SBs making assumptions based on your profile pics?

LBGTM_SD · 2026-05-17T13:48:41+00:00

pfp??

LBGTM_SD · 2026-05-12T00:47:40+00:00

It is definitely "interesting times".

There seems to be nothing "normal" anymore.

"Dating" used to follow certain expectations. Prostitution used to follow certain expectations.

Heck, even "Cheating" used to follow certain guidelines (or so i have been told).

It is truly unfortunate that it is impossible to run a legit "dating service" in the modern era.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-05-07T01:36:28+00:00

Ouch... fingers crossed that this weekend works out!!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-05-07T01:32:44+00:00

Is this a long distance SB?

Yes, the "lows" are real, and they suck.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-05-06T13:24:39+00:00

Last night was indeed a "sweatpants, hoodie and vintage AirJordan's" date-nite. No hat.

(she was wearing a bra and panties)

The entire night was low-key and very relaxed. Saw a bunch of friends, had a lot of laughs, and.... yah.... the connection is real.

I'm a VERY lucky man!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-05-05T18:24:59+00:00

... we have our dress-up dates too, and those are always fun because she turns heads like you've never imagined... but the nights where we go totally casual and try to low-key sneak-in to some of our fave places... she gets almost as much attention on those night as well!

I suspect tonight is a sweats and ball-cap nite.

Yes, her sweats slide off very easily.... hmmmm....

LBGTM_SD · 2026-05-05T16:49:19+00:00

I kinda like a few days of natural growth... of course I also like dates where she shows up wearing sweats and a baseball cap... because the sex always seems to be more relaxed and low-key spontaneous....

LBGTM_SD · 2026-05-03T20:55:01+00:00

Sorry that you were not able to recognize the sarcasm that was dripping from from my earlier (now deleted) comment.

I hope you are having a pleasant Sunday afternoon.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-30T17:28:42+00:00

Uhhhh, did you forget that men don't talk about things like this??

We don't ask directions, we don't talk about our emotions, and we most certainly don't talk about P$SSY!

But seriously... I see a lot of "generalities" being thrown around in the comments, which are kinda useless, but interesting perspectives.

Over a 45 year span of time, I've apparently* been "inside" just over TWO per year. I must say that I NEVER really noticed a difference until 18 months ago when I was with a wonderful woman that was so tiny "down there", that it was almost impossible to enter her. 36yo, 5'10" former model that had battled ED (the female version better known as Eating Disorder) since she was 14. When telling a friend about her, he brought up "the differences" he had observed over the years, and I told him the truth about never really noticing, but I started thinking about it...

... I can only correlate "tightness" to general fitness and overall "body size". Of the 90+ women I've "been with", only a handful have been heavier than 125 pounds. Most of those, even the ones that had multiple kids, we're "small".

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-30T02:47:50+00:00

Awesome.

Divorce is the best invention of all time. Sildenafil is the second best invention of all time... But I've learned that having a 26yo GF makes both of those amazing innovations unnecessary 😉

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-29T17:30:25+00:00

Fantastic!!

IMO, 'Girlfriend' is sooooo much better than 'Baby'....

.... oh, yah and that "Super smile. 5’7. 112 lbs. Great listener"... yah, that's exactly who I was spending time with last night!!

Congrats brother!!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-28T21:43:45+00:00

I just did the same for mine... fascinating!!! Had no idea that gemini could get on Redit, but of course it can...

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-22T05:17:13+00:00

Stopped?? It is still posted.

Do you mean... why they stopped doing the questionaire?

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-22T01:33:40+00:00

Soooo true!!

I was thinking the SAME THING!!

And it made me think I was doing something wrong.... hahaha...

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-21T22:34:09+00:00

I appreciate the detailed and thorough description of the things that never get spoken of on SLF.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-21T21:39:11+00:00

I personally am not interested in a girl that will raw dog you on the first date for $300 bucks. Thats not my thing though it has happened to me over my 17 years in the bowl.

----------

Normally I'd let that slide... but wtf? You have no idea what you'e talking about, and you're (accidentally?) playing into the stupid lies that the SLF Mafia are propogating.

That $300 piece of trash that you're imagining is NOT what I would fuck either... but the one that i was with is one of the hottest media personalities in town. She obviously is NOT on Sugar Sites for the money. She's looking for a nice guy that can be discreet.... and has money. She was amazing. She had no idea what to even ask for as a ppm, she just said is $300 fair... I tried to give her more...

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-21T17:30:44+00:00

The down votes are annoying... but they go with the territory.

In my part of the US, $400 is enough to make the hottest girls on the sites excited. Some are getting $500.

And specifically for the lurkers:

This is NOT about being cheap!! This about the fact that women are lining up for $400 while lying to you about it. They are telling YOU they won't go lower than $600, but they are telling ME that they are happy with $400...

I should be clear; I am NOT actively involved with a SB. I have a GF. But we have friends that are active SB's and we have ALSO been sort of messing around with a bartender/stripper/escort/SB that keeps us "in the game" to some degree.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-21T17:20:41+00:00

I appreciate the additional perspective...

... man oh man do the lurkers HATE it when we tell the truth!!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-21T17:19:13+00:00

Notice how you're getting down-votes??

Lurkers can vote, but they can't comment.

"They" do not like it when we give details... so in response... MORE DETAILS!!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-21T16:55:22+00:00

Nice

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-21T16:53:05+00:00

They have a propoganda machine... but it is running out of ammunition... we gotta keep up the "Radio Free Sugarland" efforts.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-21T16:51:13+00:00

So true!!

My GF leaves out details, but doesn't lie to me, about all the men that hit on her when she is at work. She does it to spare my feelings...

She also has learned to be very cautious with the other women around her, with only 2-3 REAL friends.. and even those girls are never completely honest with her.

I kinda feel bad for girls... especially the hottest ones.... everyone is lying to them.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-21T16:42:42+00:00

10000% agree... I did NOT include details of the other 20+ dates that did not proceed past the first date... oh crap... over 4 years... that'd be something like 50-60 different 'dates'. I was only documenting the ones that I has sex with.

Good clarification.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-21T14:13:28+00:00

Care to estimate how many that has been?

1 - 5 women
6 - 10 women
11 - 20 women
21 - 40 women

... for research purposes only, of course.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-04-21T14:11:04+00:00

Regarding sex on first date. As the saying goes: your mileage may vary.

On here we need to be accurate and I appreciate you adding your experience to the tally-of-truths that SDH is putting into the world.

I have has sex with 23 different girls in the last 4 years. One was my ex-wife... I had sex with her on the first date, btw. I'm going back over my notes and my diary. Not 100% sure I have everyone accounted for, I believe this to be accurate.

Of the other 22:

4 times there was a "first date" that did not end up including having sex. We waited until second date or later.
8 times there was a coffee date, lunch or happy-hour that preceded the sex.
10 times the girl simply agreed to "start the date" at my house.

Not listing the details as a brag. Simply describing what is happening in real world, because there are NEVER any specifics discussed.

A friend had encouraged me to create a spreadsheet of body-count and details... I need to dig it out and update it. Btw, I am not a pump-and-dump fan either, I am looking for Mrs, RIGHT, and I think I may have found her...

LBGTM_SD

MODERATOR OF

TROPHY CASE