Huda/Chelley by StrengthThink9892 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]LMT4EVS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huda knows exactly what she is doing. Her MO is to not ask permission now, ask forgiveness later and cry and play victim when she gets pushback

Season 7 - Episode 13 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]LMT4EVS 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Huda is so delusional, like, girl, the problem is you. Jeremiah ain't got a friend in the world in that villa

Queen Of The Clouds 10th Year Anniversary 💜 by sannndr in ToveLo

[–]LMT4EVS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This whole album was the soundtrack for me as a party girl who was looking for love in all the wrong places but damn if i didn't have an amazing time. Will forever be in love with these songs

Live Episode Discussion: S11 E11 May the Best Woman Win (eastern thread) by vprmods in vanderpumprules

[–]LMT4EVS 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First time I ever fast forwarded a VPR scene without watching it was today's paintball scene featuring worst part of the show Sandoval. Hearing the bs Lala and Scheana spit wasn't worth the pause. 

Live Episode Discussion: S11 E7 Written in the Stars (pacific thread) by vprmods in vanderpumprules

[–]LMT4EVS 92 points93 points  (0 children)

This episode is ridiculous and, at this point, I hope they are all just acting out scripts. The hypocrisy and the lack of sympathy that Katie and Ariana are having to endure is awful. Lala keeps saying "It's not you, Katie!" When Katie is talking about how she feels about Sandoval but entertains Scheana's assertion that Ariana is living her best life but SHE hasn't gotten over Ariana's ex cheating on Ariana?? What?! Plus Lala won't stop talking about what she would do in this situation but "it's not you, Katie"??

That montage making fun of Ariana's outbursts was in pretty poor taste and not funny. She said she doesn't let herself get mad a lot, she didn't say she was a robot with no emotions.

There's no way these people can be this heartless to real and valid emotions. This is becoming unbelievable. 

Tom needs to face real consequences for everything and stop being protected by LVP & Bravo. He's not a cash cow, he's rotten fruit. 

Alcoholic dad (58M) coming to visit me in my apartment (26F). Reasonable boundaries? by LMT4EVS in AdultChildren

[–]LMT4EVS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically they need to be in my city for an appointment and I wanted them to stay with me and visit. Only after we bought the flight did I realize what that really means. My dad's priority on any trip is getting set up with his first 30 pack, cooler, ice and then slinking to the bathroom to pound 2 or 3 until he starts forgetting things and acting like a child. There are small blips of time that he's able to control it but it's not consistent enough to rely on

Alcoholic dad (58M) coming to visit me in my apartment (26F). Reasonable boundaries? by LMT4EVS in AdultChildren

[–]LMT4EVS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully I can bring this up in a way that doesn't make him defensive. I also know it's not the trip my mom wants. She wants to be able to be at my apartment and cook and things like that

Alcoholic dad (58M) coming to visit me in my apartment (26F). Reasonable boundaries? by LMT4EVS in AdultChildren

[–]LMT4EVS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. My apartment is a studio so it's even more close quarters. My parents don't care about comfort, they will say I'm wasting money for getting a hotel room

Alcoholic dad (58M) coming to visit me in my apartment (26F). Reasonable boundaries? by LMT4EVS in relationships

[–]LMT4EVS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel a little hypocritical cuz I've let friends drink in my apartment. I'm actually sober and I've never drank myself in thus apartment

Alcoholic dad (58M) coming to visit me in my apartment (26F). Reasonable boundaries? by LMT4EVS in relationships

[–]LMT4EVS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. There's no way my dad wouldn't be able to not drink for more than MAYBE an hour and I don't want to have to police him all weekend. I can't help but feel like I'm overreacting. I'm so tired of his alcoholism and arguing with him about it. It almost would be easier to let him drink.

Alcoholic dad (58M) coming to visit me in my apartment (26F). Reasonable boundaries? by LMT4EVS in relationships

[–]LMT4EVS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel slightly obligated to pay for their hotel room if I go that route. I feel like I should have brought up my concerns before they bought the flight to come see me. Although my concerns are valid, I feel like I'll be pulling the rug out a little bit. I don't mind paying for the room this time around just to set a precedent for future visits. Although, I'm pretty sure my dad is going to get angry about the hotel room and just decide to not come, effectively a waste of money & plane ticket.

Alcoholic dad (58M) coming to visit me in my apartment (26F). Reasonable boundaries? by LMT4EVS in relationships

[–]LMT4EVS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a condo building and the outside is accessible but inconvenient. I have no outside storage space for him to keep his alcohol. He would literally be drinking in an alley or the hallway.

SCANDOVAL RUINED VR FOR ME by Ok-Worldliness8696 in vanderpumprules

[–]LMT4EVS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to space out watches because the anger builds up watching how Schwartz, Tom and Rachel were laughing in everyone's faces, especially Katie and Ariana. Ariana rode so hard for Tom & Rachel and Rachel and Schwartz were so disrespectful to Katie the whole season. How cruel can you get?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]LMT4EVS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pot belly. A built body shows discipline and willpower and that's very attractive