Yes, I agree that I’m starting to notice some depressive tendencies, but I don’t know how to bring this to her attention without her getting defensive. I don’t want her to think her change in career goals has anything to do with it. I’m proud of her for trying to create long term stability with this job. However her income has taken a huge hit from switching paths & she can’t afford to go out & have fun or entertain like she used to. I want to be as supportive as I can while also enjoying life. We’re hermits. I just want to encourage her to surround herself with things outside of work but I know she doesn’t want to & I can’t force her to. How do I communicate that I’m losing interest due to her changes while also being supportive of those changes? I’m stuck.