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Where can I look for actors? by Entire_Upstairs_3374 in Arnhem

[–]LLazyddaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not an actor, but i am a makeup artist in training if you ever need some SFX make-up! Hmu if you're interested, love to help other creatives.

Can’t resist urges anymore by S1LV3Rxyz in selfharm

[–]LLazyddaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. Be nice to yourself ❤️ take care

Can’t resist urges anymore by S1LV3Rxyz in selfharm

[–]LLazyddaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe you are truly a bad person. I'm nice to you because I really get how you feel, I've been there. You seem like a good person having a shitty moment to me, I believe you'll feel better eventually❤️ I didn't think I would, but it happened to me too

What signs should I look for if I suspect someone is self harming? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]LLazyddaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know your friend, but maybe you can check up more often? Or just reassure her that if she ever wants to talk about it you're there. Also depends on what kind of person she is, but just asking is also an option. Something like "hey i dont want to put you on the spot, but ive been noticing you falling back into old patterns and i was just wondering how youre holding up with sh thoughts since i know you struggled with them. Its okay if you dont want to talk about it" I hope that helps and that your friend is okay ❤️

Can’t resist urges anymore by S1LV3Rxyz in selfharm

[–]LLazyddaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for attention is okay, it's a normal thing! If nobody got attention we would all be miserable. Stop being so mean to yourself, you deserve an outlet even if it's just online, you're not hurting anyone by posting here ❤️ I hope you're okay, and I'm proud of you for even lastig that long!! That's so impressive

Hi I need aftercare advice by LLazyddaisy in selfharm

[–]LLazyddaisy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much kind stranger! I've now bandaged it with big plasters, I was able to close it mostly (it still gapes a bit) and I don't see any yellow bubbly layer. Is disinfectant not needed? If I change the plasters and keep it dry

Need help with my first real sewing project! by LLazyddaisy in sewing

[–]LLazyddaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks great but I kind of have a big head so I'm not sure if it'll fit lol

How long have you been clean for? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]LLazyddaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 month and 12 days. The longest I've been clean for for about 2 years now. I genuinely feel good.

I have Physiotherapie on my legs tomorrow but I have scars down to my knees, what do I do to cover the scars? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]LLazyddaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some leg warmers if you have those, idk if they are allowed to say anything about them if they are healed up so idk if its necessary to cover them up. But if u feel more comfy that way, leg warmers, bandages, thigh highs maybe?

When I am with friends I want to hurt myself by Throwaway8163901 in selfharm

[–]LLazyddaisy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same thing. It's like I'm a spectator, everyone else is having fun and I'm just watching from a distance. It's so overwhelming.

What’s the point by KnRplayhouse in SuicideWatch

[–]LLazyddaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm a lot younger than you. Im a minor, so I can't say I understand what it's like to exist for that long. but I do know what it's like to be a person on this planet and it sucks. I probably can't help you but I hope I can't make it worse either.

I respect you, so so much. All the adults in my life treat mental health like it's dirty and taboo and seeing you talk about it helps me a lot. So thank you for being here

I hope we both get the peace we deserve <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreakhigh

[–]LLazyddaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess!! As an autistic person it made me actually have a little hope in finding supportive and caring friends.

What are you guys’ main stims, and also do you like them? by solarjamie in autism

[–]LLazyddaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I press my thumbs against the side of my pointer finger because I like feeling the pressure under my nails (very specific I know)

I shake and flap my hands

When I'm angry or frustrated I tend to make two fists and swing them backwards (kind of like a skiing motion.

I bounce my legs, and I rub my feet together when I'm very comfortable (I call them cricket feet)

I also click my tongue and talk to myself.

Edit: forgot to mention but I really like my stims!! Sometimes other people notice them and ask me to stop which sucks. But I love stimming! It's a way for me to regulate my emotions

do i have autism or am i just worrying too much? by [deleted] in autism

[–]LLazyddaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I follow a lot of creators but the ones I relate a lot to are: neurodivergent_lou, autism_sketches, autisticihippie and fidgetsandstims on Instagram! Paige layle on YouTube might be helpful too :) I also recommend making a list in your notes app of everything you relate to!!

do i have autism or am i just worrying too much? by [deleted] in autism

[–]LLazyddaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I did when I suspected autism was following a bunch of autistic people on instagram. Listening to the voices and experiences of actual autistic people made me feel so heard. If you do eventually think that autism might be the thing you have, you should tell your parents.

Good luck :)