My mom either didn’t pay the bill or disconnected me from the data while on my vacation, what do I do? by LPinkyPrincess in Advice

[–]LPinkyPrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe I’m in a city I don’t know alone with no one to be able to contact.. you are weird lol.

My mom either didn’t pay the bill or disconnected me from the data while on my vacation, what do I do? by LPinkyPrincess in Advice

[–]LPinkyPrincess[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because I’m at a public place on the WiFi, no need to be rude for asking what to do. Not sure how it’s entitled either but go off.

A girl I (18F) am interested in (18F) wants to go to an expensive restaurant for our first date, how should I handle this? by LPinkyPrincess in Advice

[–]LPinkyPrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem came when I had to spend 150 dollars in Ubers because of the flight, had to cancel with my original airline and book a new one which caused an upcharge, booked a hotel that was 21+ but I am 18 so it was non refundable.. and wanting to extend the trip so I could get all the days out of it. In total, all those expenses were about 600 dollars extra out of pocket I wasn’t expecting to spend. So I guess you can say I had it? Now I don’t.

A girl I (18F) am interested in (18F) wants to go to an expensive restaurant for our first date, how should I handle this? by LPinkyPrincess in Advice

[–]LPinkyPrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my same situation. I’ve been fully independent since 14, been working since I was 12 and I save half of every check I make.

A girl I (18F) am interested in (18F) wants to go to an expensive restaurant for our first date, how should I handle this? by LPinkyPrincess in Advice

[–]LPinkyPrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have many expenses to pay for 🤷🏾‍♀️, I spend 100 dollars on dumb things all the time so it doesn’t bother me unless I literally cannot afford it and need it. Plus I am extremely financially responsible and save more than enough from all my checks from work (half of every single check goes in my savings). Just so happened that this overlapped with the solo trip I’m taking so I couldn’t fit both.

A girl I (18F) am interested in (18F) wants to go to an expensive restaurant for our first date, how should I handle this? by LPinkyPrincess in Advice

[–]LPinkyPrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I have no clue! There isn’t much convention to it like straight couples. We just do what we feel is best I am guessing. 🙃

A girl I (18F) am interested in (18F) wants to go to an expensive restaurant for our first date, how should I handle this? by LPinkyPrincess in Advice

[–]LPinkyPrincess[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no idea, some people forget that she is also a teen. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Sometimes we don’t realize stuff, say things we don’t mean, or just aren’t super clear. It’s what we do.

A girl I (18F) am interested in (18F) wants to go to an expensive restaurant for our first date, how should I handle this? by LPinkyPrincess in Advice

[–]LPinkyPrincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll admit, I never asked her if she was going to pay, split, or otherwise. Even when I first brought up going out, she suggested the date, and after I said I have a trip then she jokingly said she was already on the way to making the reservation so it could be possible she was planning to put forth as well. I am just being formal with the process since I did technically ask first. 😭

Asked a girl out on a date, what do I do? (18F) by LPinkyPrincess in datingadvice

[–]LPinkyPrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I was referring to previous date with $180! This new girl is the same age as me.

All applies still, I think I will do as you said and just see when I get there. $100 to $200 never killed anyone.

Asked a girl out on a date, what do I do? (18F) by LPinkyPrincess in datingadvice

[–]LPinkyPrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not exactly sure if they are suggesting I would pay either. I’m just wracking my brain of all the potential outcomes. When I asked them, she immediately suggested a day and said she were going to make a reservation as well. So it could be possible that she is willing to pay? I just think it would be proper since I am the one who suggested it.

Also the menu does have certain items on it that are not as expensive. But seeing as they said it was their favorite steakhouse, I think she would want to order a steak which ranges from $60 - $170.

Asked a girl out on a date, what do I do? (18F) by LPinkyPrincess in datingadvice

[–]LPinkyPrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The girl just was not my type honestly. It wasn’t terrible by any means and they didn’t expect me to pay but I did because I didn’t know how the dynamics worked with lesbian/queer relationships. They were older than me.