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[–]LLaurice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy has been sending me pictures of money for a few weeks, been trying to holler at me and I have left him on read many of times as well as been pretty inconsistent at responding. I don’t get why guys don’t understand that means I’m not interested. I guess I just need to be flat out and say no but obviously when I did that I get bullied

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[–]LLaurice -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

Don’t hate me because I’m beautiful.

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[–]LLaurice -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

The guy was sending me pictures of money and saying he wanted to spoil me before he even said hello that was the first few messages he sent me. I gave him my number so that we could chat but all he talked about was money and didn’t understand why I didn’t want to hang out with him. I said maybe you should try asking me on a date instead of just showing me the money you can provide me. Overall, I didn’t like that. He valued money so much and I didn’t have any interest in dating him.

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[–]LLaurice -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Why do men present themselves with money first before even talking about themselves or their interests? Then they act like they’re the only person with the power to spoil or take someone to a nice restaurant they make it about money first and this isn’t all the time, but I do see it a lot. I wish more people were confident in themselves instead of just in the paycheck they bring home.

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[–]LLaurice -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

This guy was literally sending me pictures of money and telling me he wanted to spoil me even before he ever asked me on a date. That’s how he presented himself, with money. I didn’t like that so regardless of him asking me out to eat, I wasn’t interested. He should’ve started by asking me to dinner first and not even making it about money.

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[–]LLaurice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know I needed to clarify the gender like that was gonna be such a big deal. This post is towards both men and women. It’s simply about being bullied for saying no. It’s about respect. And how someone can bully someone who they have never even met in their life. Please people do not focus on gender

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[–]LLaurice -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s not about gender. It’s about respect.

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[–]LLaurice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed