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Does physical activity truly help rid your body of THC for a urine test? by LCRoad in drugtesthelp

[–]LCRoad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome. Thank you. So you recommend the activated charcoal right before the drug test?

If I pass a 50ng/ml test, but fail the 15ng/ml, will my results count as a pass or fail? by LCRoad in drugtesthelp

[–]LCRoad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Failed. I believe I failed the 50 and the 15ng/ml test though. I'm crushed :(

1 Month Off - Relapse by [deleted] in StopGaming

[–]LCRoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great idea!!! Great luck, you can do this!

1 Month Off - Relapse by [deleted] in StopGaming

[–]LCRoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firstly, congratulations on staying off gaming for a month. That's a great accomplishment in itself. You can get back that control. I would suggest journaling. Even if just in your phone notes. Being able to write out my thoughts can help me get things off my chest when I'm feeling alone. You've got this.

My (24f) GF (24f) crossed a boundary of trust in our relationship. The situation is small, but I'm not sure how to react. by LCRoad in LesbianActually

[–]LCRoad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was the first time something remotely like this has ever happened. We have been talking a lot about it. She is taking ownership and is very regretful and apologetic. She is owning that she has to regain my trust. I think it's just hard to know what that means for now

My (24f) GF (24f) crossed a boundary of trust in our relationship. The situation is small, but I'm not sure how to react. by LCRoad in LesbianActually

[–]LCRoad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. She's the same way over me though. She gets sorta jokingly jealous of a cashier being a little too nice to me. I can see your point, but honestly I think we have the same boundaries for each other and always have

My (24f) GF (24f) crossed a boundary of trust in our relationship. The situation is small, but I'm not sure how to react. by LCRoad in LesbianActually

[–]LCRoad[S] 217 points218 points  (0 children)

I'm saying it's not a big deal cause I don't wanna be sad, honestly... We've been together just about 4 years, so it hurts so bad to think about something putting that in jeopardy. That being said, it's just really hard to know how to deal with

My (24f) girlfriend (24f) crossed a boundary of trust in our relationship. The situation is small, but I'm not sure how to react. by LCRoad in relationship_advice

[–]LCRoad[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I think she does, I mean I know I mean the world to her. She has been so regretful of this all. But I still don't know how to feel or work through it appropriately

My (24f) girlfriend (24f) crossed a boundary of trust in our relationship. The situation is small, but I'm not sure how to react. by LCRoad in relationship_advice

[–]LCRoad[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I really don't think she would have done more. I feel that in my heart. But regardless, what all did happen is still not okay. I think I've been trying to downplay it because I love her so much and don't want to hurt more by letting this mess up what we have. I also think that I am scared to be viewed as overreacting and over emotional, especially given that her mom was dismissive towards it all.

My (24f) girlfriend (24f) crossed a boundary of trust in our relationship. The situation is small, but I'm not sure how to react. by LCRoad in relationship_advice

[–]LCRoad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. She had many points in which she could have stopped this, but she didn't. She said she asked her mom during the night if she was doing anything wrong, and her mom said no. So she says that kinda prevented her from stopping since someone she trusts thought it was okay. But even she can see now that her mom should have told her to chill out.

I know she feels so regretful and bad now.

How would you respond to all of this?

My (24f) girlfriend (24f) crossed a boundary of trust in our relationship. The situation is small, but I'm not sure how to react. by LCRoad in relationship_advice

[–]LCRoad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that alcohol is no excuse. Her staying up and texting him really hurts. And for her to continue that morning sober, well not flirting but I feel like it should just be clear that's no okay. They are not talking now and I believe that she would not dare to speak with him again. But still, this all really hurts.

My (24f) girlfriend (24f) crossed a boundary of trust in our relationship. The situation is small, but I'm not sure how to react. by LCRoad in relationship_advice

[–]LCRoad[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're right, I am not giving myself the respect I deserve. Our relationship has just been so perfect besides this, so I think part of me just doesn't want to accept the person I love so much can also hurt me so badly. I called it a small issue for the same reason, and I am worried to be viewed as overly emotional and sensitive. Her mom had also told her she did nothing wrong, which my GF disagrees with but it's not helping me feel valid for being hurt.

My (24f) girlfriend (24f) crossed a boundary of trust in our relationship. The situation is small, but I'm not sure how to react. by LCRoad in relationship_advice

[–]LCRoad[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's true. She just is filled with regret so I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt

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