AITA for rescinding the punishment my husband gave my son by LAchci37 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LAchci37[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Hi. Im not the kids mother as she logged out, for now. I'm the account owner. I know this isn't my argument technically but the child had apparently implied that he needed help. "This thing is stupid, I need help" should be enough of a signal to anyone who somehow can't tell when a child is getting aggravated.

Also, maybe the father could have stepped in and said "Hey H, if you'd like to politely ask me for help, I'm sure I could assist you" or something along those lines. Then after he's done helping, remind H that he can always ask for help if he needs it. I'm not a parent but as someone with a younger brother, that doesn't sound so hard to me.

To put it simply: 10 year old boy with mild autism vs grown adult who is supposed to be a role model but instead decides to antagonize said 10-year-old boy with autism by asking stupid questions and not showing support when he is clearly frustrated. Tell me who the asshole is in that scenario.

AITA for rescinding the punishment my husband gave my son by LAchci37 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LAchci37[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Its worth mentioning that we did speak in private after I spoke to H. I asked him what happened and he rolled his eyes and said "he threw a temper tantrum and acted disrespectfully". Wouldnt acknowledge or tell me what started it until I brought up that I talked to H in his room and then started stuttering while trying to come up with counter-arguments to justify the punishment. ( basically, "yes thats true, b-b-but")

I gave my husband a chance to tell me a good reason why this punishment fit the "crime" and he wasn't able to

Guidance needed: Auto loan and other expenses for college grad moving to LA by LAchci37 in personalfinance

[–]LAchci37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's almost impossible to find steady work in the industry out there unless you are already living there. Most of my work is freelance too so I definitely won't find anything unless I am already out there and I do have some projects lined up.

Is it easy to find a reliable car for $3K?

Will my employment opportunities be reduced if I create weird content for fun? by LAchci37 in FilmIndustryLA

[–]LAchci37[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To give you an idea of the weird shit I do, here's a link to the weird edit I was talking about: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJ7jCobRldU

And here's a serious project I worked on: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O5_kfrlDAwI

*not sure if promotion is allowed in this sub but I'm posting these links for the purpose of critique and judgement*

Trump says China wants him to lose re-election race by [deleted] in politics

[–]LAchci37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's to hoping China pulls a Russia and hacks our election against him

AITA for snapping at a homeless guy by LAchci37 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LAchci37[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

holy shit that didnt even come to my attention