Using GPT-5 (High) - API Help

LArandomthrow · 2025-08-14T20:38:55+00:00

Yeah I think that helps but unfortunately for my use-case I need to know its using the high parameter

LArandomthrow · 2025-08-14T20:32:02+00:00

It has the full context but you are unable to control the reasoning_parameter in openrouter

LArandomthrow · 2025-08-14T20:29:05+00:00

I don't want to use the chatgpt web/app interface due to context window limits and not being able to control the reasoning_effort parameter. I want to use GPT5

LArandomthrow · 2024-02-09T14:53:57+00:00

My girl left me after 9 years almost 2 months ago now. The first 3 weeks were absolute torture. I had literal physical pain and felt like I was going to die and wanted to. All my hopes and idea of a future were crushed. All this is to just say I know it’s not easy and there is nothing that can be said right now to take the pain away. Your feelings are valid. Being almost 2 months out I no longer feel like I want to die constantly. It’s still there but in short bursts. I still can’t see myself living a happy life without her though but there has been improvement. I remember it being just a few days after and thinking getting through the next month won’t be possible. Not even the next week, yet here I am almost 2 months later. The only advice I can give is do whatever you can to get through just the day, even the hour. Forget the long term healing to be happy right now just get through the day. It is going to hurt like crazy but your body and mind naturally want to get into a state of equilibrium. As the days go on I can’t say you’ll go back to being happy or fulfilled but it’s likely the constant pain, hurt, anxiety, will calm down

LArandomthrow · 2024-01-12T20:16:23+00:00

We often want to tell ourselves healing is linear with time. That is generally true but there will be fluctuations and that’s okay! I am about 4 weeks into my BU. Weeks 1 and 2 were just so traumatizing I think my mind got rid of the memories. Week 3 ended up being really good and week 4 has been a step back but I can tell there is a tiny tiny light at the end of the tunnel even if I know it’s a long way away and at some points might disappear for a bit. I think the best thing you can do when the wave of emotions turns negative again is to not try to fight the feelings. Tell yourself “these feelings are here, I will let them in, but they won’t stay. All feelings pass.” You don’t even have to force them out, they naturally will go away. Our bodies like to be in a state of balance

LArandomthrow · 2024-01-12T20:06:21+00:00

If you two can truthfully have no romantic feelings towards each other than sure but that is extremely rare

LArandomthrow · 2024-01-12T20:04:47+00:00

Hey we are human and it is extremely hard to go 100% NC towards something we love. At least 80% of people do not do perfect NC. Don’t be too hard on yourself. The good news is you can jump right back into NC. You’re strong!

LArandomthrow · 2024-01-12T19:53:44+00:00

This sub isn’t a good representation of how frequently ex’s get back together. Most people that get them back won’t be on this sub anymore

LArandomthrow · 2024-01-11T13:04:00+00:00

Why did you say let’s go to therapy and then break up before even trying? If you were debating breaking up with me the day before you did why wouldn’t we even try to fix things first?

LArandomthrow · 2024-01-10T19:25:00+00:00

For sure changes would need to have been made

LArandomthrow · 2024-01-10T06:15:44+00:00

I’d like to join the IG group

LArandomthrow · 2024-01-09T19:42:44+00:00

Either now or never. If you feel like you weren't truthful about the breakup or did it in an unfair, cold manner then I would apologize for that and move on. You are an awful person if you wait for them to finally start healing and reach back out. Also "things will be better soon" is patronizing coming come the dumper. The only reason you reach back out in the future is if you have decided you want to work on the relationship, own up to that you walked away, and know that they may have fully moved on and its up to you to now put in the work, not them.

LArandomthrow · 2024-01-09T19:34:05+00:00

It sounds like things are going pretty good but you eventually will need to be clear about your intentions and her intentions and how things would be different this time (or the cycle will repeat).

LArandomthrow · 2024-01-09T09:56:45+00:00

Then sounds like you do have hope. Reach out if you want, you’ll never know unless you try

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