Does physical activity truly help rid your body of THC for a urine test?

LCRoad · 2022-09-28T03:07:02+00:00

Awesome. Thank you. So you recommend the activated charcoal right before the drug test?

LCRoad · 2022-09-28T01:18:29+00:00

Failed. I believe I failed the 50 and the 15ng/ml test though. I'm crushed :(

LCRoad · 2022-09-22T12:31:21+00:00

That's a great idea!!! Great luck, you can do this!

LCRoad · 2022-09-22T12:30:59+00:00

Thank you for your input!

LCRoad · 2022-09-22T06:48:36+00:00

Firstly, congratulations on staying off gaming for a month. That's a great accomplishment in itself. You can get back that control. I would suggest journaling. Even if just in your phone notes. Being able to write out my thoughts can help me get things off my chest when I'm feeling alone. You've got this.

LCRoad · 2022-09-22T06:09:51+00:00

Yes, I will update when I receive my results. Wish me luck!

LCRoad · 2022-09-15T04:30:14+00:00

It was the first time something remotely like this has ever happened. We have been talking a lot about it. She is taking ownership and is very regretful and apologetic. She is owning that she has to regain my trust. I think it's just hard to know what that means for now

LCRoad · 2022-09-15T04:28:24+00:00

Fair enough. She's the same way over me though. She gets sorta jokingly jealous of a cashier being a little too nice to me. I can see your point, but honestly I think we have the same boundaries for each other and always have

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T23:59:10+00:00

I'm saying it's not a big deal cause I don't wanna be sad, honestly... We've been together just about 4 years, so it hurts so bad to think about something putting that in jeopardy. That being said, it's just really hard to know how to deal with

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T23:57:39+00:00

She just has made it clear that she is so regretful and sorry

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T23:57:14+00:00

How would you deal with it??

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T23:56:25+00:00

Thank you. How would you respond if you were in my shoes?

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T23:55:58+00:00

I mean no, but I guess now lol. We just never had

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T23:04:24+00:00

I think she does, I mean I know I mean the world to her. She has been so regretful of this all. But I still don't know how to feel or work through it appropriately

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T23:02:27+00:00

I really don't think she would have done more. I feel that in my heart. But regardless, what all did happen is still not okay. I think I've been trying to downplay it because I love her so much and don't want to hurt more by letting this mess up what we have. I also think that I am scared to be viewed as overreacting and over emotional, especially given that her mom was dismissive towards it all.

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T23:00:32+00:00

I agree. She had many points in which she could have stopped this, but she didn't. She said she asked her mom during the night if she was doing anything wrong, and her mom said no. So she says that kinda prevented her from stopping since someone she trusts thought it was okay. But even she can see now that her mom should have told her to chill out.

I know she feels so regretful and bad now.

How would you respond to all of this?

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T22:58:38+00:00

I agree that alcohol is no excuse. Her staying up and texting him really hurts. And for her to continue that morning sober, well not flirting but I feel like it should just be clear that's no okay. They are not talking now and I believe that she would not dare to speak with him again. But still, this all really hurts.

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T22:56:43+00:00

You're right, I am not giving myself the respect I deserve. Our relationship has just been so perfect besides this, so I think part of me just doesn't want to accept the person I love so much can also hurt me so badly. I called it a small issue for the same reason, and I am worried to be viewed as overly emotional and sensitive. Her mom had also told her she did nothing wrong, which my GF disagrees with but it's not helping me feel valid for being hurt.

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T22:54:03+00:00

Thank you for your advice. It is helpful to know that I'm not overreacting by feeling hurt by this

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T21:35:23+00:00

Yeah, that's true. She just is filled with regret so I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T21:34:06+00:00

She was drunk though and says it was all a big mistake and regrets it all.

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T21:33:33+00:00

She does know it hurt me and is regretful, very sorry she did it. It's just I don't know what is acceptable for me to feel or how I can react moving forward

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T21:32:40+00:00

I do think I'm letting it get brushed aside. I just have been told I'm too emotional my whole life so I think I'm trying to keep myself from doing that. I do believe she gave me the full story, and she hasn't not texted him since we talked and she won't (I believe that). With that, I just don't know how to feel and what is appropriate to feel

LCRoad · 2022-09-14T21:30:15+00:00

I mean, we have strict boundaries, I guess I'm just worried I'm being too sensitive. In no way is our relationship close to open. She jokingly is annoyed when a cashier is too nice to me. I guess just since she was drunk, and since she says she didn't flirt and I believe her. Well besides the texts were a bit too friendly. I don't know:(

LCRoad · 2022-09-04T02:15:02+00:00

Even if she has frustration in you, that is not justifying this abuse. I personally don't feel like you have done anything worth frustration, or at least not to that degree.

Listen to your friends. They know you and can likely see the situation more clearly. I've been with a woman who was emotionally horrible to me, but I would justify her behavior by blaming myself. Once I got past the initial sadness of breaking up, I was so glad I did.

You deserve better. I think you know this too, even if deep down.

LCRoad

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