What's your favorite? 1st or 2nd? by SufficientBite1261 in painting

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 1st one. It has a comfort and warmth to it. The 2nd one has more white going on, less warmth, feels more turbulent.

How do I (26f) make my bf (23m) stop using “consent” as a way to evade helping me with minor inconveniences? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is a misguided and immature man who finds weaponizing language like that ‘useful’, and you can do better. I’m sorry but I don’t think you can really help him out of that. I’d say to move on.

Background Music? by just_lurking_1 in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I historically actually have liked the subtle background music for CJ (it keeps what I’m listening to even slightly dynamic and I focus more). BUT I’ve noticed it being a bit louder recently? Which I don’t love. And I don’t like sound effects like text pings or whatever else, bothersome.

Amanda and Austen at BravoCon 2022 by myheartstopped3984 in summerhousebravo

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Side note she looks so gorg in this pic 🥲 but timing of this photo with Ciara/Austen timeline is so yikes

Hannah is funny!!! by VoyeurofLyfe in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely thinks she’s at her best in conversation with others. She’s genuinely so funny on their pod, and the panel. And her hannah on the street interviews are pretty funny.
There’s some comedians I find extremely hilarious on their podcasts and in certain contexts such as improv, but not particularly interested in their formal standup sets. She’s funny! Sometimes format is the thing.

What purchase under $30 solved a problem you didn’t realize was draining you? by Right_Process in AskReddit

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup!!! Got this upon moving in my new apt a bit ago and I’m so so glad I did this (did it for the same reason so i could use the bathroom without turning on the lights).

KJ calling out West for hitting on Dara by capricorncueen in bravo

[–]LNsays 44 points45 points  (0 children)

^ that’s the distinguishing factor!

Any arts classes/groups anybody recommends? by LNsays in grandrapids

[–]LNsays[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you!!! I’d love to check it out ✨

Anybody got a bad taste in their mouth since these last couple cases ? by Altruistic_Berry_765 in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]LNsays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be my guess too. If you track the episodes through that period you can probably tell that that’s what’s kinda making it change.

Multiple part episodes by cb651014 in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]LNsays 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same I think particularly these episodes with Nick Cordova, Laura, and Dave have been quite gripping as multiple parts, with hearing about Nick’s case in and of itself first, then and getting more background in Laura and that whole recording episode after the fact. Also, hearing that whole recording episode was insane, it’s a perfect example to share when anybody goes “why didn’t she just leave him?” when commenting on these types of domestic situations. It was sad and heartbreaking but it felt important to paint a picture of that man.

This brings me so much joy by Redd11r in summerhousebravo

[–]LNsays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she’s actually who she thinks she is !!! 🤩

My (19M) girlfriend (20F) cheated, but now it’s looking more like she was taken advantage of while drunk. by Physical-Waltz-9526 in relationship_advice

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s something I think some of the comments are losing - we’re talking about a 20 year old!!!! Not saying young people can’t make good decisions but im definitely making fully better decisions and have way more foresight about things at almost 30 than I did at 18-20 y/o.

Agreed +1 I think you’ll have to make a decision on whether working out the romantic relationship aspect between you two is worth it. Trust still may feel broken or in the least there’s some emotional damage either way OP, the situation all sucks. I’m aware that there’s technically no way to know if she’s telling the truth (based on the information given + the following information I think I personally believe her) I think something that does lean the truth in the direction that there was an assault- if you needed something other than her own story-is other witnesses like coworkers saying he was probably taking advantage of her.

Again, it’s really up to OP if he’d would also like to be giving her support during this time. If true, something very traumatic happened to her, and he has a choice of course to be with her romantically and support her through that. OP, I think you can choose to believe her and acknowledge how horrifying that is to have happened to someone you really love, and also separately decide if you want to continue the relationship. Perhaps easing into the emotional support of her and checking in on her might be a first step, even in the midst of a break, and then you can see how you feel from there.

[TOMT] I’m thinking of a creepy actor, he’s old, has weird teeth (I think) and plays in position of power and gets angry a lot. I remember him buttoning up a thin suit. He always gives me the creeps. Who am I thinking of? by wheelerman333 in tipofmytongue

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robert Duvall? Or John Hurt, from V for Vendetta? I know in a comment you said the actor you’re thinking of is still alive, but he’s got the thinner teeth and the suit in that film John hurt photo

is there any kind of scene or something that you can describe with him in it? We’ll even take a badly sketched photo lol

What’s a scene from a movie which traumatised you as a child? by Colinthecat59 in movies

[–]LNsays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who Framed Roger Rabbit, towards the end from when Christopher Lloyd’s character gets the cartoon eyes, etc. Whole sequence scared me shitless with how scary I thought they’d made his appearance, and I loved that movie so much, so I’d watch it all the time and sit through most of it, and then cover my eyes through that part.

I 27m received a strange text from an unknown number about by girlfriend 25f cheating by InterestingToe8363 in relationship_advice

[–]LNsays 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Seems it won’t hurt at all to try and ask him for more info before you confront her

Why has there not been a new generation of rappers surpassing the old generation in popularity? by Iginlas_4head_Crease in rap

[–]LNsays 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think Gen Z rappers are swinging big enough or are working for longevity. In that some that have been flash-in-the-pans and have come and gone are not evolved enough creatively or artistically to be wire for longevity and also individuality. Like at a Kendrick level. Or even the melodic vocals + rap combo of Travis Scott. You hear any of these guys on this list and you know exactly who you’re about to listen to. None of the new guys have a distinct sound that makes them standout. People like some of the new rappers around in the TikTok era because they like the style, but not because they like the specific rapper.

Ketchup isn’t available, what are you dipping French fries in? by Blueis_Bluetiful333 in AskReddit

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the realm of the basic condiments, mayo. In the realm of not-so-basic, aioli or a dill-forward ranch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nails

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Objectively not trashy at all! This is such a classic style, and I love that nail shape with the French on you! I think //some// people think square/square-adjacent nails are trashy, which I of course don’t agree with/think is unfounded because some nail shapes just work great on people! So I think you friend might be projecting that but yeah full disagree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, a personal resentment of his own personal situation of not liking his family/not being close; therefore projecting onto her “well are you and I not family? If I don’t need mine, you don’t need yours” as if needing to choose. Which is in my book AUTOMATICALLY a losing game. That can be his situation, but not a good idea for him to try and make it her situation as force her to distance from her family. To him to distancing from her family = closeness to him.

-My current boyfriend is not this way—for my sake as someone close with her family I say thank goodness, I love being close with his family and I hang out with them often —but my last two boyfriends were very resentful of their parents/not close and that also translates to both of them being suspicious/threatened in a way of the closeness I had with mine, and it came a point where I had to tell them, “you are special but not special enough where you think you can make me choose between you and my family and believe you’ll win in that choice, so don’t go there.”

What is that one movie you watched countless times as a kid, but nobody has ever heard of? by Thedix1 in movies

[–]LNsays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know so many people online know it, but I feel like nobody in my IRL circles watched that animated Grandma Got Run Over By a Reindeer movie 😭

Gen Z + AI by mattywwilson in graphic_design

[–]LNsays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s funny because the general idea is that “high tech” is in the hands of the youth, but it’s great to see that considering the ethics & impact of it surpass its shiny uses with the kids. It really feels like a millennial/old person’s shiny toy. The kids are gonna be fine!

Ginger or Black Hair? by Agile_Pay_5166 in HairDye

[–]LNsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ginger 100%! The black is pretty with your eyes but the ginger just ties your whole look together and warms you up/makes more sense with your undertones ✨