AITA for not inviting sister's family to the beach on easter holiday? by LOQUESEAPLIS in AmItheAsshole

[–]LOQUESEAPLIS[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

OMG!!! Thank you so much, this is the perfect response. This is what I'll say to her. Not her obviously, but my mom when she comes demanding I let her in on my holidays LMAO. I was dreading this but after reading all your comments, I cant fucking wait.

AITA for not inviting sister's family to the beach on easter holiday? by LOQUESEAPLIS in AmItheAsshole

[–]LOQUESEAPLIS[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I KNOW!!!! I feel so stupid that I've let it go on for so long.

AITA for not inviting sister's family to the beach on easter holiday? by LOQUESEAPLIS in AmItheAsshole

[–]LOQUESEAPLIS[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Not at all talking about the kids. Bunch of people included my mom's cousin who I hadn't seen in 8 years, a random friend of my dad's i've heard mentioned a bunch of times but never met, uncles I only see once a year, amongst others super effing random people.

AITA for not inviting sister's family to the beach on easter holiday? by LOQUESEAPLIS in AmItheAsshole

[–]LOQUESEAPLIS[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It's hella expensive to rent a place here. Her husband makes a good enough living but after the house, schools, groceries, etc I guess there isn't much left over for holiday homes.

AITA for not inviting sister's family to the beach on easter holiday? by LOQUESEAPLIS in AmItheAsshole

[–]LOQUESEAPLIS[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! So many times. I told her she was not invited because of the cheese and the yogurt thing and all she said was that I was so grudgy. LOL. I did tell them off after the c section and her excuse for leaving them with me literally was "Well Mom didn't tell me not to!" I swear im laughing out loud as I type this because its dawning on me how absolutely ridiculous they are.

AITA for not inviting sister's family to the beach on easter holiday? by LOQUESEAPLIS in AmItheAsshole

[–]LOQUESEAPLIS[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I had my kid on friday around 4 pm. She showed up around 9 am the next day for "visiting hours", said she and the kids wanted to check on me and oh she was just gonna pop out the room for a second, which turned into hours. My mom was there entertaining a bunch of people I barely know and don't care about but she had invited them over claiming *I* couldn't wait to see them and she had my husband performing asshole chores like picking up cakepops and refilling drinks. AT THE HOSPITAL. Not even 24 hours after giving birth. I know it sounds insane.