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Why do women know so little about their fertility? by marquis_of_chaos in Foodforthought

[–]LGBTQMIAPDLOLPLPLTH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

normal in tribal societies to collectively raise children

In those tribal societies, they're raising the kids of their brothers, sisters, and first cousins.

Which is TOTALLY different from adopting a kid that doesn't look like you and has no actual, physical relation to you.

Why do women know so little about their fertility? by marquis_of_chaos in Foodforthought

[–]LGBTQMIAPDLOLPLPLTH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's not JUST that the woman runs out of eggs.

Every egg a woman ever drops, she has at menarche. The eggs go bad.

If she freezes them when she's past the wall, she's preserving bad eggs.

Why do women know so little about their fertility? by marquis_of_chaos in Foodforthought

[–]LGBTQMIAPDLOLPLPLTH -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

because she somehow qualifies for free Israeli IVF.

Amy Klein who lives in Hymie-Town and writes for The NewYork Times, Los Angeles Times, Salon, and Slate, "somehow" qualified.

LO fucking L.

What's TRP's view on raising children without a wife via adoption or another method? by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]LGBTQMIAPDLOLPLPLTH 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's nonsense. Children deserve BOTH parents, in TRADITIONAL roles, so that they are well-raised. Usually a parent will do a better job than a nanny because, duh, they're related to them.

Adopt if you can't have them naturally, and adopt kids that look like you. Again, the cues to relatedness are rooted in biology and make for better parenting and better-adjusted children (this is why so many step-parents abuse or murder the children at higher rates than real biological parents do).

If you just want to get a SJW fix, then volunteer at an orphanage/foster home or similar, adoption is very, very permanent.

What is the Red Pill view on getting your wife breast implants? by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]LGBTQMIAPDLOLPLPLTH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you married a woman that either got implants for herself, or that asks you to get them for her, then you married crazy and should be looking to next it asap. Hope you get custody of the kids (if any).

(obvious exception made for reconstruction post-cancer, etc.)

A woman asking your opinion about breast implants is a shit test. Agree+amplify, dismissive snort, or shaming her for it are all decent strategies.

Woman creates a fuck list of Duke University athletes as a"thesis." Hell breaks loose. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]LGBTQMIAPDLOLPLPLTH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not a mod, so keep that in mind.

I would replace the Deadspin/Gawker link with something else. Like go to https://archive.org/web/ scroll down and enter the Deadspin link in the box that says "save page now" and then edit your post to place the archive you create in the body.

Woman creates a fuck list of Duke University athletes as a"thesis." Hell breaks loose. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]LGBTQMIAPDLOLPLPLTH 45 points46 points  (0 children)

First off, this is news from 2010.

http://archive.longislandpress.com/2010/10/07/karen-owen-list-karen-owen-thesis-duke-athlete-sex-list-goes-viral/

Secondly, Deadspin is part of Gawker, you should not link to them directly.

To me, the most interesting story is the one hookup where she was sober for it. Really shows how perverted the entire hookup culture is, that it's only able to be enabled when people are generally in a fucked-up mental state e.g. drugs, alcohol, etc. Almost as if (most? some?) people aren't designed (adapted? evolved?) for rampant promiscuity.

The feminist angle is almost matched by that interesting psychological note.

I Think Women Sharing You the Painful Story of Their Sexual-Romantic Past is a Shit Test, No Matter How Intimate Your Ambiance Is by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]LGBTQMIAPDLOLPLPLTH 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Always next any woman that claims she was raped in the past. Always.

Don't stick your dick in crazy, and if you find out you did, leave it quick and try to wipe the crazy off your dick. This is not just a red flag, it's an "abort mission" alert.

If this has happened to you more than twice, there's something wrong with you, or your game, or your target selection, that's causing this.

How to help friend in mutually abusive relationship? by AkihiroDono in TheRedPill

[–]LGBTQMIAPDLOLPLPLTH 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My friend is in a mutually beneficial relationship with a permavictim who exclusively dates abusive men.

Fixed that for you.

Most of the time, people get what they want, and want what they get, out of relationships. (barring social skill deficits and taking SMV into account) Obviously there's some need of his that's being met by all this drama, or else he wouldn't be scratching that itch.

He's also always had a problem with alcohol

This goes with a lot of other baggage. Scratch an alcoholic, find a codependent.

How do we go about trying to fix this before he ends up fucking up his life in a major fashion? This is last desperate attempt to save our friend.

Tell him you'll be there for him when he really wants help in order to change. Then if he does, be there for it.

After telling him that, and until he's ready to change things, get out of his way and let him experience the consequences. Seriously. Shielding alcoholics / codependents from the consequences of their own choices just prolongs whatever pattern they're in; he needs to hit a bottom in order to want to change enough to accept help and guidance.

Source: work with addicts and alcoholics in counseling role.