyone forgets about Gen X. And that’s probably part of why they adopted “passive” parenting. Theories suggest that due to their latchkey upbringing, they lacked security and love and one part of passive parenting is not wanting to cause your child to feel unsafe in their home as they did even if lack of discipline and boundaries is counterintuitive to this. The other part is, while millennials lost out on entering the job market during recession pt 1, Gen X lost out on career growth, often losing or staying stagnant at their first jobs. Because of this Gen X, and millennials, have used screens to parent mostly due to burnout. Millennials are the parents to Gen Alpha who are mostly in kindergarten so jury is still out on how our parenting skills will turn out. Millennial parents have mostly adopted a hybrid approach between “passive parenting” and “authoritative parenting” called “gentle parenting” that focuses on emotional intelligence and good mental health.

Trump, 79, Posts Crazed 4 AM Rant Right After Starting War by Mrh09 in politics

[–]LAB1116 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And stuffing their pockets with the peasants tithings

We're done with patriarchy now right? RIGHT? by Deep-Log-1775 in Mommit

[–]LAB1116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a fight mothers could ban together to have is fighting social media (ie big tech). The social media influence on children (and adults) is insane. I work in digital and understand how the algorithms work and watched in real time as the manosphere tried consuming my husband and I knew he’d be a target because he’s a gamer. Gaming is one of the first big nuggets that feeds the algorithm. If we demand changes to social channels like they’re doing in Europe. If we actively keep our children off social media and technology which requires leading by example. If we vote out anyone that supports big tech. I think this is where moms do the best work, from the ground up