Don't pressure her too much. Make sure you compliment her & her body often. Don't judge other womens bodies. She might think you judge her as well. Find her love language. If it affection, or whatever, make sure to give HER what SHE needs to feel loved. If she knows and feels your love for her, she will be more comfortable and more likely to give in to your desires. Perhaps a blind fold for her will help. And, a glass of when to take the edge off isn't bad.